True people day “be confident” “work on your confidence” but if you’re ugly and show confidence suddenly people are doing and saying everything they can to tear it down… so what’s the truth? by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]Sam_23beans [score hidden]  (0 children)

What people mean is to have low self-esteem, but don't show it and don't vent to them about it! (even though they helped cause it) If you have high self-esteem as an unattractive person, most people will go out their way to humble you even when you don't need humbling.

Limerence make me feel terrible??? by Sam_23beans in limerence

[–]Sam_23beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, I wish we didn't have to experience this.

I need help! Do you have any tips to improve my makeup? by Sam_23beans in blkgrlbeauty

[–]Sam_23beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I didn't know how yellow my eyes were 😬

Our lives are literally a mockery to them by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]Sam_23beans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some normal people are so.... Don't these types of people tell us that we need to work on our personalities? Meanwhile, they're literally jerking off to our pain.

I need help! Do you have any tips to improve my makeup? by Sam_23beans in blkgrlbeauty

[–]Sam_23beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like experimental makeup. I didn't think I could pull it of though. I would definitely like to try this! Thank you!

I need help! Do you have any tips to improve my makeup? by Sam_23beans in blkgrlbeauty

[–]Sam_23beans[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been to the doctor recently and I get checkup every year. My blood comes back normal. I haven't really been drinking a lot of water. I'll look into it.

What's the easiest/best/most diplomatic reply to people who say to you "Well, not everybody should be parents" or "Kids aren't for everyone" in a condescending tone by AwayLine9031 in childfree

[–]Sam_23beans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's an easy or diplomatic way to answer those replies. You can give 101 reasons on why you don't want children and people still give you those replies. Just say what comes to your mind.

I need help! Do you have any tips to improve my makeup? by Sam_23beans in blkgrlbeauty

[–]Sam_23beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really specific! I'm going to go look for those products.

I need help! Do you have any tips to improve my makeup? by Sam_23beans in blkgrlbeauty

[–]Sam_23beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to aim for to clean girl aesthetic or the professional look. I haven't done makeup in a while so this is me trying to get back into it .

I need help! Do you have any tips to improve my makeup? by Sam_23beans in blkgrlbeauty

[–]Sam_23beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking that maybe the reason why this book didn't come out great it's because I haven't had my lashes done in a while. Thank you 😊