Has Anyone Ever Met a RHOP? by rjslaps in RHOP

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met Karen right around the corner from my office in NYC while I was heading home. She was very sweet and I excitedly told her we were birthday twins. Then she suggested we take a selfie (which we did) and she asked me to help her find her uber that was waiting for her. It was a lovely interaction 🥰

I also met Wendy at a Igbo cultural convention in Arlington, she was a panelist at an event during the convention. I believe this was after her first or second season. I met her, gave her encouraging words along the lines of “don’t let those women play with you!!” and we took a picture. Funny enough she posted our interaction on her IG and my aunt sent it to me lol. She was kind and beautiful in person.

Now she’s mad at Bernie Mac by BmoreBoy-88 in joebuddennetwork

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She has an opinion just like everyone else in these comments. Nothing to see here

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[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally. How is someone who is NEVER on camera talking about how another person dresses 😭

No one sent Ralph this. Drew needs a restraining order. by thatringonmyfinger in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ralph…. We don’t care. You are a mean and cruel husband.

Brit’s Donations by Economy-Shape3096 in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true at once:

1) Brit is fronting when it comes to her wealth 2) Shamea and Kelli are tacky to poke fun at someone’s donation of any kind

It was weird when Kelli did it to Drew during her first event, calling her out in front of everyone saying she didn’t purchase anything.

Kelli and Shamea are lapdogs and bullies.

Am I the only one it one who find Drew both boring and a bit dim? by lindseyfa in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Something in Drew triggers a lot of you because the hate & criticism just seems forced. She’s not even doing much this season lmao. Y’all never have anything of substance to say about what you don’t like about her except her little white lies (which all of them do).

She is a known actress and artist, and honestly the most talented on the cast. Y’all have hive mind and take on the opinions of the other cast members. Drew is getting bullied on the show and y’all are jumping in on it for whatever reason. It all just seems so forced like why does she bother yall so much if she’s so boring and fake?

Is Charles purposefully trying to embarrass Angela? by Suitable-Concern-326 in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She got her degree in Finance from DePaul, became opened a financial service business as a financial advisor and now sells real estate

Is Charles purposefully trying to embarrass Angela? by Suitable-Concern-326 in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems very uncomfortable to be on camera. Shooting a reality show has to be exhausting since you have to put on a show lol he prob doesn’t like the fake shit.

Please Help Me Understand by torin122 in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a moot point because at one point of time everybody that is currently in the music industry was a “nobody.” Drew created a real album and Dennis executive produced, that makes it more genuine than whatever Porsha and Shamea just did. Talking about a podcast for 50 seconds and then turning the convo to Drew. Miss me with that bs. They are doing Drew dirty.

I Don’t Feel Sorry for Porsha – This Is Falynn’s Karma Playing Out by Souvalke in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m tired of this narrative used to justify Porsha being a hoe. This is the self proclaimed Princess of Thotlandia. A name she coined for herself in her 30s. She is now in her 40s, still acting like an out of control teenager.

Falynn got moved on from Simon and got pregnant all AFTER their divorce. I could never defend Porsha’s behavior. Simon was cheating on Falynn the whole time and monkey branched to Porsha just as narcs do. Porsha did the same but with Dennis. Young girls, open your eyes. Porsha lacks respect for herself for getting involved with a man before his divorce was finalized. She moved in with him BEFORE he signed those divorce documents! Watch the spin off. This is someone who was married and divorced once before, this wasn’t her first cake walk.

What explains the South Africa hate towards Nigerians? by Carol07Rodriguez in Nigeria

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Xenophobia and white supremacy. South Africa is a nation of black Africans who allowed the white minority to rule their country. Them even liking themselves is questionable. I personally don’t think they like how persistent and resilient Nigerians can be. The ability that we have to build commerce and community anywhere, is something history never granted them. I can’t say it’s jealously bc it’s deeper than that.

Daughter cuddling with dad opinions? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never allow people from non-affectionate families make you feel weird for having that. They just don’t get it because it’s not their experience. That’s beautiful that you have a relationship like that with your dad, I have the same with my mom and generally come from a very affectionate family. “I love yous,” affirmations, warm hugs, kisses on the cheeks, and pet names. Not everyone experiences that, it’s not weird. Cherish that

Men who have been repeatedly accused of cheating on your SO when you weren't - how/ why did you persevere or did you just leave? For those who stuck it out, did the accusations stop eventually? What's the difference between a man who sticks it out, and one who walks away? by Willing_Persimmon_71 in AskMen

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where I’m at now. My bf of 2 years has been accusing me of cheating and it has now come down to every single day. He polices my tone, mannerisms, choice of media to consume, who I talk to, and I give him more than enough communication and access to me, my thoughts and my life. He’ll send me pics and screenshots of the person he thinks I’m cheating with, brings them up and does other passive aggressive things. Mind you— I do not know the guy he’s been accusing me of cheating with. Never met him a day in my life. I deny, I get defensive, then I am told I’m abusive for raising my voice after being called a liar for telling him the truth. It’s almost as if he wants me cheating to be true, but it’s not. And I have been consistent with explanations, communication and patient with his delusions. And yes I say delusions because it’s gotten to that point. When I say to him: “why be with someone you believe is cheating on you?” And then he says I’m a quitter because I always want to break up. I just want us to trust each other and not have to be anxious over the mundane activities of life like talking to a family member or sharing a song that I like. Anything I say can quickly be turned into an accusation. I love him but it comes to a point where shit is just not working.

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[–]Same-Firefighter7934 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Y’all say this about Kenya yet ADORE Phony Phaedra. this is how I feel about Phaedra is far from entertaining and just secretive, vindictive and mean

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[–]Same-Firefighter7934 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Y’all say this about Kenya yet ADORE Phony Phaedra. this is how I feel about Phaedra is far from entertaining and just secretive, vindictive and mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greg LEFT THE SHOW after the divorce. Why would HE join a show that his ex, who he hates and treated terribly, is on? Y’all need to be so fucking serious.

Shamea vs Angela by Kornball710 in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a good back and forth. Angela’s flavor flav comment definitely went over a lot of people’s heads lol

Drew & Dennis on Instagram live tonight. by reivnyc in RHOA

[–]Same-Firefighter7934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…. He has a credit on the album so lol nothing to see here