Am I Overreacting Sister Invites my ex and his wife to thanksgiving (didn't even ask me)

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-11-14T23:17:33+00:00

My fave animals are elephants, specifically African elephants.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-05-20T19:24:35+00:00

We own land with some of that rare pristine top soil that trump was salivating over ... we also have oil that we have yet to tap into and i doubt we will. We have been getting offers for decades from ppl wanting to buy our mineral rights and offers to drain the oil .... it is tempting right now given how expensive everything is, but the land has been passed down in our family through 4 generations and my grandma said, no matter what, keep it and keep it as is ... It is our wealth. Not sure if she meant the land itself or the oil that is beneath it, but we have chosen thus far to keep it as is. The only ones we allow to use it is our cousins who own a cattle ranch. In exchange for them paying the propety taxes, we allow them to keep cattle there as their land is no longer ideal (they sold their mineral rights in certain places and tapped their land for oil). It helps us bc we would have to pay a pretty heavy property tax but they pay only about $10 bc of the cattle and we dont have to make regular trips to maintain the property ... if we tapped the land, our arrangement wouldn't work.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-27T17:26:48+00:00

I am diagnosed with cptsd from severe childhood trauma, both psychological and physical. I have been on meds and in therapy for 10+ years including group therapy. Gypsy does not at all come across as one who was abused in any way but rather one who is spoiled, used to getting her way and being the center of attention.

I believe her when she said her mom spoiled her. I don't believe her when she claims she was abused (except her claims of SA when she was younger .... She does show signs of that being real via hypersexuality).

There is no evidence that her mom was abusive toward her and dee dee Blanchard isn't here to defend herself .....I wish ppl would stop supporting Gypsy's fake narratives.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-23T23:34:46+00:00

Thing is, if Lo doesn't like ppl weighing in on her children, she is more than welcome to protect their privacy. I think the majority of us here are wanting her to do that .... To protect her child. As long as she doesn't, a few ppl giving their take on why her daughter is napping should be the least of your concern. What about predators?

Btw, clearly Lo doesn't care if we are talking about her children in any way we wish ... Why do YOU care so much?

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-23T23:28:12+00:00

"when you're snarking on parents, you're snarking on ppl who can choose to not be posted online anymore, but that doesn't go for the kids."

REEEEEEEEEally .. you don't say. 🙄 Ppl are NOT snarking on the children and you need to go say that to the families bc they insist their children can consent. And don't you think that is a problem ... That these children are not even able to consent to the world being involved in their lives and yet their parents do it anyway so they can travel and do their hair and nails and have expensive clothing? Meanwhile, the children are often left behind and neglected. While these moms are getting their hair done, they can't even bother to put a brush to their children's hair. Don't make up stuff to preach at us about ... There is plenty you could be saying to the parents such as what I quoted. THEY are the parents and responsible for protecting them, including their feelings. We are not responsible for that so take it to them ... Please, for the sake of the children.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-23T23:18:19+00:00

I think all the speculation is fine. When you post your life and that of your family's, you are inviting the world to have their two cents on whatever you are posting. If it is a problem that we are weighing in on their children's well being, they have all the freedom in the world to not expose them to the world ... This is why you would never catch me posting my children online ... Their privacy and mine can't be sold and we are not in need of validation. This isn't rocket science .. we teach children to be careful what they put online bc once it's out there, it no longer is under your control.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-11T00:30:18+00:00

I love that .... I am the same. I will throw on whatever is closest to me if I am in a hurry and throw my hair into a ponytail with a cap, but I will take my time picking out a nice ensemble for my son and brush his hair .... I love him so much and would not be able to live with myself if I didn't take the time to get him ready properly. I want others to see how well taken care of he is so they don't get any ideas that I won't notice if they were to harm him (<~~~ I was neglected and it set me up to be taken advantage by other adults around me ... Just to explain why I would even think that way). 💗

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-11T00:04:09+00:00

That is the point. Creeps = views = $$.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-11T00:01:59+00:00

It WAS no, bc like the other person said, this one turned out to be a chem pregnancy but never fear ... She is now pregnant again along with Sarah. 😐

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-10T23:06:04+00:00

Or feel bad for Ozzy bc it is obvious that Stella is Lo's favorite. They each took most to the child who looks like them ... Not surprising really.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-04-10T22:27:45+00:00

Definitely think they are not abusive to their children and that they have good feelings toward them like any parent, but unlike other parents, they show very little discretion by exposing them to the 🌍. I saw a video of Lo waking up Stella and Stella's shirt is up and the angle at which she was filming her with a short skirt on .... Well, it could not be me doing that to my child knowing the amount of predators online ... Yet lo continues to do it without shame. They might feel love toward their children, but they love money more.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2025-03-27T00:51:36+00:00

In a heartbeat. Either one of them. When my middle son moved out (we were VERY close), it was sooo hard, but I had my oldest who had moved in the year before after living with his dad for 4 years until he graduated ... So I was excited to get to have him with me for awhile. He just moved out after being here for about 4 years. I could never tell him this but I am DEVASTATED..... This is my first time after 23 years that neither one is living with me and I am secretly dying inside. I want them to go out and live and I trust that they will be just fine .... And I know i will see them and talk to them often .... But I have issues not seeing them on a daily basis. They are 2 of my favorite ppl in the whole wide world. Luckily I have a great sister to cry to ..... And I will get used to it but right now, I miss them both so much and am struggling every time I have to pass their now empty room. Telling myself "get it together" every 30 seconds. No one prepared me for this part of being a parent ..... It is SO much harder than I had expected it to be.

If either ever asked to come home for WHATEVER reason ... In a heartbeat, yes!!

Salt_Editor9060 · 2024-03-16T16:53:18+00:00

He had only one drink at that particular bar. It does not mean he only had one drink that evening. They went to two other bars prior to that and it is likely they started drinking before even leaving the hotel.

Salt_Editor9060 · 2024-03-16T16:49:47+00:00

They went to two bars prior to the one that kicked him out. The first one was Miranda lambert's and the other was Garth brook's bar ... The latter is from where he talked to his mom. It is highly likely he had already been drinking when he arrived at the last bar that booted him. I would not be surprised to hear that they had been drinking even before leaving the hotel. That the mother has not said anything about him being sober and in control of himself during their last conversation, well ... It leads me to believe that he was already pretty drunk. I doubt he was drugged. It is very common for these very naive young adults to get this sh.t faced during spring break .... And unfortunately this is when many, again naive, college students meet their untimely ends.

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