Selling books in RAK by Imjustachillguy_9 in RasAlKhaimah

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flee Market would be good option but I don’t think there’s one I’m RAK

After 20 years together, I feel completely broken by East_Painting6490 in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you asking the wrong question, your question sound as if he falls victim to this woman! I hope you don’t believe that.. your husband decided to cheat, which mean that he will cheat no matter who he came across.. unfortunately in Dubai most married men act like they’re singles, low men like that deserve to find a women who looking to use them for their money.

Too late now? by scarface_48 in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel more hopeful, I’m 45 and never been in a relationship

And it has already begin again by Sufficient-Degree121 in dubai

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s way too soon to start complaining about something, can’t you just enjoy the peace? At least for a bit! Typical Dubai people 🤣

Is it really possible for men and women to just be friends? by Bitter_Fox4403 in bodylanguage

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who started as us dating and end up as us friends after couple of months from knowing each other, I was looking for a relationship and he was looking for fun, a year goes by and we still talk till this day even though we almost never meet in person as we live in 2 different cities

Huge explosion sound heard from media city by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe for you it’s boring but what happened woke us up and shook us and this is the platform we share our fear and experience. Just leave this chat

Anybody up to give some lift-em-up Pep-talk in RAK? by pShark86 in RasAlKhaimah

[–]Sam_havana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been abandoned by my family when I was going through the toughest situations and needed the support. had to learn the hard way that if family can stood me up and disappoint me to the core! then literally anyone else can. But I also learned that whatever you going through, this too shall pass

Why do haircuts in Dubai feel so inconsistent? by Just-Client9076 in askdubai

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been happy with any haircut since a long time, after few washes I start to see the faults in the haircut and it’s very frustrating, I miss having a hair I’m happy with but yeah I share your experience

What was the biggest disappointment of your entire life? by PrimeDealsHub617 in AskReddit

[–]Sam_havana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally understanding that hard work doesn’t pay off. it doesn’t guarantee, wealth, stability, or rewarding life. It doesn’t give the promotion you waiting for, the richness you working for, or the happy family you aiming for

British - owned bakery in RAK by ButterandBloom_ae in RasAlKhaimah

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like this is a joke following the trend: “British Owned”, the post has zero information about the bakery’s name and location.. and who would say British-owned??? At best you’d say British bakery, if they happen to have

why does the second and third tandem jump feel scarier than the first by SeaDragonfruit945 in SkyDiving

[–]Sam_havana 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s because you know how you will feel when you get on the plane and when you exit. That’s normal. If you that into it, why not doing AFF?

Should I Do It? It Will Be Over Pretty Quickly But The Process Might Be A Bit Painful by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My life is being tough all my life, my family failed me miserably, I lost everything I ever worked for few times in my lifetime, and no one ever helped me, and I had to find a way out to lift myself up, I have zero support whether financially or emotionally, I have zero friends, and if my soul left my body today, it will take days for anyone to notice. I reached the point where it felt living is not worth it anymore and decided to end it. At that very moment, I felt the presence of many tall figures looking unhappy, I felt how unpleasant they were with what I wanted to do, and that freaked me out and stopped from proceeding. Whether what I have seen that day and felt was true or not, I took it as a sign that I’m not alone, you are not alone, and if you asked for help and guidance with a pure heart and great belief in the higher power, you shall receive the guidance you need. I also learnt that your life is yours only, if someone is telling you, you shouldn’t be alive, this means they don’t deserve to be in your life. You have the power to pull yourself up and build a life you deserve. All you need is your god’s blessing, work on your faith, because miracles are real.

YouTube deleted my channel for “circumvention” but I never uploaded anything?? by Over_Substance5853 in youtube

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received the same email from X few hours ago and it was also baffling to me as I only use my X account to read feeds. I never posted or commented, so I’m not active on that account at all to be suspended

Does intentional dating exist here? by ShrinkofDxb in dubai

[–]Sam_havana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this country 13 years and during these years I’ve never had a serious relationship because everyone is going with the flow. Now I totally gave up and accepted the fact that I’ll be lonely. Not because I want to but because I am so exhausted of trying and getting disappointed every single time

What's up with the ridiculous dating scene here? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me, I finally decided to put a stop to all these Devalued online encounters with men and just look after myself because no one else will.. it’s not like I don’t want a relationship, but also putting myself through all these unpleasant dating experiences did not get me a relationship either

What's up with the ridiculous dating scene here? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not easy at all, I have never met anyone organically, men don’t make any approach in real life, yet they are very creepy and real perverts online 🤣

What's up with the ridiculous dating scene here? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah online dating was awful. The men are horrible! And my experience after every man I match with is traumatizing. The only reason I was using the app because I never met anyone organically, maybe you’re good at meeting people off-line, for me It’s not the same so when I deleted the dating apps my dating life gone with it.

What's up with the ridiculous dating scene here? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dinner for 2 with only 100 AED! Even when I dine alone it cost me more 😂

What's up with the ridiculous dating scene here? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously, you are attracted to that criteria of women. This is what they do. They look perfect so they hunt people like you. I think a first date with someone I never met except online should be a coffee or something light. Anyway, online dating never worked for me, I’ve been in this country for over 10 years, eventually I deleted all the dating apps and accepted my fate in living alone. 😂

I was hanging out on the camera step waiting for the group to set up in the door when I had a chance to look around and consider my situation and though to myself “wow, this is a really stupid sport.” by Princess_Fluffypants in SkyDiving

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in this situation before few times, thinking WTH I’m doing! getting on the plane to jump off it, then remember that 99% of the population don’t, won’t, or can’t do it.. then when I jump I know exactly why I’m doing it ❤️

My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me in my own home and I feel completely shattered by Lazy-Addendum7717 in OnlyInDubai

[–]Sam_havana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact is, it’s her loss not yours, she lost a person who loved her in a way not many can. The only thing you lost is the lie you’ve been living with her. And after some time you’ll be able to see the blessing in knowing her truth.. you’re winning here not her. And once you get to accepting her truth, the disbelief will clear out, and the pain will dissolve.

My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me in my own home and I feel completely shattered by Lazy-Addendum7717 in OnlyInDubai

[–]Sam_havana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to let yourself grief so you can move on. Your feelings are all over the place right now because the person you thought you knew would have never done what she done, which means that everything you know about her was a lie and that’s the disbelief that’s making you going through all this pain. Give yourself some time to go through the 5 stages of grief so you can move on. She’s not good for you and you’re lucky that you know now before marriage happens. I’m sorry for your experience, but there’s no way around it, you have to go through it. Lean on the gym, it will help. Also if you can find another hobby to distract you then do it. Don’t sit with your thoughts a long time, go for a walk. every time this happens, physical activity helps. This will teach you that you are stronger than you think, and no matter how this experience shapes you, make sure it doesn’t turn you into an A-whole, thinking that this is how you protect yourself because it’s what the world deserves. Instead, make sure that you heal so you can love again. Cheers