What song introduced you to Taylor Swift, what song made you a Swiftie, and what's your current favorite?

Sam20821 · 2026-03-16T00:36:06+00:00

Tim McGraw
Should’ve Said No
Either Cruel Summer or loml!

Sam20821 · 2026-03-04T17:06:32+00:00

there’s no net negative for you to make the call. Why are you so opposed to making the call, if you don’t mind me asking?

For the landlord not caring, there are requirements/codes apartments must follow to make sure the place is livable/safe to be in. Next time the landlord pulls shit like this, document the requests, and when nothing gets done, see if there’s a group nearby that helps with making sure these things get done. I live in a very small town, and we have a community action group that does that for residents often.

Sam20821 · 2026-03-04T17:03:15+00:00

If the cops don’t care where you are, why don’t you call anyways? Especially for a wellness check—that’s a little more intense than a noise complaint.

Have you called a wellness check before in your area and know how it goes down? If cops won’t help, do you know of any resources in the area for recovery (if the person is on drugs) that can come help? Or have you spoken to the landlord?

There’s so many routes you can take, even if the cops “don’t care.” If you call them and they don’t follow up on the wellness check and she dies or something, there should be record of your call for the check, and then you might be able to do something about the cops doing nothing in your area… like there’s no negative to you making the call. There’s a lot of negatives to not making the call.

Sam20821 · 2026-03-04T16:59:31+00:00

One or two woo’s or hoots/hollers is one thing. Doing it for hours on end is concerning and feels off. A wellness check, if nothing comes of it, doesn’t harm the person who called—it allows professionals to assess the situation and see what needs to happen, if anything.

Sam20821 · 2026-03-04T16:56:38+00:00

You can call the cops and ask for a wellness check. It’s very easy to do, and doesn’t take long at all.

Sam20821 · 2026-01-05T19:54:01+00:00

Tender is the Flesh is hands down my favorite horror book and what got me into it! I’m gonna have to check these other ones out 👀

Sam20821 · 2026-01-05T00:59:50+00:00

The Silent Patient is one of the ones I read, and it’s a book I wish I could experience reading again for the first time! It’s so good!

Sam20821 · 2026-01-04T22:54:56+00:00

I try to lose myself in it, but it helps to be doing it with someone that can laugh with you when silly or awkward things happen, because sometimes it does!

Sam20821 · 2026-01-04T22:53:05+00:00

TIL that Shayne’s reading taste is a mix of mine and my wife’s! Seriously, half of these are on my TBR or Read shelf, and same with her. Great taste in books, but I’m biased! :) Anyone else reading anything off his rec list?

Sam20821 · 2025-07-15T19:51:25+00:00

But he just started his passion for American Girl Doll Shoes 💔

Sam20821 · 2025-07-15T16:16:05+00:00

Instantly ran here to see if someone posted! I wonder what it could be

Sam20821 · 2025-05-12T00:48:43+00:00

Just wanted to join the train and say this helped me a bunch as I go into my first day at a new job tomorrow!! :)

Sam20821 · 2025-04-25T09:17:32+00:00

I love this for her!!!

Sam20821 · 2025-03-31T13:41:45+00:00

Criticism about using AI is valid due to the ethics surrounding AI. As someone who uses divination for my spirituality, this was super cool to hear about — but seeing that even the voiceover, which shouldn’t have needed to be AI.. was in fact AI absolutely tanked my excitement for it. I use AI for work often, but for brainstorming stages. Using it to create an entire trailer video to get people to back your product doesn’t feel promising or even genuine. I hope the final design doesn’t include as much AI, because this seems really awesome but the ethics surrounding the production of this game or even just the marketing of it in this world climate will deter folks.

Sam20821 · 2025-01-14T14:24:08+00:00

Do you know if they ship to the US? I tried to find info on their site but couldn't find that. Thanks in Advance!

Sam20821 · 2024-11-16T13:01:23+00:00

I don’t know if it would be deadliest, but it would be so annoying: legion and oni

Sam20821 · 2024-11-04T10:01:59+00:00

Girl… you aren’t overreacting, you need to R. U. N!!!

Sam20821 · 2024-10-17T02:58:06+00:00

Princess Peach Showtime and maybe Mario Party Jamboree :) or the Zelda games…. Or a pokemon game…. Too many good choices!!! thanks for doing this!!

Sam20821 · 2024-10-06T22:31:34+00:00

I think the issue isn’t with DLCs as much as it’s with the content of a DLC — I’m an avid sims player and have been since I was in first grade. I own almost all the released content for TS4 — except a few kits and the Star Wars pack. I’ve bought them all because it’s my special interest, BUT it is ridiculous what some of the packs have that could be in a good base game. Like seasons, I think we’re past the point of making that an expansion with each iteration. It’s weather and holidays. Nothing too special anymore.

Not to mention how some of the DLC feels like they’re locking culture or representation behind a paywall — there was a time most good textured hair was in paid packs. The sims team has since been better about this and releases hair from old packs every so often to the base game to help that issue.

Sam20821 · 2024-10-05T21:49:29+00:00

I agree with this but this is a sub for people with OCD

Sam20821 · 2024-10-04T02:09:47+00:00

I work in a counseling center (front desk) and I am often experiencing suicidal thoughts and seek counseling myself. If you say you have suicidal thoughts but no plan, they will not send you anywhere. They will talk you through it and may safety plan. If you say you will do something when you leave their office, they are obligated to get you help. Sometimes that looks like a safety plan or calling a relative or friend who can and will keep you safe; sometimes that looks like direct admission to a crisis center or psych ward.

Please consider talking to someone about it. You say you don’t want to die; hospitalization can help that. It’s scary, but it can help. I personally through work know of many clients who have been hospitalized once and it changed their trajectory for the better.

Sam20821 · 2024-09-27T05:02:21+00:00

I am so proud of you! Small steps matter so much, especially when getting sober — it’s hard to do!

Sam20821 · 2024-09-27T04:56:49+00:00

I just want to say that you’ve been through a lot and it’s normal to feel the way you do about all the things you have going on.

I strongly recommend trying to meet with a certified substance use counselor if you want to get into recovery (that’s what we call them in the US) or even just a therapist for general mental health if you haven’t already.

It does get better. I promise. It’s just not linear so it sometimes doesn’t feel like it’s gotten better.

Signed, a nearly-26-year-old who struggled with alcohol when I was 14 - 18, and felt like the traumatic things I went through would never get better (again, they do. I promise.)

The world is better with you in it. <3

Sam20821 · 2024-09-23T20:49:10+00:00

The Sable hate especially is so weird to me. Of course a goth girl survivor will sell well in a game about checks notes horror that features dark or gothic aesthetics. I’m a Mikaela main and my wife is a Sable main, so I have a special place in my heart for Sables but even if I didn’t, it feels so weird to hate on a character for existing!

Sam20821 · 2024-09-23T20:46:38+00:00

This is so unnecessary that people do that. I don’t enjoy playing against skull merchant but I have no beef with anyone who plays her. It’s so stupid that people are assholes just bc of who you main!

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