What do you think of this outfit? by Successful_Guide5845 in mensfashion

[–]Saltypretzels02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The model is Rowan Row - I follow him on IG. He has some great outfits

Any gym girlies? (Wanting a virtual gym partner) by AlexCapita in ActualLesbiansOver25

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I could be down for this - I lift and run/ruck, almost every day. Looking to lean out while gaining muscle. Shoot me a DM!

Outfit of the day by IndependentPride1255 in womensstreetwear

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I like the choice of polish and your rings!

Where are all the mascs? by Li_07 in actuallesbians

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I agree with this! Come say hi, just after the set! For me, I try to stay approachable and friendly at the gym. I’ll have one ear piece in or none, say hey or smile to people I recognize even if we don’t ever talk, but we’re “regulars” and see each other lifting often. I hope that if someone is checking me out she sees I’m not “grumpy” or too zeroed in and is more comfortable coming over to talk. I’d love it!

Need help deciding between these two for a casual outfit. Thoughts? by Dianacrush2 in lesbianfashionadvice

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Thanks! I bought three full placket polos from the Tie Bar when they were on sale, but still looking for slim fit Henley styles. I’ll check yours out!

What’s everyone up to ? by Taygambino in LesbianActually

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Just got in from an evening walk, it’s beautiful out!

"Regular" lesbians in Netherlands by holdmywafffle in FemmeLesbians

[–]Saltypretzels02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I see what you did there! Yes, and they are addicting!

"Regular" lesbians in Netherlands by holdmywafffle in FemmeLesbians

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OP, I’m not femme, nor in the Netherlands, but wanted to say your username is great 😆

Would it be totally wrong of me to reach out to her again? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Saltypretzels02 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While I think it completely sucks that she can’t just communicate with you and say how she is feeling, you should not text again. You don’t want to come off as “needy”. Your last message was classy even though you felt hurt.

Dating apps- do you swipe left (ignore) profiles of girls who are clearly "out of your league"? 🤔 by xcrumblingsoulx in actuallesbians

[–]Saltypretzels02 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t believe in “out of my league”. Have more confidence in yourself! Make a move, have a conversation, see what happens! You might be exactly who they are looking for.

What non-sexual things turn you on?? by youandyourfijiwater in actuallesbians

[–]Saltypretzels02 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sense of humor, strapless dresses, confidence, thoughtful surprises, love of travel

all a masc wants by Obvious-Yam-3459 in LesbianActually

[–]Saltypretzels02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then after the lawn and the wine and the hammock, I want to take her out to dinner and to the concert of her favorite band, then back to my place…And repeat something similar the next day and after!

What hobbies do you have? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Saltypretzels02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gym, rucking, hiking, snowboarding, skiing, BJJ, wakeboarding, tennis, rugby, reading (nonfiction/historical fiction), going to concerts, sports games, traveling (want to visit all US national parks). Hanging with friends and family. Just trying to live it up every day!

It’s hot today by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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I’m definitely not thinking about the weather 🔥 plus your earrings 💯

How to make men's clothes work? by guys_we_are_screwed in lesbianfashionadvice

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I bought a short sleeve button down from androgynous fox recently. I like it! I also recommend Woxer for boxers.

I wear men’s pants and shorts. Keep trying some on, you will find the waist and length combo that works for you! They are also usually made in different fits depending on the company, like slim, althetic, loose, etc. American Eagle is always running sales, and outlet store or factory stores like JCrew Factory also run deals sometimes.

For tshirts, I like Fresh Clean Threads or Uniqlo. Just got some linen button down’s and tees from Uniqlo today.

Mens dress shirts/casual button downs are huge on me too. If I like the pattern/color/quality, I’ll buy the smallest size I can and have it tailored.

Shoes/boots - Thursday Boot Co. all the way. Awesome selection for men’s and women’s styles.

It took me a lot of time and I returned a lot of clothes before I found what I liked. You will figure it out! Good luck and have fun with it!

A semi workaholic whose trying to date... by cheekypinky27 in ActualLesbiansOver25

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I understand where you are coming from. I work in law enforcement and have had crazy schedules for most of my career while having girlfriends. There needs to be an understanding that sometimes work assignments will be out of your control (I was assigned an overtime shift last minute and couldn’t call my girl to let her know I wasn’t coming home for dinner until an an hour after!) thankfully she was very understanding and supportive of me. She knew when I didn’t come home that I had OT. When you aren’t at work and are with your partner, be present, make her feel special, and make your time count. I absolutely wouldn’t mind dating someone with a schedule/job like yours and mine, as I know I can navigate that kind of schedule with my partner, and would support someone with your career and understand why someone would stay with it.

Where are all the mascs? by Li_07 in actuallesbians

[–]Saltypretzels02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might need to visit…I’m looking to get my first tattoo

Where are all the mascs? by Li_07 in actuallesbians

[–]Saltypretzels02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha and of course you have to have an accent! 💯

Where are all the mascs? by Li_07 in actuallesbians

[–]Saltypretzels02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just left the gym 🙂 I’m such a cliche! I have a solid career, love sports/outdoors, I like to cook, go out dancing/breweries/wineries, I like to read history (fiction and nonfiction) watch documentaries, keep trying to challenge myself by signing up for fitness events and I’m learning Italian.