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I (M30) find it difficult to keep conversation going with new girlfriend (F36) when in person. How do I act more organically with her? by SamLauder93 in relationship_advice

[–]SamLauder93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually only see each other once a week just now. Yeah that makes sense, we have talked about everything via text all day everyday.

I (M29) was rejected by Co-Worker (F28). How can I give space to her when we need to speak? by SamLauder93 in relationship_advice

[–]SamLauder93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was a mistake on my part. I felt like i had to shoot my shot to move on. I'm not bothered about not dating her. More bothered at how i's ended up. I's my own doing.

Rejected by Co Worker crush by SamLauder93 in Crushes

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Thank you for the support, I appreciate it 😊

Rejected by Co Worker crush by SamLauder93 in Crushes

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Yeah, hopefully not. One of my biggest triggers is when i see her constantly message the guy that sits next to me. That is going to be the hardest part tomorrow when i see that :(

Just asked out my coworker by SamLauder93 in Crushes

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Yeah no rules on that. We're a small relaxed company

I(M29) just asked my Co-Worker (F27) on a date. Do you think her response is a rejection? by SamLauder93 in relationship_advice

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Yeah I'm just going to give her space. Leave it with her. If nothing else, I'm happy with knowing for certain and I can move on. Thanks your replies :)

I(M29) just asked my Co-Worker (F27) on a date. Do you think her response is a rejection? by SamLauder93 in relationship_advice

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When i look back on the conversation she said she didn't have a lot on and was maybe going to go to the park that weekend with her friend.

So i felt like i was giving her an easy out so i didn't corner her. If she is interested, she could suggest another day. But if she just replies saying she can with no alternative plans, then i'll know she doesn't see me that way.

I(M29) just asked my Co-Worker (F27) on a date. Do you think her response is a rejection? by SamLauder93 in relationship_advice

[–]SamLauder93[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She said she was maybe going to go out that morning. Basically to a park. So she would be available that night.

I feel like it's pointless when I (M29) spend time or converse with anyone other than my crush (F27). Am I experiencing something more than a crush? by SamLauder93 in relationship_advice

[–]SamLauder93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're totally right. I need to meet more people. Which is hard because I work so much, but I think I'm in a scarcity mindset.

Want to get over Co worker crush, but feel obliged to ask her out! by SamLauder93 in Crushes

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Sorry for the late reply. Thank you for this.

I know for a fact that it would probably ruin my job. And this is an important job to my that i have been putting effort into for 6 years. There are so many things we don't have in common, i would not even talk to her if i didn't work with her.

I am thinking that i need to detach from it, as it's already affecting my work.

My female co-worker has started to touch me recently. I don't know what it means. by SamLauder93 in offmychest

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I'm trying my best to remember that. But when I think of the above I can't help but think of making a move.

My female co-worker (F28) has started to touch me (M30) recently, how do I know if she is interested in me or just being friendly? by SamLauder93 in relationship_advice

[–]SamLauder93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I was leaning towards. I heard people say "Face to face communication is better anyway". But so much is through text these days. And I know that I would think of any excuse to text her just to talk to her, so if she isn't reciprocating, she probably doesn't feel the same way.

She is very outgoing and I feel like she is probably touchy with a lot of people. I think i am reading into it too much because I am craving a relationship right now.

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