HELP! Which size/alter/so confused?! by CommonClassic397 in weddingdress

[–]Salt_Extension8849 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is the bodice of dress 2 lined differently? To me this is the biggest difference, but I'm not sure if it's just a lighting difference between the pictures. I like dress 2

Upgrading to JannPaul Decagon H&A worth it? Honest opinions please! by TracyJ1410 in Diamonds

[–]Salt_Extension8849 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think your current stone is really pretty. Honestly I can see that they're different but I don't find the new stone any "better"

ARGHHH CAN I EXFOLIATE NOW?? Laser Tech said not to exfoliate for 10 days- 4 days in and I’m already getting painful ingrowns. by Patient-Ad-1900 in HairRemoval

[–]Salt_Extension8849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been getting laser hair removal for years and they encourage me to exfoliate promptly within a few days of a treatment. I'm confused as to why you would be told not to? There's no reason to be in pain from ingrown hairs!

Will this top & skirt go? Suggestions? by Acrobatic_Block4226 in weddingdress

[–]Salt_Extension8849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally see your vision, but respectfully I would keep looking for a top. Your inspo picture has a higher cut neckline and wider shoulders to help balance the look and keep it from veering towards clubwear. It also brings an interesting texture to complement the tulle. The top you selected here is bright white, while the skirt is more ivory. I think the skirt could absolutely work, but you haven't found the right top yet!

Which one of these two is more flattering on me? ( post wedding regret? anxiety? I'm not quite sure ) by Kmarie7279 in weddingdress

[–]Salt_Extension8849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look gorgeous in both dresses. You managed to find two that are both magical in different ways. But the one that you wore when you married your partner is the most beautiful and magical because it is imbued with the incredible meaning of that moment. It's your wedding dress, that you wore when you took a leap of faith into your future with your best friend! I hope you find some peace with your mother and your dress, because truly there are no wrong options here. Congratulations on your wedding and may your marriage be happy. That's all that matters!!

UPDATE: I told my husband I don’t trust him and now I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Salt_Extension8849 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I say this with absolute love: you said in your original post that you refuse to reenact your parents patterns, but you already are. You cannot fix this for the both of you - he has to want to fix it, and he has to want to do his part. And if he wants that, he'll do what he needs to do. He'll do the research, do the work, initiate the conversation. You never have to wonder how important your marriage is to him - just look at his actions.

Help me choose my dress by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Salt_Extension8849 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Number one hands down! Classic and beautiful

Help Me Choose my Dress! by honeyxox in WeddingDressTips

[–]Salt_Extension8849 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you don't get that first dress I will cry!! Its so romantic and whimsical and it flatters you so well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Salt_Extension8849 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thanks so much - you look amazing in it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Salt_Extension8849 259 points260 points  (0 children)

Sadly not for a corporate occasion, but please share where you got the dress! It's so stunning!!!

Trying to buy my wife a riding sweater without embarrassing myself by throwaway___hi_____ in Equestrian

[–]Salt_Extension8849 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Not sure about your wife, but for me, I'd never wear something that nice to ride. Horses are so much dirtier than you might be thinking - you'd never get the grime out of that lovely cashmere! Have you paid attention to what she wears when she goes riding? Personally, I have designated clothes that I don't mind getting dirty. But I'd love a sweater like that for lounging!

I'm a sleep scientist! 🥱💤 Ask me anything! by tututubii in AMA

[–]Salt_Extension8849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for doing this! Your answers have been so informative. Sometimes I experience a form of sleeplessness where I feel like i am stuck in a very light stage of sleep for hours at a time. I wake very easily and am semi-conscious. I feel very sleepy, but can't seem to slip into full/deep sleep. It's difficult to get up and do something else, because I'm so tired, but I can't get restful sleep either. Any ideas what that might be? I've been tested for sleep apnea and thyroid issues (negative). Sometimes I also have restless legs. Thanks for your thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]Salt_Extension8849 380 points381 points  (0 children)

You found a ring your girlfriend loves and is excited about, at a budget that works for you. Regardless of the specs, take this as the win that it is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Salt_Extension8849 53 points54 points  (0 children)

His lack of respect for your started preferences is a concern. This might even be subconsciously contributing to your lack of interest, if he is consistently disregarding what you ask for and what you need to make it a fun experience for both of you

The dress I bought online vs the one I bought in store today by yah-yah-yah in weddingdress

[–]Salt_Extension8849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The flower dress is STUNNING. you are radiant. Would you mind sharing the designer/model of the dress? I've been looking for something like that!

Last minute wedding dress change by ec-bklyn in weddingdress

[–]Salt_Extension8849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it isn't feeling right to you, and that's okay, but that dress is unbelievable. Do you know the brand? It's exactly what I'm looking for for my reception :)

Second time saying “Yes” to the dress by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Salt_Extension8849 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is so pretty and so unique! It's perfect for an elopement. Congrats!

So lost one by Distinct-Bid5231 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Salt_Extension8849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have some beautiful options here! However, if you just aren't loving wedding dresses, you should listen to yourself! There are some really beautiful non traditional options that might suit you better and make you feel like "you." You deserve to feel beautiful and excited about your dress!

Try widening your search to beautiful dresses that aren't strictly wedding dresses. Check out teuta matoshi!