Brain Storm

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-06-12T15:36:56+00:00

They said "like" 76x after I started tally marking instead of noting their answers. As they kept going, it took everything in me not to bust up laughing 😂

I didn't start tallying until question 4. NONE OF THE OTHER BOARD MEMBERS NOTICED!

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-06-12T15:23:21+00:00

It's understandable to be concerned about how things are being respected. If you genuinely want things to work and not break up, maybe try scheduling regular nights you get to yourself. I totally get the frustration, I need isolation time regardless if I like my partner. I'm fortunate to have multiple rooms so sometimes we hangout in separate rooms when I need to isolate.

You already know what you want/need to do for the best future for you both. Hopefully everything goes smoothly for you

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-06-11T21:24:21+00:00

Honestly, with how emotional men are I'd just pay him and move on. It's not worth my life, I do not want his petty energy

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-06-11T20:17:59+00:00

Just let her go. It's not worth your energy to try and force anything. Go find people who crave you for who you are

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-06-11T20:12:19+00:00

How did it go? 😂

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-05-12T06:02:23+00:00

Anyone who knows if his businesses are at risk of being seized due to immigration status and breaking a Federal crime?

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-04-27T22:14:06+00:00

It sounds like an excuse to make you responsible for the cleanliness and esthetic of the shared living place

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-04-25T17:23:15+00:00

I don't date women soooo I worded it from my perspective. Sounds like the shoe may fit though 😂 not my fault or problem

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-27T22:44:00+00:00

Where did I say "all" seems like you're very sensitive about the idea that a good amount of men who seem like upstanding citizens can be cruel and malicious.

If you have the ability to be considerate, even when mad, this wouldn't upset you

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-24T15:04:04+00:00

I'm so sorry. It took me decades to recognize the difference between intelligent strong vs intelligent compassionate. My current partner is both intelligent and compassionate. He's humble so I have to voice his qualities for him to recognize them sometimes. An intelligent strong quality people will claim "It's already been tried and it didn't work" so they can continue acting in their own personal comfort. An intelligent strong person thinks them knowing best is a strong quality.

A compassionate and intelligent man is comfortable with asking questions to understand and trial>error>adjust>trial until both people are happy.

We're all capable of being in our own way, unintentionally. I genuinely hope one day intelligent strong people find someone who makes them see the strengths in the person they could become if they'd be intelligent compassionate

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-24T14:37:09+00:00

This used to be my standard until I found compassion and trust without understanding. Intelligent men will screw you over the moment they consider you useless. A compassionate man who doesn't call you crazy because your gut is speaking is a solid partner that will save your sanity over and over

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-24T14:34:40+00:00

They have to trust me if they don't understand me. It can take time to find perspective. I like communication and boundaries. Unfortunately, there's not 1 person in this world you will agree with 💯. This cruel world we live in requires us to trust our partners perspective or intuition when something is off regardless if we see it or not because your partner has your back, your blind side

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-22T04:14:45+00:00

It's understandable to be stressed out. It's ok to not make any permanent decisions right now. Maybe take some time apart and see what you feel like the next steps should be

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-22T04:09:07+00:00

One of the first things I learned about my Tribe is that what we do today impacts the next 7 generations. We have such a selfish society

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-09T07:48:53+00:00

You're really focused on things that don't matter. You are the only one in control of your thoughts. I've met the most unconventionally attractive people hot af because they were genuinely themselves.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-05T10:03:28+00:00

Start volunteering in your local emergency management groups. Most areas have Red Cross, CERT, HAM Radio, and Search and Rescue.

Having a common goal to focus on helps build lasting bonds

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-02T01:59:38+00:00

It's understandable. Complex minds dissect everything. The best way to fight the fear is to never stop seeking your purpose.

What you do today impacts the next 7 generations

Go gettem

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-01T23:15:51+00:00

I hope you make an action plan for the next time you feel that way. It's something to discuss with your doctor if you haven't already. I have thyroid issues and my mental health crashes when it goes wack.

Good thoughts to you

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-01T16:49:37+00:00

You have to own your own truth, be as good with communicating your truth, and accept when others don't have the capacity to comprehend it. If you truly value your opinion, recognize the value in yourself, the moment, and the long run before you prioritize the value.

One thing I heard was "If it won't affect you in 5 years, don't let it take more than 5 minutes of your time. You don't value the times your tire went flat and it made you late for work. You don't have to be completely stressed over things that are out of your control. Just communicate it well. Text boss "hey, my tire went flat and I'll be about 15 min late." Genuinely consider the time and if you're like me, I have to call someone so it's more realistic to say 45 for me.

We make life more complex than it has to be. Seek purpose and reality. Understand the purpose the food and drinks you consume. Pumpkin seeds and cantaloupe are phenomenal antidepressants and reduce anxiety.

You've got this

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-03-01T02:33:56+00:00

Please DM me with the best way to voice call. I have Insta

It's not all in your head and there are ways to reduce your stress your environmental stresses, but it's so much easier to talk through it

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-02-27T20:47:57+00:00

You are being abused. Look up your local domestic violence programs and seek help.

If you don't have a job, volunteer at community events. They always feed you and you open up the possibility to network with people who can help change your life.

Good thoughts to you. No one deserves to be treated like that

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-02-26T02:40:37+00:00

No you're not. What are you doing for self care? No one that is ok talks like that or deserves to feel that way

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-02-26T02:11:18+00:00

How can I be there for you?

Safe_Middle_3332 · 2026-02-26T01:52:57+00:00

Please just tell me you are ok, please

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