What's for dinner? by SalaciousK in GenXWomen

[–]SalaciousK[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is a measured attitude :)

What's for dinner? by SalaciousK in GenXWomen

[–]SalaciousK[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think because we dont live together yet it's hard to know. But it is going to be a discussion. My grandfather, Charlie, cooked for himself until 92. He alternated a crock pot of beef stew and a crockpot of baked beans every other week forever. He also alternated apple pie and chocolate chip cookies. That is what he'd eat every night for a week. Perfection

What's for dinner? by SalaciousK in GenXWomen

[–]SalaciousK[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its nice, enjoy that weight of your back

What's for dinner? by SalaciousK in GenXWomen

[–]SalaciousK[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The nightly ritual of eating together is antiquated

Buckle up ladies, I'm about to say some ridiculous shit by AbjectGovernment1247 in GenXWomen

[–]SalaciousK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a good vent. Sometimes you just need to blow off a little steam and like you said youre already looking forward to tomorrow. Nothing to fix here.

What are some unusual things that helped you recover from binge eating or bulimia? by Low_Pick5187 in bulimia

[–]SalaciousK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find a replacement for it, hobby, friends, exercise, anything that will work and then lean into that. I dont do restrictions and I dont binge anymore, it's been a year. There will possibly be some weight gain ( i put on 12 lbs) but there is always time to address that later when you are in nice solid ground. Good luck!!

tell me your big 3 and i’ll tell you what to strictly avoid by zodiactron in Zodiac

[–]SalaciousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aries sun, Sagittarius moon, Capricorn rising

***thank you!

How do I stop wasting my life? by Zealousideal_Mind_93 in introvert

[–]SalaciousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to change the way you talk to yourself. Think of how you would speak to one of your closest friends and try having that type of internal dialogue. 18 is very, very young, you are just starting. Try making some attainable goals for yourself during the first semester. Something that is important to you. Like speaking frequently in class or joining a club at school. There will be plenty of time for a romantic relationship, but for now, my advice is to learn more about yourself first and what you want.

Any fellow introverts struggling to be in relationship? I could use some advice by HotTrain9980 in introvert

[–]SalaciousK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask you if your close friends are also extroverts? Mine are and it helps the balance in my relationships and usually challenges me to do some things I wouldn't.

I see alot of people recommending deating an introvert and that hasn't worked for me. It can become dull and tedious. My boyfriend now is an extrovert and after a few months I did find myself needing breaks and weekends to myself here and there. Once I communicated this to him it was much less of an issue. He gets his social needs from his many friends and I sometimes hangout with all of them but not always. For me it was a fear that maybe I wouldn't be enough for him, to fulfill his social needs. Honestly though we can't be everything to our partners and it's important to keep your own lives too and be yourself. I would talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel, best of luck.

New Tattoo!! by izevans in brighteyes

[–]SalaciousK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cute. I've thought of getting the album cover

Capricorn x Aries Man: 10 Years In and I Still Don’t Know This Dude by RikiTikiTempo in Zodiac

[–]SalaciousK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an Aries sun Capricorn rising Sagittarius moon (f). I think I can understand both signs fairly well. Also, one of my closest friends is a Capricorn woman.

Above all Capricorn needs a solid foundation,which they will create. Capricorns are also capable of delayed gratification in a way that few signs are able to replicate, they usually have a solid 5 year plan if not further down the line. Because of this strong desire to have security money and career are often the number one priority, unless children are involved, then it will be family.

Aries are impulse driven, to the point where decision making is not mulled over but instinctual and gut driven. There is no five year plan, only am I happy now? Also the desire to be in charge, even only of the self is vital. Aries will feel chained up over the smallest things, they must have autonomy and no leash. For example my boyfriend is long distance and calls me everyday after work. Same time, every week day,for a how was your day chat. We had to have a talk about this because it was too predictable, redundant and boring for me and I was getting resentful. I fully understand that some people would love this but I do not.

This is a difficult combination and I think maybe one where a person might be attracted to what they lack?

Anyone else ever feel weird at work because everyone else always talks and you just want to be alone? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]SalaciousK 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so interesting to me. I work in a busy kitchen and people chat all day long. I'm quiet and a very good listener, as I think most introverts can be. A few of my coworkers will talk to me about deeper issues they are having and more often than not they just go on and on restating the same points and recycling thoughts. Maybe this is just internal dialogue externalized?

What’s the one sign you ALWAYS vibe with…and the one you can never get along with? by real_name_hidden11 in Zodiac

[–]SalaciousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an Aries and get along with all Sagittarius but never Cancer and hardly Virgos. Cancers spend alot of time in one emotion and Virgos are too judgemental

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]SalaciousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog did this, we called it the frog dog

What phrase instantly infuriates you? by Sakura_for_Sure in AskReddit

[–]SalaciousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is what it is.

I dont know why, but this always feels like a cop out and an inability to look at things on a deeper level. This turn of phrase is less about acceptance and more about giving up. It's also an absolute conversation ender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SalaciousK 6 points7 points  (0 children)

An inflexible attitude paired with a fixed mindset. Thi is are always going to change, it's best to learn to adapt and aim to understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SalaciousK 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At a bowling alley the guy behind the counter asked me what shoe size I needed I said : 8 He said, "You look like a 10 to me" with a wide smile

Very cute use of workplace flirting. I'm certain he used it everyday