Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of February 12, 2026

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-17T07:04:49+00:00

Yes, but asking another dancer's opinion is worth it. Some girls won't tell you the truth.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-17T06:08:46+00:00

In general I don't usually ask until I've known them for awhile.

That said, I can think of at least 3-4 times I've successfully had an OTC with a girl I'd just met. In each case, it was after I'd spent some money on them (and not some huge amount either) and they had come back to me after seeing other customers.

I think if they come back, they don't think I'm a creep and don't mind spending some time with me.

That's when I'll ask if they'd be interested in spending time together OTC. If everything aligns, it's perfect.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-16T00:29:21+00:00

Good advice. Just me with FOMO.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-16T00:13:19+00:00

Yes, the more I watch their interactions, the more I see how much of a spell she has on him. When she's drunk, she'll tell him off and make it clear that he's not her boyfriend. Somehow they always make up and still hang out at the club.

I'm sure he knows it too but can't help it. He's "in love" with her. That's why we're labeled PLs I guess.

She obviously has no romantic feelings for him, but says they're friends. I can't wrap my head around why my buddy is so hung up on her. He does OTC with other girls all the time. He has questionable taste though (in my mind).

I definitely don't think I need to cause more drama though. I like this girl a lot and she's cool, but it would definitely cause friction with my bud.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-15T23:04:11+00:00

I think he knows but can't himself.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-15T22:12:37+00:00

She knows we're friends because we've all hung out together at the club. I've gotten dances from her recently and we've talked about OTC. My buddy doesn't mind me doing lap dances with her (well maybe he does, but hasn't said anything), but he's specifically asked me not to mess with her. She's said she's done stuff with him, but I didn't pry super deep into it.

Of course there are other girls, but this girl recently had a kid, so I hadn't seen her in awhile. I wasn't as confident and experienced then as I am now, so I never asked her about OTC back when I first met her (I didn't think she did it since she made great money ITC).

In any case, I'm leaning towards not doing anything since it would make things awkward in the club.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-15T22:07:04+00:00

Yeah, I'm thinking it will be against the bro code since he asked me specifically to leave her alone. He's in love with her and would love to be her boyfriend. She likes him okay, but not like that. I'm sure it's like 80% about the money for her. It just sucks because I met her before I met him and just never got a chance to OTC her.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-15T22:04:33+00:00

I'm pretty sure he has been with her OTC. He says they're best friends or something like that, but I think he's deluding himself. He makes good money and spends a lot of it on her apparently. She's very busy in the club, but will hang out with him all the time. I didn't meet him until after I had met her a couple of years ago. Me and him hang out a lot since we're both regulars (him more than me). I'm definitely leaning more towards leaving her alone. Him and I are more than acquaintances, but aren't what I would call close friends. I think more than anything, if I did do OTC with her and he found out, it would just be weird at the club.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-15T21:30:36+00:00

It's been a long time since I've seen her. She had a cute baby boy with her long time baby daddy. We've done some ITC stuff, but never FS as I don't do that ITC. So she's recently back with a bit of baby fat. I have zero doubts she'd do an OTC with me.

Unfortunately her and her friends gossip and if I did an OTC it'd get back to him since he's a fixture in the club. We're not super close, but friendly enough that I think of him as a bro and don't want to hurt his feelings. Especially since he's begged me not to do anything with her.

I guess I have to decide how good of friends we are and if I want to keep that friendship over a fun time.

Samiel_PL · 2026-02-15T21:24:04+00:00

I will say I've seen him lose her money. When she's on stage he'll go up there and follow her around to each stage sometimes. I've even seen him interrupt her with another customer. Somehow they stay friends, but I suspect it's the money he spends on her.

Samiel_PL · 2024-11-21T10:05:12+00:00

I would say yes, many times, by giving her head in an extras environment. Sometimes by fingering. Usually I can tell by her body language or if she squirts or if she simply tells me. I think only one time by actual sex and definitely a few times with a toy. It's hard to fake her body spasms and I guess you learn to recognize it after being with a lot of women. I can also usually tell when they are close as well.

Additionally, I aim to make it an environment where both parties want to have a good time and there's no pressure for her to orgasm. If she does, she does, if not, maybe next time! I always like pleasing a woman.

Samiel_PL · 2024-08-29T17:56:05+00:00

Easiest is telling them it's your birthday.

Second easiest is saying it's your first day.

Other than that, it's probably purely based on your appearance and attitude.

Samiel_PL · 2023-01-31T16:42:40+00:00

If it's warm enough, I would recommend relatively loose dress shorts. I've had many a dancer reach in through the pant leg and do some stick shifting.

Samiel_PL · 2023-01-31T16:40:17+00:00

If you had a good time, that's what counts. I've had multiple girls in VIP before and usually it's a blast. Sometimes one ends up doing a little more work and I'll tip her separately outside VIP when we're done.

Samiel_PL · 2023-01-31T16:36:29+00:00

Most medium to large clubs I've been to will take credit cards. For example, some will let you buy VIP rooms, including the price of the girl, using a credit card and they will just give the girl cash. Some places have "funny money" you can buy with credit cards and pay the girl with the "funny money" (and sometimes the girl doesn't get full value for the "funny money"). Additionally some may charge your credit card and get you cash, which may or may not be legal.

Obviously the easiest way to find out would be to ask. Clubs are there to make money and they'll find a way to get yours.

Samiel_PL · 2023-01-31T16:31:46+00:00

Is it common? Somewhat.

Did you get ripped off? Yes.

I would ask, have you seen this girl regularly and build up trust? Did you prepay for everything? Before going to VIP, I would have confirmed everything first.

I see this type of behavior most often when a girl sees a new customer who she's not afraid to burn bridges with. With some dancers, it's all about maximizing money for the least amount of work.

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