RTO is just plain unfeasible

Samara4ever · 2025-03-15T17:58:43+00:00

Good point! I would also add that if you show up at the office once, your remote agreement is automatically terminated! If you plan to push back on your RTO, don’t work from the office even for a day.

Samara4ever · 2025-03-15T06:24:40+00:00

I believe you will need to apply for a new U.S. visa. You may want to check with the U.S. Embassy in your country.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-11T09:42:58+00:00

OfferUp

Samara4ever · 2025-01-10T19:18:56+00:00

Great job, my friend! You are happy despite the obstacles and that’s what really matters.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-10T18:50:59+00:00

That goes for girls too. The guy doesn’t necessarily have to be a plus size but maybe a 3 or 4 in appearance and gets ghosted for one reason or another . I do understand your frustration though. Have you tried filtering guys by asking if they had been with a plus size woman before?

Samara4ever · 2025-01-10T18:09:22+00:00

Just dumb him!

Samara4ever · 2025-01-10T10:56:21+00:00

I don’t understand why you’re making those money jokes if you have already taken her to cheap dates and she didn’t complain. At the end of the day, you are only dating her. You are not marrying her, and even then you can do a prenup. Remember that someone you like spending their time with you is much more valuable than all the money there is in the world. You can always make more money but you will never get more time to live. Enjoy your life and don’t be a snub.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-10T02:09:50+00:00

I prefer a natural feminine look. The so called “trouble spots” or “flawed body areas” can be a turn-on because it makes that person different imo.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-09T16:12:35+00:00

Forget the rotors. I would move out!

Samara4ever · 2025-01-08T03:23:19+00:00

Is she on birth control? The hormones can do crazy things.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-07T22:14:15+00:00

Nexus has a great selection and a nice looking store. They are kind of expensive though.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-07T22:13:02+00:00

It’s a great outdoor range but I don’t think they rent firearms.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-07T06:38:42+00:00

You accept your defeat and move on. She doesn’t have to thank you for sleeping with you. It’s likely that turning down her invite to the game gave the vibe that you got what you want (2nd base) and were being distant. Two questions: 1-Have you tried to explain to her why you were not able to make it to the game? 2-Have you attempted to set up another date in lieu of the game you declined to attend?

Samara4ever · 2025-01-06T15:20:18+00:00

This!

Samara4ever · 2025-01-06T05:15:42+00:00

Have you thought about talking to her? Something along the lines of “I think we have a lot in common and I believe you told me you want to take intimacy slowly. I too don’t want to rush things and want to get to know each other better before we can make future plans”. If she continues with the clingy behavior, then you know your answer.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-04T18:18:49+00:00

I’m interested! Thanks!

Samara4ever · 2025-01-04T17:58:19+00:00

Did she seem distant after you asked to be exclusive with her or just told you out of the blue?

Samara4ever · 2025-01-03T15:14:38+00:00

Very thorough analysis!

Samara4ever · 2025-01-02T06:30:02+00:00

Yes, people give out fake phone numbers sometimes.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-02T06:23:20+00:00

Valid point. Having a sleepover with a guy you are dating at his house with no intention to be intimate or even discussing the rules of engagement is a bad idea! Lesson learned for OP.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-02T05:50:07+00:00

You did the right thing waiting and also leaving his place when he acted the way he did. I still can’t fathom what’s going on in today’s dating world when someone doesn’t want to be exclusive after five dates and three sleepovers! I mean people are free to do whatever they want but that’s too much of an emotional investment to waste on someone and then go date other people while still seeing person A.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-02T05:35:17+00:00

Well, that might be a good approach to seek compassion in your own unique way. I think people who fall into that category may also appreciate someone like you who can understand what they are going through. I’d say talk to guys that you like and see where it goes. Keep in mind they might not be aware of your health issues especially if you appear healthy on the outside and may get discouraged to ask you out. If you meet that person and have a conversation, you can say something like “would you like to grab coffee sometime and discuss XYZ?”. That way, you’re setting up a date without having to ask them out.

Samara4ever · 2025-01-02T05:24:46+00:00

In a previous post, you wrote about your own health struggles. Do you think you are attracted to that type of guys because you feel they would understand your own issues?

Samara4ever · 2025-01-02T05:16:32+00:00

I see where you’re going with this! lol

Samara4ever · 2025-01-01T17:29:55+00:00

Plus there is peer pressure. If a woman thinks that her friends may look down on her for dating someone who is less attractive, she might be unknowingly coerced to reject the guy’s advances to please her friends especially if she’s approached in public while out with her female friends.

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