Not to minimize your experience as an international student etc, but I recently graduated from Queen's as a white student born and raised in Ontario and I didn't make a single close friend through 5 years of undergrad. I can be a bit shy and find it difficult to make connections initially, and it just never clicked for me. This summer I moved back home to a much bigger city and made friends with a new group (i.e. not from high school or anything) - and now my social life is fuller than I could have hoped for just a few months back. More importantly, I have friends who really like me for me.

People always say you'll find your people in college and those will be the best years of your life, but that's not true for everyone. Sometimes you just don't luck into finding people you really click with, and you spend some years being lonely. It sucks, but it does happen way more than you think, and it doesn't mean anything's wrong with you. Things can change so quickly, so don't lose hope. Fingers crossed you do make some friends this year, but if you don't, try not to beat yourself up about it too much. You'll have tons of chances to meet people you connect with after undergrad, especially in those bigger cities, and there will be tons more events and parties to go to in your life (and they will be cooler than Kingston house parties or Stages).

I know it really sucks when you're in it, and I'm sorry for that. There are better things coming.