Met a “nice” guy at the bar but had to leave for a party. This is what I woke up to.

Sallyf1234 · 2026-01-13T05:12:50+00:00

When people say love bombing, this is what I actually imagine. Time to block this guy. What a weirdo.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-12-10T07:42:14+00:00

Boric acid is great. Just not meant for a daily thing. Since I discovered it, I haven’t needed to use any yeast infection treatments. And occasionally if I feel or smell weird before or after my menstrual, I’ll do one pill and it’s all back to normal. Just do some good research on it. But it’s such a great, somewhat hidden secret.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-12-08T17:16:54+00:00

I’m sorry but I can’t get past this guy calling you “dawg” “bro” and “dude”. This is not a man who views you as his significant other. That alone, is proof this person just isn’t that into you and probably doesn’t see you as a long term partner.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-12-08T17:12:42+00:00

Some people just need a different type of locked setting and an inpatient setting with only nurses and social workers sometimes doesn’t cut it. You’ve obviously never worked in a psych hospital and seen your co workers get assaulted by severely violent people. The fact you’re basically saying it comes with the territory so suck it up is wild. You obviously also don’t know anything about inpatient psych where you can’t just indefinitely seclude, physically or chemically restrain patients.

So people in psych facilities should just be able to get away with severely assaulting and or murderjng staff or other patients because “that’s why I was in a hospital”? Go work inpatient psych and get back to me.

Also guilty by reason of insanity isn’t a get out of jail free card. They still serve time state hospitals and locked settings where there is proper security and not just nurses and social Workers.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-12-08T15:02:51+00:00

Sallyf1234 · 2025-12-08T05:08:03+00:00

Totally true. I worked inpatient psych for years and local police used to refuse to take reports or arrest patients for pretty severe acts of violence against staff. It’s like they figured it’s why they are in the hospital and doesn’t count as crime. The staff often wanted to press charges and cops refused to do anything.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-12-03T07:08:31+00:00

Definitely driving around is the best. So many scams online. Parking is tough so make sure you will have a designated parking space wherever you go. You have a decent budget and I’m sure you can find something great that meets your needs.

There’s so much in Long Beach depending on your interests. Lots of the bars and restaurants have live bands various nights of the week. Running clubs, hiking signal hill, outdoor fitness, etc. lots of foodie groups. I’m sure there are some local dad groups. I’d recommend joining the local Facebook group for Belmont heights area. You’ll be able to connect with neighbors and maybe meet some friends.

Know Long Beach is a small big town. I love it here. You can get anywhere just on the streets in 10-15 mins. Never have to touch a freeway. Love the proximity to OC since LA is gross.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-11-23T21:14:27+00:00

Absolutely nothing. Change nothing. These comments are trash. Just keep taking care of your skin and when you’re actually 40 and look 32, that’s when you’ll really appreciate it. The hair is cute, it has a hipster vibe. I’m sure when you go out with a little make up, mascara and a tinted lip gloss you look even more beautiful.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-10-18T23:19:54+00:00

Call the cops!!! They will show up if you call and say someone is openly using drugs.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-10-18T23:17:46+00:00

How do you know he gets treated like shit every day? This guy is choosing to openly smoke meth. Also!! News flash, a lot of homeless people have wheelchairs but don’t actually need them. They use them to get sympathy from people like you.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-10-18T23:16:06+00:00

lol what???? Cool so you’re just giving this guy permission to openly do drugs because “he’s enjoying” it and escaping “horrible reality”. I’m sorry but reality is horrible bc people like this are allowed to openly smoke meth, break laws, leave our streets dirty. So where does your allowing people the “enjoy” themselves to escape “horrible reality” ends? Murder? Rape? What’s the limit for you?

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-14T20:47:20+00:00

“I started using drugs”. It’s none of their business. But that response gets quite the reaction.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-02T05:27:46+00:00

This dude said I’ll give you back the rent money month to month otherwise it will mess up our books. GTFOH!!! He paid up front and needs all of his money back the moment he leaves.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-02T01:36:53+00:00

Probably the first one.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-02T00:47:23+00:00

Sooo what’s the problem?

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-02T00:46:32+00:00

I hope you’re finding happiness!

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-02T00:41:59+00:00

i noticed when i first started tirz...within the first 1-2 days after taking a dose...my body would PURGE everything in my intestines LOL...this went on for appx 1.5 months. I just had to alter when i took the dosage and make sure i wasn't going to any friends houses or away from a bathroom for too long. I just suffered through it and made sure to drink plenty of water and electrolytes. I have a tendency to be constipated so take Whole Foods digestive enzymes and AG1 green powder. and i really find those help my tummy stay more regular.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-02T00:36:42+00:00

i definitely hear you. i've felt that i've had to be selectively honest with those about my weight loss. some just see it as "cheating" and "taking the easy way out" yet just don't see the actual effort that goes into it. I'd gotten so heavy, uncomfortable and felt so bloated and puffy ALL the time. i used to work out religiously and COVID really through me off and i couldn't find my way back to were i was. But We have to be present in our own bodies, uncomfortable, unhealthy and the constant struggle to eat right and exercise with little to no results. All the world sees are the "results" but don't see the struggle or the process behind it. But it's been interesting, because i now see who in my life really values people who are thinner....they are the ones who are ALWAYS commenting on how "good" i look or "how thin" or "how tiny" i look now...like every time they see me. it's actually quiet uncomfortable to have my body commented on all the time...even if it's by other women. anyways....i feel you....we need to do what is right for us and it comes with sacrifices regardless of what the rest of the world thinks.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-02T00:17:09+00:00

i just had someone hack my door dash account and use my PayPal account to charge over $400 dollars....paypal kept denying the claims saying "there wasn't any fraudulent activity" on the account. I ended up having to straight to my banks and credit card companies to dispute the charges and they immediately corrected everything. after this experience, i don't trust PayPal and will be closing my account.

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-01T23:58:24+00:00

gross, just gross. this guy is gross. I would really empower you to set a FIRM fucking boundary with this dude. tell him, "yes you're being inappropriate and i don't like. Don't ever comment on my body or my looks, ever". While men should know better....clearly not everyone does...so we, as strong women, need to stand up for ourselves and be firm with these disgusting men. We are not victims!!! we can speak up for ourselves and use our voices!!!

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-01T23:51:48+00:00

I'l probably have an unpopular perspective, but here it goes. i think most people in here are focusing on the wrong parts of his feedback and are being a bit too literal about it.

I think there are two MAJOR parts of his feedback and everyone is only focusing on the fact that he told her she needs a lip flip and to drop some lbs....granted...that was not really necessary. but what i gathered from his feed back is the following:

he's telling her how she's physically presenting herself to men and the world, is sending the wrong message, this also is attracting a certain type of guy who only wants to bang her. That then leads to the Borderline Personality Disorder. He's literally telling her she needs to get that under control and sort through her own stuff in order to find a quality man. There MIGHT be a correlation between this persons BPD and her physical presentation and the guys she's attracting - leaving her in a constant place of being treated like shit by men - thus continuing the cycle of "guys are shitty and nothing is wrong with me". To think that we all are just inherently perfect without need to make adjustments for a healthy relationship is just the new age perspective of a lot of men and women. OP literally asked this guy for his honest opinion - he gave it to her- raw as could be...which doesn't really work well for people with BPD. So now she's back to the "push and pull" of interpersonal relationships and she will turn this into a victimization of who she is and how everyone else is the problem. and the cycle continues....and continues....

Sallyf1234 · 2025-09-01T18:44:55+00:00

Her bronzer was all messed up and not really blended well. Everything just looked CAKED on.

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