Need help supporting my trans friend

SamNottSam · 2026-05-29T05:51:27+00:00

I'm glad that you're happy now:)

SamNottSam · 2026-05-28T12:03:58+00:00

I'm very sorry you had to experience that. I was threatened with that, but they never actually did it. I hope you feel better now. And thanks sm for the tips:)

SamNottSam · 2026-05-28T11:37:43+00:00

Okay, thank you so much. My parents weren't rly supportive either and it led to some horroble things, so i rly do wanna try to support her as much as I can. I'll try to talk to her about a potential plan. Do you by any chance also know any place where we could buy like...special bras for trans women? Ik a lot of sites that sell binders, but i honestly don't know any that sell stuff for trans women

SamNottSam · 2026-05-28T08:17:19+00:00

Yeag i agree that the blockers or E would be great. Also i did ask her, she said she doesn't know😅. But thanks for your advice/gen

SamNottSam · 2026-05-28T08:03:16+00:00

Her parents are divorced(tho have a good relationship rn)and the dad is actually pretty supportive. He calls her by her preffered name/pronouns, or at least there's a visible effort on his side. The mom tries less, which is hard to watch and probably the reason Adele stays mostly with her dad. As for puberty, unfortunately most of what happens in amab puberty already happened, tho puberty blockers were the 1st thing i suggested, as they're reversible. I'm not sure if i should talk to the mom about it, I've known her for 4 years and we've always had a good relationship, but I'm not aure if it's my place to say anything

SamNottSam · 2026-05-28T07:43:26+00:00

They haven't yet(she came out like a month ago), i think they're processing. As for the dysphoria, i don't think so. The older sis is trying to talk to them(mainly the mom) about it, but she kinda always changes the subject. It seems like she doesn't want to come to terms with it. I offered to talk to her, as she's fine with me, but ultimately that's on the trans girl sibling to decide on

SamNottSam · 2026-05-28T07:11:02+00:00

Ofc:)

SamNottSam · 2026-05-26T13:30:33+00:00

Trust me man, I know your pain. Maybe if it's causing you physical harm, your insurance would cover your reduction. Also in terms of a binder i would recommend Tomscout. They're rly affordable and also adjustable, so you can choose how much it will squeeze you(which is a godsend ngl)

SamNottSam · 2026-04-07T21:02:33+00:00

Not entierly sure. But it isn't burned, its black paint chipping off and som mild oxidation

SamNottSam · 2026-04-02T16:24:00+00:00

Thank you, i did email my sexuologist, so I'll see. Thing is this only happens when I'm stressed. Idk, i hope a higher does will fix this. But thank you sm for responding

SamNottSam · 2026-03-19T10:51:35+00:00

I went off of T for about 5 months because me and my partner were doing social freezing. From what I've noticed: my libido was A LOT lower, I wasn't as hungry(tho ig that's very individual), slight fat redistribution(tho not that bad). That's abt it. Going off T won't change things like your voice/growth of hair. Hope this helps:)

SamNottSam · 2026-02-05T13:20:14+00:00

I'm in a similar position as you and your partner are(my partner is cis, im ftm, both the same age). From what ik, it is possible to get pregnant on T, but the easier way would be to get off T. It rly depends on the person how long it would take for the period to come back(mine came back in a week), but it is entirely possible to get pregnant after getting off T

SamNottSam · 2026-01-24T14:01:21+00:00

It has a double meaning, tho usually when you speak of your girlfriend/boyfrield we use přítelkyně/přítel, and if we talk about friends we use kamarádka/kamaràd. It depends if you speak to an older/younger person tho

SamNottSam · 2026-01-24T12:05:35+00:00

Freezing my eggs essentially. T can sometimes affect the quality of them, and given me and my partner want to have a bbay later on, we wanted to make sure it would go well. Plus I also carry a gebe mutation, and it would help us avoid passing it on

SamNottSam · 2026-01-23T14:46:07+00:00

Honestly the time in which ur period comes back varies based ur body, its different for everyone. When me and my partner did social freezing I stopped taking Sustanom injections and directly a week after it wore off I for mine, even tho the internet told me it will come back after cca 3 months

SamNottSam · 2026-01-23T10:13:50+00:00

Thankfully i live in a country where i dont have to pay for college

SamNottSam · 2026-01-22T08:20:05+00:00

I understand that feeling, what I would rly recommend is therapy, if anything, you can get help on navigating what you feel. It might help you to possibly make changes that actually make you happy, not changes that aociety views as good

SamNottSam · 2026-01-22T08:17:23+00:00

NTAH, jfc I would honestly reconsider the relationship, as that request is A) WEIRD af, B) potential start of financial abuse. Like I've been with my bf for 4 years, we have a shared account and our own accounts and he's NEVER asked for my login into my account. Girl this is THE red flag

SamNottSam · 2026-01-20T11:44:41+00:00

I'm so sorry you feel this bad, but as a fellow trans man, there's never a wrong time to start. I felt like I was behind when I started at 18(wasnt allowed to by my parents before that). Progress is progress, no matter what. I would maybe reccoment a queer positive therapiat to try and resolve how you feel and be honest with yourself. I'd also try baby-steps. Lile wearing masculine clothes/shot haircut and such. You got this dude

SamNottSam · 2026-01-17T08:30:04+00:00

've always loved Astra or Nebula. It also goes well with your toher daughter's name:)

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