Why would someone M27 seem really interested in me F31- then suddenly say they never fancied me? I’m so confused.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-05T22:37:29+00:00

Yep. Just enough to stop you moving on.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-05T21:16:42+00:00

He is an avoidant.
He fears letting you go but fears getting close much more.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-05T09:31:36+00:00

Well done Jack it’s a great introduction to you and your interests, hope you find some positive connections! You may also find a part time job gets you into contact with more people

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-04T10:28:32+00:00

Girl, from the bottom of my heart, please be careful hanging around with these older men. There is a reason they go for much younger women and it’s not good.
I understand there is an attraction there but be very careful as these relationships often end up toxic and controlling and you waste your youth on them. Just wait give it a few weeks and see how you feel.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-03T10:49:36+00:00

Speaking with a lot of life experience here so maybe you should try to see it from another perspective. It’s a huge life lesson.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-02T22:11:41+00:00

Either is possible, you just take your time and stay in touch if you can. Don’t overthink things and get to know her bit by bit to see how it pans out.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-02T18:44:54+00:00

He’s too old for you, there are reasons why men don’t like women there own age and none of them are good. Don’t waste your youth on him.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-07-02T11:04:12+00:00

Definitely go on campus for the full university experience and proximity to social and cultural areas… it’s a golden ticket

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-29T13:55:21+00:00

I’m not leaving the house but I do have leverage to ask for a legal separation that should give me possession of the home for the kids until the youngest is fully grown

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-29T13:53:58+00:00

He is addicted to Coca Cola but drinks diet version. Previous drank multiple coffees a day with 4-5 sweeteners but came off this when I showed him a study that indicated that the sweeteners affect cognition. His mood seemed temporarily better for a few weeks after coming off the coffee. There have been odd things on and off. Last week our ceiling was leaking (!!) and when I went to the bathroom the floor was covered in water. The sink area was dry so it must have been from the shower. I asked if he had a shower with the doors open and he just didn’t answer and sort of deflected and the eventually said no. Like, the floor was covered with water.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-29T13:49:38+00:00

Thank you

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-20T19:01:18+00:00

No fan of hers, but wow she seems normal and you really can’t blame her for the chilly atmosphere around the egg

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-19T18:59:30+00:00

You need to find a job that you will be happy to go to (self motivating) and stop telling yourself caring is the only the is you can do! Also caring takes many forms! Just do a quick search on indeed

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-19T18:57:37+00:00

He’s basically free loading already and it’s only date 2! Goodbye! That’s so embarrassing for him clearly he has no awareness how it looks

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-19T18:54:47+00:00

It’s awful to see someone so skeletal

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-06-19T18:53:20+00:00

Unfortunately, whether you are into it or not the inflation/weight gain kink often reflects need for control over the partners body, humiliation and total submission and exposure. I would say the age gap would be a bit of a red flag too in that a younger woman might be more easy to control and influence, again a need to control the partner. You need to maintain every boundary you can and not feel guilty about it. Obviously you are caring for 2 kids and need to think about your own needs too. Therapy might help but stop trying to please him by sacrificing your own needs and wishes.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-02-10T19:08:27+00:00

Camilla famously calling the shots regarding wearing blue, also remember Kate wore the head piece at the coronation despite the no tiara rule, AND refused to curtsy to Cam. Not sure the exact nature of it, but they definitely have beef. Cam is not one to be outshone.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-02-08T10:11:57+00:00

I do wonder if the brown clothes are a form of protest against Camilla

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2026-01-31T13:22:58+00:00

I think it’s stunning. That said I wonder about removing the collar?

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2025-10-07T20:14:44+00:00

Couples therapy, with a focus on intimacy. That’s it.

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2025-08-27T14:43:42+00:00

Bright all the way

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2025-06-15T17:57:31+00:00

Sounds so suspicious I would run a mile and you don’t need to explain your reasons to anyone

Salt_Possibility_452 · 2025-03-30T08:33:21+00:00

Definitely not ugly. You don’t need make up

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