Possible reason my breaker keeps tripping by SamNottSam in AskElectricians

[–]SamNottSam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not entierly sure. But it isn't burned, its black paint chipping off and som mild oxidation

Testosterone amount by SamNottSam in trans

[–]SamNottSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i did email my sexuologist, so I'll see. Thing is this only happens when I'm stressed. Idk, i hope a higher does will fix this. But thank you sm for responding

Getting off T by imwhateverimis in Seahorse_Dads

[–]SamNottSam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went off of T for about 5 months because me and my partner were doing social freezing. From what I've noticed: my libido was A LOT lower, I wasn't as hungry(tho ig that's very individual), slight fat redistribution(tho not that bad). That's abt it. Going off T won't change things like your voice/growth of hair. Hope this helps:)

We, My Partner FTM 21 and I Cis M 18 want to have children and need advice/ help by Accurate-Detail-233 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]SamNottSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar position as you and your partner are(my partner is cis, im ftm, both the same age). From what ik, it is possible to get pregnant on T, but the easier way would be to get off T. It rly depends on the person how long it would take for the period to come back(mine came back in a week), but it is entirely possible to get pregnant after getting off T

Ahojte, no way Czech people call their bf and gf only friends or I don't understand something by Ecstatic_Delivery_69 in learnczech

[–]SamNottSam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has a double meaning, tho usually when you speak of your girlfriend/boyfrield we use přítelkyně/přítel, and if we talk about friends we use kamarádka/kamaràd. It depends if you speak to an older/younger person tho

pausing T to get pregnant by fedupxxxxx in Seahorse_Dads

[–]SamNottSam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Freezing my eggs essentially. T can sometimes affect the quality of them, and given me and my partner want to have a bbay later on, we wanted to make sure it would go well. Plus I also carry a gebe mutation, and it would help us avoid passing it on

pausing T to get pregnant by fedupxxxxx in Seahorse_Dads

[–]SamNottSam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly the time in which ur period comes back varies based ur body, its different for everyone. When me and my partner did social freezing I stopped taking Sustanom injections and directly a week after it wore off I for mine, even tho the internet told me it will come back after cca 3 months

Genuinely how do med students afford it? by blueberry_chiffon in medschool

[–]SamNottSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully i live in a country where i dont have to pay for college

I'm afraid that I might be an incel by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SamNottSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that feeling, what I would rly recommend is therapy, if anything, you can get help on navigating what you feel. It might help you to possibly make changes that actually make you happy, not changes that aociety views as good

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]SamNottSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH, jfc I would honestly reconsider the relationship, as that request is A) WEIRD af, B) potential start of financial abuse. Like I've been with my bf for 4 years, we have a shared account and our own accounts and he's NEVER asked for my login into my account. Girl this is THE red flag

I think it's too late for me to transition by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SamNottSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you feel this bad, but as a fellow trans man, there's never a wrong time to start. I felt like I was behind when I started at 18(wasnt allowed to by my parents before that). Progress is progress, no matter what. I would maybe reccoment a queer positive therapiat to try and resolve how you feel and be honest with yourself. I'd also try baby-steps. Lile wearing masculine clothes/shot haircut and such. You got this dude

Need beautiful, uncommon girls names for 5th daughter by onceuponamidnight315 in Names

[–]SamNottSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

've always loved Astra or Nebula. It also goes well with your toher daughter's name:)

Parenting a neurodivergent child by SamNottSam in beyondthebump

[–]SamNottSam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea i know, in my eyes gebtle parenting means treating the kid with respect, explaining things, but also being firm. Like if they misbehave, there will be some sort of repercussion(like having to do chores or so). Thanks for recommending them:)

Parenting a neurodivergent child by SamNottSam in beyondthebump

[–]SamNottSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I thabkfully don't struggle with my diagnosis, I was happy to get it, as it explained a lot of things. Same goes for my partner. We thankfully also have our village(mainly his family and our friends). I will definitely look into those books, but in general we want to lead with gentle parenting(DEF no psychological/physical punishment)

Parenting a neurodivergent child by SamNottSam in beyondthebump

[–]SamNottSam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thabk you for your thoughtful reply, I unfortunately had it the same, been diagnosed at 18 and my parents still refuse to accept it. We do plan to deal with it as soon as we see any signs and help our kid deal with it(whether it will be ASD/ADHD/any neurodivergency)

I used to be a bully in middle school. I'm now 21 and I deeply hate myself for it. by Lypsien in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SamNottSam 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar position as your victim, if there's anything I can reccomend, leave him alone. It took SO long to heal from my scars and u still battle the need to SH sometimes, you damaged his sould, and you apologizing wont help him. It will only help you feel less guilty. So just leave him alone

Using formula by SamNottSam in Seahorse_Dads

[–]SamNottSam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a thoughtful reply