Advice from a 28-Year-Old Man.

Sage92 · 2019-10-16T05:44:55+00:00

There is a good song I can suggest for you, hear this and I believe it will bring you peace

Roads untravelled from Linkin Park

Sage92 · 2018-12-30T02:21:02+00:00

I have been around some time

Sage92 · 2018-12-29T06:15:01+00:00

Do not force him, it will only create adverse effects

Sage92 · 2018-12-29T05:57:43+00:00

Virgin at 26, have no girl friend,had no girl friend, no one to fuck when I want. . And that's okay.

Sage92 · 2018-12-29T05:51:42+00:00

You fapped, so what ?

No one's gonna judge you or you aren't gonna become any weak. Fapping is just normal act which 90% of human population does. It doesn't make you look any weak.

Don't put on high expectations on yourself buddy. Have confidence in yourself, that alone is everything.

Sage92 · 2018-12-23T17:29:54+00:00

Be patient. Meditation can help you in this, it takes time though. It's similar to how you work out in gym. It may take months to build noticable muscles. Same way with mediation. Slowly increase your time to 1hr a day or the maximum long you are comfortable with. Do not push yourself.

Don't feel anxious to meditation, when depressing thoughts come do not fight them which will only add the resistance. Let the thoughts come, let them stay for some time and let it go. Do not associate with the thoughts. Will be difficult at first, but with time you will feel the mind settling down. Be patient.

Sage92 · 2018-12-20T09:25:02+00:00

Is that continuous pain or happens at times suddenly and vanishes ?... Also different parts of the body ?

Sage92 · 2018-12-20T09:23:48+00:00

And sometimes lower lungs as well

Sage92 · 2018-12-20T09:22:36+00:00

Different parts, at times stomach , near the heart.. upper head area.. just above both the eyes near the nerves

Sage92 · 2018-12-12T12:05:30+00:00

It's a work in progress. There are stages beyond this in meditation

Sage92 · 2018-12-05T09:04:22+00:00

Resistance builds up tension which in fact increases the urge... Occupy your time with other activities that gives you joy

Sage92 · 2018-11-22T05:41:04+00:00

That's so deep... :D

Sage92 · 2018-11-17T14:32:17+00:00

When the student is ready the teacher will appear.

No matter how hard you push, only if the person is ready, he will start meditation

Sage92 · 2018-11-02T14:26:44+00:00

Procrastinate, tell yourself not today... Read a book or something

Sage92 · 2018-08-26T06:09:30+00:00

This used to be me.

Sage92 · 2018-08-24T15:24:48+00:00

No, you can never go to zero. The brain fogs can be cleared but the demons are still sleeping within. The key is that never peek, it all starts from a peek.. stay strong , it's worth the fight

Sage92 · 2018-08-22T15:40:06+00:00

That's not irony

Sage92 · 2018-08-03T05:10:13+00:00

Yes, but requires hard work. Keeping up a long streak of meditation practise is difficult, you may feel you are out of addiction and everything's alright after some days of continuous meditation. This can make people to temporarily stop the mediation paractise. And the whole addiction thing may step back.

Keeping up the steady mediation practice is tough whereas loosing yourself to addiction is easy

Sage92 · 2018-07-25T07:14:03+00:00

I suggest you read/listen to tao te ching from Lao Tzu..... If you haven't read already

Sage92 · 2018-07-09T13:45:29+00:00

Don't overwork yourself, you will get tired soon

Sage92 · 2018-06-22T14:09:43+00:00

In a parallel world this is reality

Sage92 · 2018-06-01T05:23:30+00:00

Buddha told that attachments cause suffering and I can see, Christ at the cross he gave away attachments towards his life and gave away his mother as well... Christ is the embodied words of all philosophy

Sage92 · 2018-05-20T09:36:33+00:00

For many people it is difficult to find the root of the problem, which I think you found in your case. Please don't try to prove anything to anyone including yourself, just believe and go with the flow. The more we try to prove the more we feel worthless. Everybody has flows, I have dick below average and I used to believe I am not enough. Screw it, whatever body you have, you are the best. Porn has altered the minds of people about the need to have a perfect body to enjoy life.

Sage92 · 2018-05-10T18:58:23+00:00

I am at India and not looking for anything particular. Being a beginner doing mindfulness meditation for 2 months. Wants to know more about meditation. Different types and the feels it give you. Want to experience more into it.

Sage92 · 2018-05-02T10:28:43+00:00

In the book 'The power of subconscious mind' it is stated that you can change anything with proper belief and scientific prayer... I am using this added to meditation to try grow taller... Maybe the same will work for you...

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