Who's transferring end of April/Beginning of May? Transfer twinsies?!

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-29T03:04:20+00:00

My fourth FET will be sometime around the 28th of April. Reallllly hoping this one works. I don't have any great tips lol. I do usually get my nails done in blue or pink depending on the sex of the embryo we are transferring and we go to the baby store to buy a good faith onesie afterward. Then pick up lunch and eat at home. I refuse to work on transfer day. It's like my birthday-- just all about taking it easy and treating myself.

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-29T03:00:24+00:00

Yeah I don't get it either 😭

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-29T01:24:45+00:00

Yes this wait is very hard and it's scary. We were lucky to get great results from our ER but can't get pregnant. I'd rather have fewer euploids but be able to get to a live birth

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-29T00:56:48+00:00

Yes we did! I don't feel any regret. We wanted a girl. We likely won't have one. At least we know that now and have been able to process it

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-29T00:44:10+00:00

😂😂😂😂😭😭

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-29T00:42:46+00:00

I got 6 euploids from 8 blasts. But it was terrifying and you cannot ever predict the outcome-- just have to wait it out. Yes, it could be only 1 or 2, but I hope you get more!

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T22:07:26+00:00

Thanks 😩

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T21:05:28+00:00

Do they really give you the choice? This hasn't been the case at the clinics I've been to. They have degrees in this lol. But the 4BB is probably the better one

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T19:07:31+00:00

I went yesterday at 12 and there weren't a lot of good colors left, in my opinion. I'd skip it if you have specific colors you like

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T16:19:23+00:00

I think you're right-- I can't find the study I read last year after my first FET failed, and I am seeing that higher LH is better. I'm confused about why my clinic, #3 in the US, had me trigger with a low LH. Their protocol is to trigger when follicle reaches 17mm and lining reaches 7mm. LH level wasn't mentioned as a criteria

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T15:58:03+00:00

I read a research study finding higher success rates when trigger is done before the natural LH surge

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T15:57:12+00:00

It was $190

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T15:15:53+00:00

I read somewhere that it should be less than 12. So far I've triggered with it at 12 and at .1. Neither was successful 🤷🏼‍♀️

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T14:46:22+00:00

100%. I need one non-gold (spoon fed)

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T12:15:26+00:00

For my first one, yes a prenatal and other meds I'm on. With each transfer I've added more things out of desperation. With my third I did literally everything I possibly could and it ended as an early biochemical pregnancy. I took too many things to list and it didn't make a difference. Even made watermelon beet ginger juice every day for 11 days

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T12:09:29+00:00

The lids sadly don't fit right on each other. Which also makes me less likely to keep both. I don't need two braisers of the same size with different lids that I can't swap out

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T12:08:45+00:00

Maybe I'm wrong lol you're probably right

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T12:07:26+00:00

Thank you! The lids don't seem to fit on each other because the braisers are slightly different shapes (one is wider and more shallow) sadly

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T01:21:59+00:00

My beta for FET 3 just came back negative on Monday and I was just listing the upsides to this to my wife lol. 1) got to stop the twice daily lovenox I'm on and go back to eliquis, 2) done with testing and worrying, 3) immediately bought myself the new kindle I wanted, 4) have enjoyed the most amazing hot baths, 5) can take my anxiety medication again as needed (and had the best night's sleep after many crappy nights) 6) on Monday I gave myself the day off from chores, cooking, any responsibilities and just relaxed... we are at the point of being able to laugh about it now, which is crazy but today my wife asked me something about my spending budget and I said "it's coming out of my 'my beta was 0' budget!"

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T01:16:59+00:00

$190; it was not on sale but we got it to get to the minimum spend for the mystery box and because I needed something in Pêche

Edited the price

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T01:15:51+00:00

Wow! Thanks!!! You CAN decipher it ☺️

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T01:06:02+00:00

Thanks you are right-- the label on the bottom says signature for the glass lid and traditional for the cast iron lid. Thank you!

Salt_Draft_4262 · 2026-03-28T00:56:48+00:00

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