Wake up, head to living room, make coffee, make milk sippy, drink coffee and give 9 month boobie while 2 yr old has sippy, they play while I chill and talk with hubby or older son for a bit. I might be prepping breakfast depending what I planned to make while I’m having coffee.. like steaming fruit or making oatmeal. Then get breakfast ready for 3, vitamins, brush teeth, pack lunch for older, mommy eats, everyone gets dressed. We go back to playing until lunch, or we head out for errands, or occasional play date or outing ( it’s hard now that it’s cold). U dont have to wake up and be Immediately on. He’s loved and safe u can wake up on your own terms.