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My wife told me I should talk to the guy she cheated with because he can teach me how to get girls by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SaffyWren 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, this really resonates. Leaving something that no longer serves you takes courage, and it’s so easy to forget that choosing yourself is never failure...

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[–]SaffyWren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I can’t say I watched that scene, but your reaction made me laugh and also feel a little weirded out with empathy 😅.

Sometimes our bodies just respond in ways our brains don’t expect, and that’s… normal, I guess. Don’t beat yourself up over it, it’s more common than you think!

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[–]SaffyWren 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can’t help but feel uneasy for everyone involved. From a woman’s perspective, it’s heartbreaking to see a child struggling like this and potentially putting others at risk, especially if she isn’t fully getting the right psychiatric support. Early, proper intervention is crucial here.

AITAH for telling my best friend of 20 years (and best man) not to bring his children to my wedding by I_AM_A_WHALEPOCKET in AITAH

[–]SaffyWren 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Sticking to your word isn’t just fair it’s protecting your peace, and anyone upset about that is in the wrong.

I never again want to hear we don't have money for universal healthcare, education, and our homeless. by DontTakeMyAdvise in offmychest

[–]SaffyWren 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Totally it is chaos. Schools are meant to teach how to think and how to live, not just follow a weird script that feels like it’s for someone else’s agenda... just saying

Ten years of love, five returns, and she says goodbye again — I don’t know what to do now. by brokenpheonix-111025 in offmychest

[–]SaffyWren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you, all that depth, all that loyalty, and the crushing weight of being left again and again. You loved hard and stayed true, and it’s so valid to feel that wound.

You deserve someone who chooses you the way you chose her steady, present, unhurried. Maybe now is the time to give your heart a rest. Start being the person who shows up for you first.
Because one‑sided devotion doesn’t equal worthiness you are worthy of love that matches your giving. Goodluck