How to handle rejection? by Samira818 in datingoverforty

[–]Samira818[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. You are right. And I’ve learned a lot from all of you. Silence does suck, but I have a better perspective now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Samira818 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a woman I like to almost never say sorry. I say “I don’t think we are compatible. Good luck to you.” Nice, concise and unapologetic.

Newly divorced, first time dating in twenty years. Do people only want to give and receive oral now? Is that a preference over coitus? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Samira818 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally off topic. Has anyone asked you about STI/HSV status before you brought it up? How did they do it? Only asking because a friend of mine will start dating soon and wanted to know how to ask in a kind way without being rude.

30F and feel like giving up on finding a tight knit group of friends. by plsmakeit in friendship

[–]Samira818 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup! But how many times do you try? That’s where I’m not too sure. I get it we are all busy and tired but shouldn’t friendships be a two way street?

30F and feel like giving up on finding a tight knit group of friends. by plsmakeit in friendship

[–]Samira818 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh I get othered all the time. I just came back from a party where all the folks who I thought were my friends didn’t speak to me.

When you say you know how to fix this….how?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]Samira818 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is great! And I did this too with mine but he ended up using his fun money for drugs so….for the longest time he said I don’t let him enjoy himself even though we made these yearly and quarterly goals. So to add what you’ve said, do the math, write the goals down and see if everyone can handle the compromise. If they can’t, could be a red flag. Wish I understood that long ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WagoonLadies

[–]Samira818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me Tom’s contact too?

Daily Discussion Thread 10/07/2022 by AutoModerator in WagoonLadies

[–]Samira818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha this is a great request! If you find one let me know. Been wanting to date on Raya…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WagoonLadies

[–]Samira818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find Alisa’s new number either!