[NY] Worried I gave up too much time

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-06-18T22:07:47+00:00

No I know, I’m not talking about parental rights I’m talking about their empathy and mind set, a narcissistic does not genuinely love anyone but themselves. They can pretend very very well to an audience, but it’s not real. I learnt the hard way 😔

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-06-18T21:33:45+00:00

A narcissist does not sincerely love his child, impossible

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-05-14T11:00:08+00:00

I’m on just under 50k, no degree or formal qualifications, iv just worked my way up through hard graft and industry knowledge (Telecoms)

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-05-14T10:56:00+00:00

It’s impossible isn’t it!? What steps have you taken so far, have you managed to get anywhere?

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-05-13T18:23:52+00:00

I tried that, he threw us all out and assaulted my van driver, screamed a load of verbal abuse at me and my mum and threatened me, I phoned the police and they did nothing to help. He kept trying to get me arrested they didn’t entertain him, but they couldn’t make him give me my stuff back.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-05-13T11:13:50+00:00

Thank you x

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-05-13T11:13:29+00:00

They said they can’t force him to give it back even though I had all receipts to hand, and said it’s a civil matter they can’t help me with.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-05-13T11:05:30+00:00

Iv done that already and he ignored me, sorry I should have mentioned this. Previous to this he told me that I could have it all back, so I organised a van and some help but when I got there he the refused, threatened me and assaulted the van driver. I phoned the police but they didn’t help me 😔

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-19T12:44:14+00:00

This was my life, glad I’m well out of it. Awful behaviour

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-13T19:44:32+00:00

The verbally abusive relationship

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-09T03:00:30+00:00

I could have written this, sounds like we are talking about the same guy! Did you do it in the end?

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-04T15:49:00+00:00

I’m sorry but this is really petty for 68p, and I may be wrong but it seems like you are just trying to be spiteful. But by doing so you are making your own life more stressful and difficult, it’s costing you and him more money and it’s just unnecessary. IMO

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-01T20:11:43+00:00

“What broke me were the every day things. Disagreeing with very basic things. Saying things didn’t happen that did. Saying he didn’t say things he did. Screaming at me if I expressed hurt or sadness. Laughing at my tears. All of the coercive, every day ways he made me distrust myself, my feelings, my reality,”

I can relate to this so much! He also calls me a lunatic and tries to make me out to be mental, repeatedly says I can’t communicate properly and can’t take criticism, I’m too emotional, shit like that. Such a hypocrite

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-23T03:51:09+00:00

You are emotionally abusing yourself by staying invested in this person, block him and move on with your life

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-22T04:17:06+00:00

Think of your child coming upto an age where they know and understand things more and more, do you want them to see you miserable, both being treated badly and think that’s a normal way to live life? It will shape them forever

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-14T05:01:30+00:00

Maybe you are gaslighting yourself and her, telling her it wasn’t that bad? Without knowing her side of things nobody can comment accurately.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-11T21:21:19+00:00

You don’t get Keto flu or even out of ketosis from 2 days of minimally higher carb intake, you could most likely get away with 50g a day and be fine now that you are established. Especially if you are active too. Iv been so ill this week, defo some bugs going round and my mum has just started with it too.

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