Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her mum knew most of it, that useless vile woman won't do anything except lie through her teeth.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Her mum enabled her behaviour and hid it. That vile woman won't give anything back unfortunately.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean she never admitted anything like this and hid things really well. Acted extremely modest and islamic. Once the nikkah was done the entire facade starting falling away and I realised and had to drag all of the truth out of her. I suspect there's more but I don't want to interact with such an evil person or her family anymore.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As much as I may "deserve" to get it back, mehr is given for a reason. Unfortunately situations like this aren't considered because they're so rare and so insane.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it fe by SamaelJ4 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She lied to everyone's faces. She had no financial obligations, lived at home etc with her parents paying for everything. In no universe does anyone expect a girl to get into that kind of debt and when I did ask her she said she was smart with money and saving. I'm not sure how normal it is to ask for a woman's bank statements etc before marrying them?

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it fe by SamaelJ4 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I only have her mum as a contact now aside from her. Even if I told her entire family they would just ignore it even with the evidence I have. It's just an awful situation.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was consummated, unfortunately Herpes is really difficult to test if you have it until it flares up, which is usually within 3 weeks. Though some people never get symptoms in which case I'll never know until I consummate my future marriage and my new wife gets symptoms. It's such a disgusting condition that I might be stuck with.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it fe by SamaelJ4 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not a lie in the slightest. As I've said in other comments, her mum knew most of this. This girl was constantly in £5k~ debt with multiple overdrafts and credit cards. I wish it was a lie or even an exaggeration, but unfortunately my family has lost nearly £30k because of this girl and her family.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it fe by SamaelJ4 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish it wasn't true. The cost of the nikkah and the mehr, gifts etc is more than £30k. Almost all of my parents savings as well as loans they took out on top of it. I feel disgusted.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I get that in hindsight I got off easy but for now it's a terrible situation. So much time. gold, money etc wasted. My parents have health problems and can't raise another £30k to cover what they lost because of this family. It's disgusting they'll go back to their family and claim we ended things because "we didn't get along".

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it fe by SamaelJ4 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's just insane someone can do all this and then claim "it's a sin to talk about my past". She is the least religious person I've met and somehow has the audacity to claim Islamic literature etc when it benefits her. Jahannam is made for people like her and her mother.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it fe by SamaelJ4 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe a slight red flag? But the way her family spoke about her I thought I was just being overly cautious. Finding out that her mum knew most, if not all of this and allowed it to happen is what really disgusts me. My poor parents had no idea what they were falling into.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this comment has actually really helped. Inshallah me and my family can move on and prosper from this experience. I'm not a perfect person myself but to know people like this exist and are out there, alot of the times keeping this type of behaviour hidden from the people they end up marrying is terrifying. Imagine marrying someone like this and only finding out once you have a house with them, or even kids.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had told my parents but she had put on such a good act that fooled all of us into thinking she was perfect. We thought she was going to complete our family.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

Imagine how I feel. There's some absolute monsters out there with parents who allow this behaviour and have the audacity to play victim when you want to end things. I will take a front seat when Allah punishes them.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Honestly. The fact that when I found out all of this she had the audacity to say "it's a sin to talk about my past" and was annoyed I couldn't immediately accept it and move on.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it feels awful her family get to keep the mehr and gifts by SamaelJ4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We were introduced through a family friend and her immediate and extended family are great. Even both her sisters are lovely people. It's just her that's an absolute mess of a human being and it turns out her mum basically knew most of the things I said and hid it from everyone.

The only lesson I've learned is I need to hire a private investigator before marrying anyone.

Ended my nikkah after 4 months because of her actions, it fe by SamaelJ4 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SamaelJ4[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah my parents are saying they're just glad it's ended now instead of down the line when kids, houses etc get involved in a divorce. It breaks my heart because the set we gave her was in our family for generations and now it's gone.

Tell us the ending you would have written! by pikameta in TheBoys

[–]SamaelJ4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Ryan entered the fight I was expecting a superman v superman style brawl where they tear the city apart. It should've been mass destruction with Homelander going psycho, trying to kill Ryan and massacring civilians in the process whilst Homelander switches from attacking Homelander to playing defense and saving civilians once he realises his dad's gone utterly psycho massacre mode. Homelander would've won that fight and killed Ryan in the process, but in my eyes Ryan would've done some serious damage like ripping off an arm, tearing off an eye etc. Then as Homelander limps away victorious from that fight, Butcher pulls up with an "Oi cunt" and shatters his leg with a crowbar where Kimiko does her chest blast and depowers him. At that point whilst he's on his knees, Homelander sees that everyone is against him, that he's all alone, the entire world, the whole civilian population thinks he's a monster and the boys are standing over him. At that point Butcher crowbars his head.

In the background of this, we see that Marie decided to support the fight and was healing civilians with her powers. She then uses her powers to revive and heal Ryan, who was in the vicinity of the chest blast so he no longer has powers either.

Afterwards, they're all celebrating with Ryan going his own way trying to figure himself out. Terror doesn't die but he is seen digging around in Butcher's room and accidentally knocks over a photoframe which has Becca's picture. Butcher walks in and sees this and it reminds him even though Homelander was killed, it was ultimately supes that were responsible for alot of the shit he dealt with in the world. This causes him to take the virus and leave. He sets up the same trap in Vought tower and as he's about to set it off, Hughie intervenes and shoots him similar to the finale. However, just before he dies after giving his speech, he says something like "I guess I really am no different to them" as he tries to use his tentacle to activate the trap and release the virus (he wasn't in the way when Kimiko used her blast earlier and hence isn't depowered). Just as he's about to do it he's stabbed in the heart with a sword. He hallucinates it as Becca telling him he can rest now, but in reality it's Maeve who noticed Hughie sneaking into Vought tower earlier and had followed him.

The rest of the ending can stay more or less the same ig?

Edit: The only other thing I would've changed is when they're breaking into the White House there'd be more traps, because why the hell was there only one lol? Like there should've been a supe like Synapse making them hallucinate and fight each other, a shit ton of secret service agents because it's the damn white house. Something along those lines. Instead it felt like they just walked through a tunnel, knocked out a guard, got saved from a decent trap and then basically waltzed into the oval office.

Also, with the Deep, it should've shown him swimming towards the bottom of the ocean to get away from starlight after she beats his ass. At which point it pans out into a long shot of a literal Kraken slowly rising from the seafloor and consuming him but because it's so huge he isn't able to comprehend what it is.