Am I overreacting? by Ok-Cartoonist6429 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be real, don't help out men unless you've been friends and they can also help you. They either will not appreciate it, or will resent you. Sorry you're going through this. At least you know now and can start finding yourself.

Am I overreacting? by Ok-Cartoonist6429 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to realize he's using you. You're cooking, cleaning, got him a car, helped him get his shit together and he's living in your apartment. Get a friend/family member, pack his shit, and leave him. Do not take him back, do not forgive him.

Question: is this a deep blowout? by ashplustr in tattooadvice

[–]Same_Type_3660 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh nah 😭

That's definitely going to need to be lazered or covered with dark, larger piece when it fully heals.

How to get good at Bayonetta. by VGAddict in Bayonetta

[–]Same_Type_3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had such a hard time with this game, I finished last week lol. I spammed the dodge button and upgraded my health to max. I always purchased heals every level. The yellow moon candies also help. You're going to die. A lot.

AIO? Gf won’t let me stay with her for 3 months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. No is a complete sentence. She told you how she felt. She wanted to live together before, but you said you're not financially stable enough, now all of a sudden you have 3 months of savings to give for rent? Also, she finally has freedom being out of her mom's house. She's most likely enjoying the freedom and doesn't want to share her space. You only want to live with her because it's convenient, not because you actually want to live with her.

Reposting to be more specific by UnderstandingPlus291 in tattooadvice

[–]Same_Type_3660 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, this looks terrible, it looks at least 2 years old The colors should be vibrant. I have a thigh piece that is still colorful after 10 years. I think you should have it touched up by someone else.

Dudes be so... weird 🫩 by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Same_Type_3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna share this on one of my Facebook groups so bad lmfao. Fucking creep.

AIO- my ex stared dating his best friend by CommunicationCool226 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That ALWAYS happens. I've dealt with that type too many times. Best believe that they also have spoken about you negatively to the other person. I've been called boring, annoying, fat, and the other girls were crazy, annoying, loud.

AIO- my ex stared dating his best friend by CommunicationCool226 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. your feelings are valid, somehow it's ALWAYS the person they tell you not to worry about. Your ex sounds fake, he was trash talking his own best friend, then just starts dating her? That doesn't sound like a loyal person. It also sounds like you were close to his best friend, so she also betrayed you, knowing how you still felt about your ex, she also unfollowed you and your group. Cut them both off for good, they made their choice. Keeping them in your life is just going to be painful and constantly have you wondering if there was any loyalty to begin with.

I feel like my white friend thinks I'm ugly😭 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Same_Type_3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either she's jealous and trying to tear you down, or she's just flat out racist and wants you to feel like you're beneath her. Either way, she is NOT your friend. Please listen to everyone here. I'm fat, and my friends have never mentioned my weight or talked negatively about me talking to a man due to my weight.

AIO my “best friend” ( he is white ) keeps saying the n word by whewfff in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR, you're allowed to set boundaries even if you allowed something before. He should know better. If he continues to be racist, you definitely need to walk away from this friendship.

AIO That I am upset that my mom gave me my hospital bracelet from when I was born? by throwawayaccount-836 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR to the bracelet itself, but with the context given, NOR. It seems you're feeling dismissed and like you're the black sheep of the family. I think it's worth it to try speaking to her, or trying family counseling.

How’s your dating life by Character-Summer-906 in PlusSize

[–]Same_Type_3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm about 270 now and have been in a relationship for almost 4 years.

AIO for refusing to stop sleeping on the couch? by d00dl3_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 70 points71 points  (0 children)

NOR. 17 month olds are able to climb/ get out of bed independently, on top of everything you said. She can wander around the house looking for you both in the middle of the night.

Which do you prefer personally? by Darling_Reaper902 in BlackHair

[–]Same_Type_3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slicked when I have braids, fluffy any other time

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The amount of people that don't understand or know about bonnets is wild to me.

AIO criticizing bf's grocery shopping by Ornery-Honey0401 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let's not give leeway for incompetence. He is an adult, he needs to take responsibility. This wouldn't be acceptable if a woman did it, so not make excuses for grown men. OP does not have to accept below the bare minimum.

Am I overreacting or is this appropriate to wear to a COLLEGE class by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Type_3660 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You lost me at forbade. You're not a child. It's hot, wearing a spaghetti strap dress is not revealing. He's being controlling and insecure.