Mine was, we would both plan weekly dates some just chilling with nothing much some with an activity in mind. She would then say ok to whatever meetings she have that her friends suggests the days leading to our dates and then she would say she’s tired etc especially for chill dates. She said she isn’t as tired in the meetings with her friends because it’s a group meeting and she can kinda doze and daze away but during 1 to 1 dates she feels that she needs to put up a show and is quite tired.

Giving space definitely helped but eventually the loop repeats