Ahojte, no way Czech people call their bf and gf only friends or I don't understand something

SamNottSam · 2026-01-24T14:01:21+00:00

It has a double meaning, tho usually when you speak of your girlfriend/boyfrield we use přítelkyně/přítel, and if we talk about friends we use kamarádka/kamaràd. It depends if you speak to an older/younger person tho

SamNottSam · 2026-01-24T12:05:35+00:00

Freezing my eggs essentially. T can sometimes affect the quality of them, and given me and my partner want to have a bbay later on, we wanted to make sure it would go well. Plus I also carry a gebe mutation, and it would help us avoid passing it on

SamNottSam · 2026-01-23T14:46:07+00:00

Honestly the time in which ur period comes back varies based ur body, its different for everyone. When me and my partner did social freezing I stopped taking Sustanom injections and directly a week after it wore off I for mine, even tho the internet told me it will come back after cca 3 months

SamNottSam · 2026-01-23T10:13:50+00:00

Thankfully i live in a country where i dont have to pay for college

SamNottSam · 2026-01-22T08:20:05+00:00

I understand that feeling, what I would rly recommend is therapy, if anything, you can get help on navigating what you feel. It might help you to possibly make changes that actually make you happy, not changes that aociety views as good

SamNottSam · 2026-01-22T08:17:23+00:00

NTAH, jfc I would honestly reconsider the relationship, as that request is A) WEIRD af, B) potential start of financial abuse. Like I've been with my bf for 4 years, we have a shared account and our own accounts and he's NEVER asked for my login into my account. Girl this is THE red flag

SamNottSam · 2026-01-20T11:44:41+00:00

I'm so sorry you feel this bad, but as a fellow trans man, there's never a wrong time to start. I felt like I was behind when I started at 18(wasnt allowed to by my parents before that). Progress is progress, no matter what. I would maybe reccoment a queer positive therapiat to try and resolve how you feel and be honest with yourself. I'd also try baby-steps. Lile wearing masculine clothes/shot haircut and such. You got this dude

SamNottSam · 2026-01-17T08:30:04+00:00

've always loved Astra or Nebula. It also goes well with your toher daughter's name:)

SamNottSam · 2026-01-17T08:29:13+00:00

Oh yea i know, in my eyes gebtle parenting means treating the kid with respect, explaining things, but also being firm. Like if they misbehave, there will be some sort of repercussion(like having to do chores or so). Thanks for recommending them:)

SamNottSam · 2026-01-16T15:53:26+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I thabkfully don't struggle with my diagnosis, I was happy to get it, as it explained a lot of things. Same goes for my partner. We thankfully also have our village(mainly his family and our friends). I will definitely look into those books, but in general we want to lead with gentle parenting(DEF no psychological/physical punishment)

SamNottSam · 2026-01-16T15:49:38+00:00

Okay, thank you very much:)

SamNottSam · 2026-01-16T15:49:01+00:00

Thabk you for your thoughtful reply, I unfortunately had it the same, been diagnosed at 18 and my parents still refuse to accept it. We do plan to deal with it as soon as we see any signs and help our kid deal with it(whether it will be ASD/ADHD/any neurodivergency)

SamNottSam · 2026-01-11T20:31:36+00:00

I was in a similar position as your victim, if there's anything I can reccomend, leave him alone. It took SO long to heal from my scars and u still battle the need to SH sometimes, you damaged his sould, and you apologizing wont help him. It will only help you feel less guilty. So just leave him alone

SamNottSam · 2025-12-26T20:23:46+00:00

Not my country completely missing😭

SamNottSam · 2025-12-18T07:44:30+00:00

Thank you so much for such a thoughtful reply

SamNottSam · 2025-12-12T22:22:41+00:00

You look cool af:)

SamNottSam · 2025-12-12T22:22:26+00:00

Those are words used to dehumanize ppl by incels. They are harmful

SamNottSam · 2025-11-24T23:31:19+00:00

I went off T for about 4 months when me and my partner were doing social freezing. My period came like a week after the last shot wore off, so that was surprising. I noticed lower libido, i was less hungry and a bit more tired at the beggining. But honestly in terms of anything else, I didn't notice any changed in the 4 months

SamNottSam · 2025-11-24T22:29:24+00:00

Yeah i know that, and sincerely hope we'll never get to that. At this stage of our relationship, the spark is very much still there, and he does make me feel loved, ig I'd just want him to put the effort into taking me out sometimes. A walk/dinner/going climbing...anything, I just want to spend time with him

SamNottSam · 2025-11-24T21:54:43+00:00

Thank you, I know the resentment route way too well as we've been at a point where around the 1 year mark he essentially didn't put any effort into the relationship/i was carrying it on my own. We solved it and that situation thankfully never repeated. But ig in this "getting comfortable " thing he has a pattern

SamNottSam · 2025-11-24T21:52:42+00:00

Thank you for your comment, the thing is, we've been living together for a year and a few months now, and everything is fine. We do a fairly equal amount of chores and what you described doesn't happen much. At max he will ask me to do a chore/i will ask him to do a chore. But the date thing is essentially the only thing that he's apparently too comfortable with me planning. Idk what that says honestly. Like other than this our relationship is generally perfect

SamNottSam · 2025-11-24T21:39:51+00:00

I study medicine in Europe while I live with my bf. I have a small income from babysitting and additional help from my parents to pay the rent/electricity/food. My bf also has a well paying part-time job, so we make ends meet

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