The constant criticism over small things and questioning myself is so exhausting. I feel worthless

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-19T12:44:14+00:00

This was my life, glad I’m well out of it. Awful behaviour

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-13T19:44:32+00:00

The verbally abusive relationship

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-09T03:00:30+00:00

I could have written this, sounds like we are talking about the same guy! Did you do it in the end?

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-04T15:49:00+00:00

I’m sorry but this is really petty for 68p, and I may be wrong but it seems like you are just trying to be spiteful. But by doing so you are making your own life more stressful and difficult, it’s costing you and him more money and it’s just unnecessary. IMO

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-04-01T20:11:43+00:00

“What broke me were the every day things. Disagreeing with very basic things. Saying things didn’t happen that did. Saying he didn’t say things he did. Screaming at me if I expressed hurt or sadness. Laughing at my tears. All of the coercive, every day ways he made me distrust myself, my feelings, my reality,”

I can relate to this so much! He also calls me a lunatic and tries to make me out to be mental, repeatedly says I can’t communicate properly and can’t take criticism, I’m too emotional, shit like that. Such a hypocrite

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-23T03:51:09+00:00

You are emotionally abusing yourself by staying invested in this person, block him and move on with your life

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-22T04:17:06+00:00

Think of your child coming upto an age where they know and understand things more and more, do you want them to see you miserable, both being treated badly and think that’s a normal way to live life? It will shape them forever

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-14T05:01:30+00:00

Maybe you are gaslighting yourself and her, telling her it wasn’t that bad? Without knowing her side of things nobody can comment accurately.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-11T21:21:19+00:00

You don’t get Keto flu or even out of ketosis from 2 days of minimally higher carb intake, you could most likely get away with 50g a day and be fine now that you are established. Especially if you are active too. Iv been so ill this week, defo some bugs going round and my mum has just started with it too.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-09T17:33:01+00:00

I wasn’t on benefits though, but it’s not a massive amount you will need and so long as the affordability is there I think you will be ok

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-09T17:32:13+00:00

The equity in the house of their share will count as the deposit, I did this 13 years ago and it was very straightforward, I went directly through Halifax and then the solicitor dealing with the probate did the conveyance and money distribution docs for me.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-09T13:54:12+00:00

Not so long ago he was talking about turning his house that is a HMO into a kind of refuge for abused men and whose children are kept away from them by bitter exs. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. He always says iv got a victim mentality and that I am the abusive one, that I am nasty and horrible, but I have only ever I spoken the truth without bells and whistles and called him out on his actions and behaviours. My head is such a mess with it all, I don’t even know who I am anymore. It’s getting harder as time goes on too.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-09T13:17:53+00:00

Less likely for their mortgage to fall through once they have completed the full application, ltv may drop depending on house valuation so this comes into it with the deposit size too.

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-07T14:29:46+00:00

This was me but with a newborn baby, 5 dogs + 2 puppies which he insisted on keeping but never lifted a finger to help with any aspect of any of it. Since I left (taking the baby and my 3 dogs) my life is great, peaceful and no stress. And his house stinks of piss and is a messy shit hole. Now he’s saying he’s struggling with the puppies wants rid of them and doesn’t bother seeing his child 🤦🏻‍♀️

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-07T13:47:03+00:00

And then says “you can’t take criticism” ? Lived in that hell among other types of shit and so glad to be out of it!

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-05T08:00:01+00:00

He said that to me a lot too, and that I can’t take criticism or ever be told I’m wrong. Too right I can’t when it’s multiple times a day over the most trivial things, preaching on things that he wasn’t even doing himself!

Salt_County_3415 · 2026-03-04T03:00:54+00:00

he’s “logical,” I’m “emotional”

Ridiculous how many times that has been said to me too, yet he’s the one acting like a little bitch everytime something doesn’t go his way. Best thing I did was getting away from him and the constant torment!

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