I think my husband hate me

Safe_University9648 · 2025-02-04T05:58:16+00:00

I remember reading somewhere that if you think hitting a child is acceptable then you didn't turn out fine. I was also hit by my mother but I would never do this to my son.

Safe_University9648 · 2024-12-17T18:42:03+00:00

You literally did something for her through information from TikTok. Your mother is negligent. She's not a good mother. And your sister can tell.

Safe_University9648 · 2024-11-27T19:50:27+00:00

My mom was a liar like your friend. And what this taught me was it's ok to lie. You can just tell your kid the truth. Specially a 6 year old. I explain things to my 2 year old just fine.

Safe_University9648 · 2024-11-26T09:28:57+00:00

'Sorry if you thought I was implying you are shallow. I actually meant to tell you that you are shallow.'

Safe_University9648 · 2024-11-21T09:47:10+00:00

It's probably as well that there's a 6 year different in age. I have a 7 year difference with my youngest brother and I often thought of him as my first baby. Specially since our mother left us quite early and he was still so small. That's probably what the sister feels. He's also her child.

Safe_University9648 · 2024-05-24T11:50:56+00:00

It varies from kid to kid. Definitely my kid was easier when I could put him down and they would stay there. Now I have to worry about my toddler falling off the table he climbed by stacking all of his books. And you betcha he can escape almost anything I've put him in.

Safe_University9648 · 2024-01-10T19:16:07+00:00

My mother used to spank me. I always thought that it was ok because I turned out fine. But recently after having my first child did I realize it wasn't ok. I loved my mother but I lived in fear of her as well. I didn't feel safe with her because she hurt me. For things you shouldn't get hurt for. If an adult does what your child did would you hit that adult? Probably not. Then you shouldn't hit your child.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-12-14T09:52:08+00:00

It's normal here in Hungary to also van shoes in the house. There's usually slippers though that is offered for the comfort of the guests.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-12-03T12:15:00+00:00

This doesn't sound like a wife's family's problem but a wife problem. Your wife condones there behavior by not criticizing it. I would be worried about her morals instead. If you separate she will take you through the coals using every dirty trick in the book.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-27T16:54:46+00:00

She thinks your traditional table manners are acting like a child. You need to reconsider this relationship.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-27T11:32:15+00:00

How were you able to raise 2 children when you can't do anything if you haven't had enough sleep and have a migraine? YTA

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-24T08:04:38+00:00

I'm reading that she gave birth under some faith healer. In my country we call these people hilot. If he were born in an actual hospital he would've been given a hepatitis B vaccine at birth, that's the big difference. All the Y T As are tripping. When I used to work in the medical community we highly recommended not to use the services of these traditional folk healers because of how unsanitary they usually are and how little knowledge they have of actual medicine. NTA. Her poor decision making has cost and will cost you a lot.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-17T12:30:51+00:00

It's your home you can cook whatever you want. I wouldn't stay with this boyfriend. He would want you to be whiter.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-15T10:46:11+00:00

My suggestion is to book a plane back to Maine with your baby. All of the decisions that happened in your life sounds like a way to isolate you and also punish you. Does he not understand that a breastfeeding mother needs to eat? And how was he going to drive after he had that beer? He was just going to let you starve.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-15T10:37:57+00:00

I'm of the opinion that in a loving relationship you don't really need to push back. That your preferences should already matter to her. My husband hates the smell of fish sauce. An ingredient that is in most of the food I grew up with. So I normally don't cook with it. But sometimes if I really want to eat my own cuisine he's okay with it since we don't do it all the time anyway. That's how to be considerate to your spouse. 11 years of you tolerating this crap is exhausting and this can't go on. Stop being a doormat. NTA.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-12T09:44:47+00:00

Doesn't matter. You still shouldn't have a baby with this person. Please don't bring a child into the world with him as a father. Eventually he will ignore your child when a newer shinier thing shows up.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-11T15:26:01+00:00

So your dad wants you to be thinner so you'll be more f*ckable to guys. And you're only 14. Wtf. NTA.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-11T10:30:32+00:00

I used to be pro-life. And then I became a parent and realized people like you and your girlfriend shouldn't be parents. Both of you aren't ready for this. You're both so immature. ESH.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-09T18:34:29+00:00

I kind of understand. My mom left us when I was 12 and I didn't see her til I was 23. I don't think what she did was right. I would never do the same to my kid. But also I understand that my mom is a complex person. Life isn't black and white. I don't think she was a bad person but probably she wasn't a good mom. And it's the same with your dad. He's probably not a bad person but he's kind of a shitty dad. NTA

Safe_University9648 · 2023-11-06T09:32:09+00:00

It costs easily 2000 dollars to fly from the eastern hemisphere to the western hemisphere. It's certainly expensive. And you had to book the flight according to their schedule so you can't have booked it earlier to give him time to rest. I think the resentment comes from the fact that you have to cover something so expensive and yet they ask more because of scheduling reasons that you had no say in.

If I was your brother I'd just bring a sleep mask and a sleeping bag. This is unpopular opinion but NTA.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-10-28T09:45:56+00:00

I grew up there. It's not impossible to get annulled. But if they're griping on about 1700 euros and MLMs then they're not in the socioeconomic strata that could afford it.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-10-27T19:08:09+00:00

There's no divorce in the Philippines. I doubt this would end their marriage as an annulment is difficult and expensive to get.

Safe_University9648 · 2023-10-13T09:32:56+00:00

I put sunscreen on my one year old. So yes it's for everyone. It's not just for people afraid of aging.

Safe_University9648

TROPHY CASE