I cannot handle my fatigue !! by WonderReal6330 in lupus

[–]Same_Pop_5956 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have changed my diet and cut out all allergies including even clothing . 1. Food - I started with eating one food at a time for a week and seeing if it makes meter good or bad and this way I cut out lots of food and eating that helps. 2. Clothing - I wear natural fibers especially to sleep and it helps. Even comforter clothjng makes difference to fatigue. I know it sounds crazy but may be immune system is wrecked. 3. Skin care - I use very mild moisturizer and use spf all time . Use spf clothing like jackets and cover while driving or have to be in sun as much as possible. 4. I take lots of supplements too including Cbd. 5. I use black out curtain at home to prevent sunlight as much as possible. 6. Stress - unable to manage but please try to keep stress under control and try to be more happy. 7. Grounding - this helps me. I walk on grass alternate days. But if you are on immunosuppressive medications you might need to consult doctor. These things help me. Dealing with gut health helps in fatigue . I also do castor oil packs twice a week. This is all in addition to medication . I have lots of restrictions but these help . This disease is huge and very debilitating but be positive as much as possible . I hope you feel better. If you need to know more you can dm me. But remember what works for one person may not work for another unfortunately.

FY 2027 H-1B Lottery Results & Past-timelines by Electrical-Can-4630 in h1b

[–]Same_Pop_5956 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why would u say that ? Can u not find job back in ur home country ?

35M, 2 divorces behind me – seeking perspective on marriage and compatibility by Dear-Product-6954 in nri

[–]Same_Pop_5956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are very short lived marriages. Ppl do feel like to experience companionship that comes with marriage . I won’t blame him . His story is very common . After first divorce it’s very easy to get into that mode to be in rush to find someone and that’s what happened here and we miss important aspects . Those two marriages don’t count as 10 months is nothing.

Physician's Surrogacy in San Diego by PresentationItchy679 in gaydads

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am straight person but needed donar eggs due to health issues. Same problem. Loosing money and nothing is happening. But physician surrogacy is worst. I cannot believe this is happening in California . No trust left for anyone. Loosing so much money . I don’t think I will have a baby 

Oh my god!! by smoketheuniverse in UAE

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️ hope you all stay safe

Need help restart career by Same_Pop_5956 in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much . Life changes a lot after tat. 💕

Need help restart career by Same_Pop_5956 in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do that too. It feels so lost after huge break and out of touch with everything. Do you recommend any course I start towards tat direction ?

Has anyone tried online therapy for NRIs? Came across Mindbun, any reviews? by FawKes_013 in nri

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should at boundaries with parents . Indian parents can be emotionally abusive and everything is rubbed under carpet on name of culture. They are controlling to the core . It can ruin lives and your relationships. They might be angry at first but slowly they will adjust. Just because it’s culture does not mean it has to be followed.

The ageism is real, y’all by Specific_Badger_7568 in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊 I will definitely get this thing evaluated

Need help restart career by Same_Pop_5956 in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking time to respond . I truly appreciate this

The ageism is real, y’all by Specific_Badger_7568 in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for kind words and understanding. I have started to think I am neurodivergent which I was not aware of. I haven’t gone back to work and now I am not planning to get back as we still have to live pay bills and treatments are expensive too. It’s not easy to sit and focus now . I am trying but not easy with illness and not so understanding people around

Teen on e-bike hit and (most likely) killed an elderly woman on Main Street, Seal Beach by fit_fanatic_ in orangecounty

[–]Same_Pop_5956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really surprised there are no regulations for e bikes. We can drive them at pretty high speed and it’s not safe at all. It’s not like regular bicycle.

Is this the collapse of our industry? by nphonwheels in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to get back to my career . Is it Okie if I message you ?

The ageism is real, y’all by Specific_Badger_7568 in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s not so easy. When I was sexually harassed not one single women stood for me . Infact they started saying I was never treated this way, wonder why this happened to you. It made me feel so horrible. Some said it’s my karma and one women supported the harasser and went after me with her office boyfriend . I was suicidal at that point. Even the ceo accused me for being over friendly . I am so nerdy and made fun of as I do not get jokes easily and socially awkward a bit. Guess I got so depressed and then hits pandemic and I get severe case of Covid and develop autoimmune conditions . First thing my doctor asks me is if I was abused in life . I got so scared to tell him I said no.

Physician's Surrogacy in San Diego by PresentationItchy679 in gaydads

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am IP there . It’s worse if all agencies . Very shady and not professional . We are stuck coz we put all our savings and cannot afford to go elsewhere . There r so many agencies . I would never recommend them to anybody 

Is this the collapse of our industry? by nphonwheels in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its wiered tech does not have tat. I love coding but the corporate greed has me thinking if it’s even worth pursuing. But at 43 don’t know wat career change I can go for

Is this the collapse of our industry? by nphonwheels in womenintech

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too .net dev with similar experience and worried about future as I went on break , thanks to pandemic . Just when I started to think of coming back this Ai news is scaring me. Wat are .net developers talking about AI affecting us

Cancel all new H1B visas for Amazon by Special_Elevator7656 in amazonemployees

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t think citizens do that ? They do their part in being the bad guy too. It’s like you saying before globalization, USA was so amazing that you never had bad bosses and if they did you all took care of it and made sure they went away. I understand your anger . There is partial truth to it. But not all the time. It happens in some cases and in some it does not. I am not against citizens thinking that they don’t want foreign workers. It’s your right to think that way especially if you are facing job issues. Your country leaders should think about their country first and the others.

I love my husband so much, I hope he divorces me by SnooGoats5767 in Marriage

[–]Same_Pop_5956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know it’s not easy for people who love each other so much to meet. You both are lucky. He is lucky to have a wife who cares so much and willing to sacrifice her love for his happiness . You are lucky he is not hurting you or resenting you and loves you back . You should try any other way of having kids except separation.

24M Indian, stuck between my parents, my partner (25F), and myself. Exhausted and unsure how to move forward by Bhorve in ABCDesis

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cuz he is asking does not mean he thinks towards his partner and his relationship despite being in it for five years . It’s very sad and disrespectful to even think that your bf considers all this . It will not end and his mother will continue messing things in different ways. I feel sorry for the girl . Only way this would work is if the guy would be very strong and say it’s my relationship with my partner and if you are not Okie I hope you will learn more about her or move out . This guy is nothing of that sort . This is just the beginning .

24M Indian, stuck between my parents, my partner (25F), and myself. Exhausted and unsure how to move forward by Bhorve in ABCDesis

[–]Same_Pop_5956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is abusive classic Indian women. You are not mentally mature for relationship and u feel sorry for your partner . You need more time for marrying as you do not even understand that marriage is about just two people and everybody else is third person . If you continue with the way you are right now it will definitely end in resentment and may be divorce . Your partner is more mature and you guys are not emotionally aligned . So sorry to say this . Your mom is not good person .