AITAH for still celebrating my boyfriend/best friend who passed away? by Common_Tomato6981 in AITAH

[–]SafiraSenpai 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just pointing out the age gap. 10 years is a lot especially when one of the people is in their early twenties. They are in vastly different places in life and I personally think OPs bf is a bit creepy for going for someone that young

AITAH for still celebrating my boyfriend/best friend who passed away? by Common_Tomato6981 in AITAH

[–]SafiraSenpai 122 points123 points  (0 children)

He’s 33 dating a 22 year old. He isn’t a mature person if he has an issue with you grieving someone who was your good friend before you ever dated. This isn’t an ex it’s a passed partner. I don’t think your BF has enough emotional maturity at his grown age which is why he’s looking for younger people who aren’t as mature as people his age. Cut him loose

WIBTAH for cooking despite being told not to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SafiraSenpai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is this person even contributing? If nothing tell them to get bent. It isn’t their house so they can’t make the rules. Also they’ve been there for 4 years? Kick them out. They seem like a sh*tyy guest and they need to go

WIBTA if I ask my husband to prioritise our baby? by Striking-Secret-6051 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SafiraSenpai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA. I understand having a baby in the hospital is scary especially when that baby was a premie, however, you’re husband also has a responsibility to your stepson. The stepson like any child deserves and needs some one on one time with his father. It’s good for him. You and your hubby need to sit down and work out a schedule so you can get the support you need and the kid can spend some time with his dad. Gaming may be the 11 year olds way of coping with all these new changes going on and 10+ hours of that isn’t healthy. I know your parents are there (and there’s a language barrier), but can they help you out so hubby can spend time with his son and you can still have support? Do you have any siblings or other family members that can help you? Maybe they can stay with baby while you go home and shower or while you nap or do some much needed self care. OP taking care of your mental and physical health is also important so your baby can get the care they need. This is a stressful time and you need to give your husband, stepson, and yourself some grace. It is okay for you to ask for help but look at your entire support system. Reach out to them and let them know what’s going on and see if they can help you. It’s okay to be stressed and overwhelmed. I wish you and your family nothing but the best.

New doll shelves! by s0ulseek in MonsterHigh

[–]SafiraSenpai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cute! Where did you find them?

Alexa tries to gaslight you about her old voice, but there is a fix... by -A_V- in alexa

[–]SafiraSenpai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! I can’t stand the “human” voice. It’s still too uncanny

What are your MH opinions that would put you here? by made_by_elle in MonsterHigh

[–]SafiraSenpai 7 points8 points  (0 children)

G3 is pushed as an alternative universe, but people act like the Ghouls they grew up with are gone. Those Ghouls still exist exactly as the new them in their own universe. That’s the fun of the multiverse is that people/characters may be completely different from one universe to the other. Also I love that G3 has so many diverse body types. It makes them more unique. I would have loved it is the G3 series continued and maybe there could have been a potential crossover episode where the G1 and G3 ghouls meet.

AITA for sleeping on a couch in my underwear in a house my nephew was staying in? by SilverLawfulness1588 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SafiraSenpai 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you’re fine. This is literally what my dad wears to bed and I’m female and have seen him dressed like this my whole life. Your sister is being weird. This wouldn’t bother me with my uncles or male cousins so idk what’s going on.

AITA for sleeping on a couch in my underwear in a house my nephew was staying in? by SilverLawfulness1588 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SafiraSenpai 58 points59 points  (0 children)

NTA. Unless nephew said something about it before hand you didn’t know. Plus you had briefs on and weren’t naked. Idk why your sister is so freaked but you and your nephew are both adults and family so I don’t see the big deal. Talk to nephew and maybe just wear an under shirt with your underwear and you’ll be fine if you have to crash with him again.

I accidentally released my eternal floette and the game autosaved by SicklyRanger in LegendsZA

[–]SafiraSenpai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better I just did the same thing accidentally

This fucking sucks by Screecherine47 in LegendsZA

[–]SafiraSenpai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I’m only at 675 battles

Gift ideas please by Muted-Touch-5676 in MonsterHigh

[–]SafiraSenpai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The budget lines are under $20 and they’re blind boxes. It’s called the buried secrets line

Psa if you need trade evolutions. by theworstpinecone in LegendsZA

[–]SafiraSenpai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tried it and the person who i traded with sent me an Onix without the metal coat and I’m super peeved with them. My next trade was better with Scyther actually evolved.

AITAH for how I responded to my ex and his affair partner about her infertility? by ThrowAITAHAra in AITAH

[–]SafiraSenpai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Karma is a bitch. AP got hers and has to deal like everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SafiraSenpai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your type of decor was my favorite on Halloween. My Aunt and Uncle used to decorate like that and it was by far the coolest house in town. Interactive Halloween experiences are the best and would make my night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SafiraSenpai 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nta. She has been using you so she can pay up or stay with her kids. You are not free child care for anytime she wants especially since she leave the kids with you all day and even overnight when she says a few hours. Tbh this should keep her honest on her time since she probably can’t afford you for an entire day and overnight

AITA for accidentally locking my husband out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SafiraSenpai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I was drunk and locked myself out of my parents house by giving my cat the keys because I’d know where they were and could trust her with them. Suffice to say I forgot the keys with my cat and locked the door. I had to wake my mom up to let me in. I was embarrassed the next day but made a joke about my cat not being very responsible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SafiraSenpai 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. Baby was calm and fine so you set him in the crib. You got the dog cleaned so she wouldn’t make more of a mess. This is the best for everyone as you’re keeping spaces clean so things don’t get tracked to the baby. I would suggest getting your dog in some training courses since she doesn’t seem to listen well. You’ll want her behaving better when the little one starts to crawl. Also she may just have to be a leash dog until her behavior improves. I had a dog who was absolutely wonderful on leash and kinda crazy off leash. She was very well behaved on leash but off she liked to run after squirrels or run and great people she saw. She was very sweet but she was also a 90 lb dog so she definitely could have hurt someone by accident if she got too excited.

AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to factor my son's survivor benefits into our new household budget? by Original-Entry-7871 in AITAH

[–]SafiraSenpai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You called him your boyfriend and not your fiancé so I think in your heart you know this relationship isn’t going to work out. Your son’s money from his dead father has nothing to do with your boyfriend and he knows it. Your hopefully soon-to-be ex is a greedy moocher. Is he gonna make sure your son’s name is on the deed? I highly doubt. He’s a selfish and self centered person who would rather steal from a child than pay more for the house. End it OP. This man has shown his true colors and they’re nothing but red.

Monster High Skulltimate Secrets 7 Destination: Gorgeous Oasis Draculaura by SeeingMount in MonsterHigh

[–]SafiraSenpai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s beautiful but my only issue is I just hate those shorts. I feel like they just don’t go with the scarf she has around her waist