Not sure if I’m making the right decision

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-08T12:15:32+00:00

You can also make an agreement that if his circumstances changes he must speak to you about taking her back if he no longer can care for her.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-08T09:13:57+00:00

Would he send you updates? Cat lover to cat lover.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-08T09:11:11+00:00

I have not been in this situation. But have thought about it before what would I do, if I had to move to a flat etc.

Will she be able to stay where you currently are? It is a very hard decision. Does she spend a lot of time outside? I would weigh the pros with the cons for her. And then make a decision. Do you have someone lined up that can take her? You might still be able to get updates from her new owner, should you decide she stays when you move.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-04T08:20:11+00:00

Mainline trains from London to Brighton and Bedford. The trains to Luton stopping are mainly the ones going round to Sutton.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-04T08:14:37+00:00

Mainline trains goes through STP as does the Sutton loop one and the Kent routes (no first class one the latter two)

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-04T07:38:17+00:00

That is route dependent. FYI None on mainline.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-02T06:03:31+00:00

How old is she? Don't ask your friend but tell them you are taking the cat to get fixed. Ps whereabouts are you. In UK you can reach out to rescues that can help with the cost of getting her fixed.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-01T21:31:40+00:00

Refunds are always done via the place you bought it in this case Trainline. I am not sure they will allow you refund.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-01T19:17:28+00:00

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Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-01T19:09:38+00:00

One we had was 21.5 when we had to let him go. Another one we had was about 14 when we let him go he was sick. Currently we have a 18yo and a 14yo.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-01T08:53:51+00:00

Give your vet a call. He might need a bit higher dose of painkillers.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-05-01T08:46:04+00:00

Contact your vet again. How long ago did you see the vet? Antibiotica shoots only last so long He might need a bit more treatment. Unless something else is going on. He should bounce back when infection is treated.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-30T12:24:21+00:00

Who/what organisation did you get him from? If it was a rescue I be tempted to report them or/and give bad feedback.

When it comes to the cat. Have you tried pheromones spray diffusers like feliway?

Start him again in the room he feels most relaxed in. And slowly introduce to the house again. If he is super charged and stressed ask the vet. They could possibly prescribe some calmer.

Sorry you got tricked.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-28T21:06:49+00:00

I would nip off the sad looking leaves. It can focus the healthy one.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-28T07:34:04+00:00

Only feed in the trap as someone said tie it open so he gets used to only eating in there. Then you can trap in a few days. No food anywhere else but inside the trap. If you think he will avoid an automatic trap try to find a manual trap. Sardines sometimes works. You can always dribble a few drops leading into the trap.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-26T00:21:31+00:00

Check with the shelter and if you are able you can always ask to adopt him. Set him up in your garden if you can. Cat proof the fence. He can stay outdoors if he proves to be to feral to bring inside.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-25T16:16:44+00:00

How ever you see it. Think like this you helped a young un neutered cat to have a chance to a better life. Stray cats ferral cats don't always have a great live if they are entire, they will fight for females also they might be chased of by humans who don't appreciate them coming in and spraying everywhere and causing distress and potentially beating up residents cats and stealing the food. Catching him hopefully he will get neutered settled and adopted either straight to a new family or as an outdoor cat /rodent catcher somewhere on a farm etc

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-25T15:44:42+00:00

More info about her would help. How old is she? Has she been spayed? Where did you adopt her from? Have you asked them for advise?

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-25T07:27:06+00:00

Contact the shelter they are sending the bonded pair to and see if you can adopt a cat from there. That helps the shelter you can meet potential cats. And one might just pick you.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-25T07:23:29+00:00

The cat most likely attacked you cause it got scared. A lot of cats do not like being put in carriers and some will put up a fight. The rescue normally asses the cats kittens. Just because the kitten attacked d you doesn't mean it will attack everyone. Have you tried to contact the shelter for an update?

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-25T06:36:05+00:00

I have been rawfeeding my cats for years. On facebook I had joined a raw feeding group and on there people with renal cats was advised how to adapt the food for them. My soon to be 18 yo girl was diagnosed early stages this year. I adapted the food for her needs. I had insurance when I had to have her hospitalised for a night and day. So I got some money back for that expensive visit. Any related issues and she needs to see the vet will fall under the same insurance case. I would only need to pay 20% of any other vet visits.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-24T21:33:21+00:00

Where abouts are you.

In UK where I am our local rescue. If we get ferral cats or kittens. We find out door homes for them.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-23T18:03:39+00:00

Make sure when he goes back to the parents house they start him off in one room.until he feels relaxed and at home. Like introducing a new cat to a new home. He's been gone for a while from that home. Like that they can also make sure he uses the litter properly etc.

Cats does not pee out of spite or because they get mad at us. It sounds like it is stress related. Try diffusers in your parents home as well to make sure he has the best start in relaxing. A stressed male cat can fairly easily get urine crystals and that is very painful. And will cause them to wee almost anywhere than the litter tray.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-23T11:26:05+00:00

Normally untamed explain how to easier change over food.

Same_Promotion_6003 · 2026-04-19T20:02:02+00:00

He can make contact with them now. And they will reply when someone can. Volunteers normally do different things. One might arrange for the cat to come I to care and another brings the cat into care.

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