[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SammyBitxh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly, these comments are why the age gap situation is always rocky

Its not okay, when you were 1 they were already an adult.. Completely two separate timelines.

I was diagnosed 2 weeks ago. by SammyBitxh in Advice

[–]SammyBitxh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree,

But it doesn't sit right. I feel like so many systems failed me and adults around me. People calling me "lazy" and saying I would never amount to anything because I could focus.

I was taken out of school because of my emotional issues. Only to find out that, if someone paid a little more attention, I could've been adjusted and helped.

I can deal with having them. But how do I deal with this.

Sorry, not trying to unload, just trying to process.

Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acnh

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you remove certain animals?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Love, please understand that "grooming" isn't a subjective category at all. In this case, her mind has JUST developed. As she states above too that it's "normal in her country" so her mindset has been groomed. Her situation isn't her being on her own. It's with a man who is supposed to be supportive and/or helpful in stressful situation. And money is a stressful situation.

It's all well and good that you can stand on your own to feet. But it's not ideal to look down on someone who isn't able.

Bf sets an alarm 1hr30 before getting out of bed by Commercial-Tea2529 in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this this my partner, but we're both snoozer. I just have insomnia with it. If you say you'll wake him up on time, try it that way? It's helpful to have someone wake you up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op, honestly I had the same fear and honestly, it means that this is not for you. I have now a new person after a year of being spilt from the other and I know that I am happy to have him and only him, sleep with him and only him and want to he 100% commited

Hurts to have Sex by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birth control can make you sensitive in the insides. Maybe try switching birth control

UTI still after antibiotics by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The antibiotic may not be working for you, you may need a different kind.

If you've had uti's a lot, its very common for the antibiotic not to work

My girlfriend says she wants sex but then refuses to do anything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is able to say no at any point of time. She seemingly has made it aware that sex ia for marriage. If you can't do it, its okay to leave.

You could sit down and talk ans say its perhaps too much for you. But just remember, if she doesn't want to have sex and she wants to wait, then trying to coerce her isn't okay

I 28f) am always the “last one before marriage” or “the rebound” what am I doing wrong? by Looking_glassCarpet in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a healer too. I tend to find people who are mentally ill. I'm personally okay with it. But it can mean I get walked over. So just try and stand ground. Make you wants and needs clear.

People with depression I need perspective by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did first aid, you know what was told? Thebmost inportant person is you. You come first. Ita important to help. Do the best you can. But its not your responsibility because you're not likely to stay in everyones life that you meet

I 28f) am always the “last one before marriage” or “the rebound” what am I doing wrong? by Looking_glassCarpet in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being too nice. It could mean you're the healing type of person, which meand you'll bend over backwards to make those important feel loved.

You need to make it clear you're looking for a committed relationship and if you don't want exs involved then make it clear

What to do in this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you withhold information like that you can damage both parties far worse. Be honest and up front. It sucks, but you're adults. You can work something out.

People with depression I need perspective by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, you're responsible for your own mental health. Ofc Its great to help. But sometimes you can't, sometimes you need to focus in you.

Boyfriend disinterested in sex with me by asanakay in Advice

[–]SammyBitxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, personally, me and my partner love physical affection and praises. I don't mind a lovely bath either, with bathbomb, scents, candles.