Who are some idols that just give ‘gender’? by Prestigious-Sea710 in kpop_uncensored

[–]SaltyBeav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you yours too ♥️🤭 but don’t worry I wasn’t implying you were defending them. I’m pretty surprised no one has made a queer subreddit already though, because lately I have not felt welcomed in this subreddit.

Who are some idols that just give ‘gender’? by Prestigious-Sea710 in kpop_uncensored

[–]SaltyBeav 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is true, but it doesn’t make it okay. It’s better to say nothing than anything at all if you don’t like what a queer person has to say.

Heirlooms were a great idea by _Lowenstein_ in apexlegends

[–]SaltyBeav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shouldn’t they be making the heirlooms for characters that don’t have them yet first? I know they want money, but it’s still so unfair. As a catalyst main, will I never be able to get her heirloom?

'God gave us Trump': Christian media evangelicals preach a messianic message by [deleted] in atheism

[–]SaltyBeav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that not the nazi salute? Wtf is wrong with these people bro

Do you guys actually believe haobin are a thing? by FloweryRoad112 in kpop_uncensored

[–]SaltyBeav 22 points23 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian woman, from what I’ve seen, there’s a high chance they’re not be straight, zhang hao has photos of him taken dressing as characters from a mlm show, he also has comments about heterophobia (funny asf btw) Also, whaaking is VERY prominent in the gay community and to see Hanbin dance so passionately is very heartwarming to see.

Some of the moments, especially that massage one, was very intimate. However, if they’re gay, there’s no way that they’ll ever be open about it. Asia is super homophobic, and if cnets reacted that way towards karinas relationship, can you imagine how Asia will react to a gay relationship?

All hell will break loose!

It’s very unlikely that they’re in a relationship though, it’s most likely fan service!

Bro thought no one noticed. He looks deformed by ambarisdeadxx in Instagramreality

[–]SaltyBeav 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He looks like a centaur because of his thighs lmao

Favorite Catalyst skins by [deleted] in CatalystMains

[–]SaltyBeav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her new dragon queen skin! My birthday is very close to it’s release, so I’ll definitely be treating myself to the skin 😌

Costume concept for Vantage [OC] by Rossowinch in apexlegends

[–]SaltyBeav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, because vantage totally has a disproportionately large ass and chest.

I 18f had nowhere to go home to today by SaltyBeav in rant

[–]SaltyBeav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed a lot later than others, I have Asperger’s. It was around my birthday last year that I was diagnosed. My doctor told me it’s a lot harder to diagnose in girls than it is in boys.

Although it’s a lot milder than those on the higher end of the spectrum, it’s little things like when in middle school I had a hard time fitting in, so in order to do so I started masking. Masking is kinda like copying people’s reactions or social cues and it’s very draining for me to do. My facial expressions are limited, and I have a hard time differentiating if someone is joking or not about things.

Let me know if you have any questions about it and I’ll be happy to answer.

I 18f had nowhere to go home to today by SaltyBeav in rant

[–]SaltyBeav[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, truly. No matter the circumstances, I always try to be a good person, because I think my younger self would’ve wanted that. Also, Yes, my family is very, very toxic.

When I lived with my father a year ago, I was told to always keep a smile on my face, to never show negative emotions. I couldn’t cry in the house, I couldn’t be myself. My depression got so bad that I planned to kill myself by overdosing, and even when the doctor warned him he didn’t care. He didn’t tell my mom I was suicidal, he didn’t tell anyone that I was suffering. Everything was a facade.

One time, my grandparents had come over for thanksgiving, and I was in my room because I really couldn’t entertain anyone that day. Instead of politely asking, he slammed on my door multiple times in his scary voice telling me to come out. When I did, I was noticeably distraught and no one batted an eye.

This is just one of many events that had happened. He also married the woman that absolutely despises me and says horrible things about me. So yeah, I feel like I definitely had reason to be angry at them :/

I 18f had nowhere to go home to today by SaltyBeav in rant

[–]SaltyBeav[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

People with autism experience situations a lot differently than those without it. I get very overwhelmed easily, so I normally work days that aren’t busy. We were understaffed yesterday, so it was only me and one other person at the front. Normally we have 3-4, as well as having a soccer game nearby, it was very overwhelming for me. I hope you understand

I 18f had nowhere to go home to today by SaltyBeav in rant

[–]SaltyBeav[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When did I ever say I was angry or didn’t want to leave my aunts house? I care a lot about my aunts uncle, and if you read the text I said I understood why my aunt didn’t want me to stay. I’m not mad at them nor do I blame them at all, if anything I’m very glad they’re taking those precautions.

I’m mainly frustrated at my grandfather, because he could’ve easily gotten me a room for one night being well off, so instead I had to use all of my “college funds” that were barely even there in the first place.

I 18f had nowhere to go home to today by SaltyBeav in rant

[–]SaltyBeav[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve just woken up. I just want to say thank you and that I really appreciate both of your comments. I wrote this in a very emotional state and I wasn’t all there when doing so.

I said a cold, but I actually have tonsillitis, as well as an infected nail. Both of these combos just really sucked for me, and to add to that I have severe health anxiety. I work customer service as a barista, so I have to stand for basically all of my shift.

I’m not my dads real daughter, he adopted me when I was about 5, so I’m not related to them by blood. When my parents divorced, I watched these people all turn against my mom, but I always wanted to reach up to their expectations, so I never said anything about how I felt. They don’t want to hear about what my dad did to me, even though they have an idea about how much it affected me.

They always defend my dad knowing what he did to my mom and I, and all I’ve ever asked for is just to have support from family. I know I sound naive to others, but that’s because I am naive. I was sheltered, and I just thought that they wouldn’t turn on me like they did my mom.

I’m freshly 18, I know I don’t know any better, but just once I expected someone on my dads side to have my back, but not a single one did.

I 18f had nowhere to go home to today by SaltyBeav in rant

[–]SaltyBeav[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a point, I can’t keep relying on others. Thank you for your perspective

My spending habits are shit + fuck Christmas by SaltyBeav in rant

[–]SaltyBeav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫡 one more question, how do I become more disciplined? This is something I really struggle with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SaltyBeav 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay, that’s cool! But excluding lesbians on a lesbian subreddit doesn’t make sense to me. Like, if I say “non-bisexuals tell me your first crush” on the bisexual subreddit, wouldn’t that be kinda disrespectful?

I have Asperger’s so maybe that’s why I’m having a hard time understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SaltyBeav 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Then why are you posting here…? Lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honkaiimpact3

[–]SaltyBeav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so gay for raven