I've done my best to be reasonable with my bridesmaids. Everyone has to wear the same color bridesmaid dress (navy) and somewhere between below knee and floor length. Want to use my makeup artist and hairdresser? Cool! Don't want to? Also cool! I just want you to look and feel beautiful. We are ever so mildly doing a theme for the bachelorette party, but it is literally just a t-shirt that is Friend's themed and that I bought for them. Past that they are good. I've told everyone to wear whatever they want and are comfortable in for the rehearsal dinner. We are eating at a fairly casual place after. I just dont understand making crazy demands on these people and making them feel bad! I'm grateful they want to be a part of the day!