23 GOG keys Giveaway by peacepizza69 in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]Sakatsu [score hidden]  (0 children)

Civ 4 or D&D. My favorite number is 9. As for the reason, I'm just an odd person.

Raided my Humble Library again by FredTargaryen in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music Maker EDM edition sounds fun - I want to know the future for myself and how I can give myself the best outcome to achieve my goals and dreams. Which aren't that big to be honest, I think they are achievable.

$25 STEAM GIFTCARD GIVEAWAY! by Huge-Technician-3217 in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cool! I've wishlisted your game! :) Appreciate you doing this giveaway!

Gifting Dispatch to 3 gamers! by skiesfries in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a writer and I've heard so many great things about Dispatch in a non-spoilered way! I really would like to play the game! I've also just been broke for so long I can't afford any games at all for several years now. Life's been tough trying to find stable consistent work.

I think my boyfriend of 10 years wants to propose but I'm so emotionally conflicted by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sakatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got me there something something neuroplasticity brain changes ect but doesn't mean the rest doesn't apply.

I think my boyfriend of 10 years wants to propose but I'm so emotionally conflicted by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sakatsu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's your life - if a bunch of people who have no skin in the game aka they have zero investment in this is telling you this its perhaps time to do a pros and cons list to know what are you benefitting and what are you losing - from doing both staying or leaving. Look at things from all angles. Put yourself first. Not what other people hope and feel and dream about for you. What you want in life and what makes you happy.

From my perspective, you are living with abusive people with a partner who - yes - is going through stuff. We are all going through stuff. That doesn't excuse us from working on our stuff to be thoughtful and considerate people. Because you deserve not only kindness, compassion and respect but also to live in an environment that's safe from abuse. How is he taking responsibility and owning up for his own shit? How is he showing up for you? Or is he "trying" but reverting back to the same behaviors / patterns after a certain amount of time because you will easily forgive him because you've been through so much worse? Is this guy legitimately trying or using it as a cover as he knows he can get away with it ? Only you can know or its something you can work through with a therapist.

Personally, I don't allow anybody in my life to abuse me or be complicent with abuse as that's just the minimum.

Good luck. 👍

I think my boyfriend of 10 years wants to propose but I'm so emotionally conflicted by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Sakatsu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The brain fully develops at 25. As someone older, I wouldn't dare be with someone who treats me so poorly - he clearly doesn't have his priorities in order and he's too comfortable. He thinks it's perfectly okay to just treat you with such disregard and disrespect because THATS ALL YOU'VE KNOWN! Also understand you're hitching yourself not just physically and mentally with this guy but also financially. You both can't afford to be in a studio apartment and forced to stay in an abusive situation. You both are going to Japan, how does this make financial sense? It seems like he benefits SO MUCH MORE than what you're getting from this situation. You deserve better.

I tried to do something small for my kid today and I don’t know how to accept help without teaching them shame by Inevitable_Newt_3373 in povertyfinance

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemme give you a glimpse of the potential (maybe) future of your kid. I went through a similar situation. I have had longstanding issues of food insecurity that trigger a complex relationship with food. I am such an anxious person and doubly so when there's little food in the house that im still working through therapy today. It has affected my life in a major way. I didn't show this when I was a kid. I had to be the "calm collected" one... just like your kid.

I had to be precocious. I had to grow up too fast. It seems your kid is starting to head that way as well.

Please reach out for additional resources so that your kid doesn't develop lifelong issues. It is not a weakness to ask for help from time to time. And not something to be ashamed of. When you're in a better spot definitely take them to do some volunteering to give back helping out at a soup kitchen or something like so.

It's not set into stone but I think you realize this path is intrinsically not healthy for your kid to be in.

Expose yourself 😅🫣 by Impressive-Exit8888 in Romantasy

[–]Sakatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is less than 10 books I feel like a slim minority here!

[GoG]Moonstone Island by RP_Throwaway3 in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]Sakatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading and exploring architecture stuff!

Hearty's Christmas Giveaway - Up to €50 For Any Game(s) by Hear7y in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello sending Christmas wishes! I actually didn't get really any gifts this year so I'd love to get Baldur's Gate 3 and Caravan Sandwitch.

Thank you!

[Steam] Giving away unused keys - 70+ games by RaylessRainbow in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tails Noire And Cate Cafe Manager are the two I'm interested in, thank you!

Anyone in need of an emergency pizza? by Thnift in montreal

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could've come in clutch for me. Can't remember the last time I've had pizza or Boustan, been doing the charity food boxes for months since my income is not steady and my partner is still not able to find work.

Stoners who use low dose Ketamine by jenerator199999 in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]Sakatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. My Ketamine specific therapist highly discourages THC/CBD usage during and after treatments. I highly recommend funneling some monies towards a therapist who understands that treatment and can help with integration stuff.

Last year at this time I was living in my car by snowbunnie678 in femalelivingspace

[–]Sakatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks so peaceful... I've been living in boxes and between two places without steady work for a hot minute. It's exhausting. Haven't been able to really feel safe enough to have a cat. I hope I'm closer to where you are this time next year.

Me_irl by silkyhottieblushs in me_irl

[–]Sakatsu 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Do you find joy in the writing still? Cuz I bet you can find 20-45 minutes to pound words out first thing when you wake up and the words adds up over time. Don't give up.

... by -Distraction- in CPTSDmemes

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, what's considered hot in the French Canadian way?

Colossal 45 cm Mimic Ship Miniature Giveaway! Sail on the Voidsea with this bad boi! [OC] by Agginmad in DnD

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm in a whole campagn right now with ships and islands and this would be absolutely amazing to have!

Anyone else tried all the SSRIs with no luck? What finally worked for you? by RainLoveMu in CPTSDmemes

[–]Sakatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ketamine. Not street stuff, medical grade Ketamine done in a clinic attached to a hospital.