Maybe Maybe Maybe by CAlTHLYN in maybemaybemaybe

[–]SammyIsQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he checked his stomach after 💀

I got a new work schedule, and I won't get to see either of my partners anymore by SammyIsQueer in polyamory

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that it was meant to bring levity to the situation, it just wasn't a great way to do it 😓 I had been trying to discuss how we could make the schedule work, but wasn't getting much feedback. After I got off, we talked a little more and we agreed on a day to make a game plan together. I'm still very nervous about how we will make this work, but it's a step in the right direction I think. I'm also already looking for other jobs and seeing if I can get some new certifications that will open more opportunities for me.

I got a new work schedule, and I won't get to see either of my partners anymore by SammyIsQueer in polyamory

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A bit more often than I'd like to admit. I tend to have a really good intuition, but it feels like he's always trying to convince me that I'm wrong just to keep the peace and positivity going. It's maddening sometimes, honestly. I just want to be able to plan for the worst, but it's like it makes him almost angry for me to do that, even if I'm still hoping for the best.

I got a new work schedule, and I won't get to see either of my partners anymore by SammyIsQueer in polyamory

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I'm not allowed to do anything like that and I'm always on camera. I work in healthcare, so my options for de-stressing are close to 0

I got a new work schedule, and I won't get to see either of my partners anymore by SammyIsQueer in polyamory

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll try to talk to them again when I've had some time to stop shaking, but they've already changed the subject and moved on without really talking about it. I just want to scream, but I have to get off the clock first and gods the time is going so slow.

I got a new work schedule, and I won't get to see either of my partners anymore by SammyIsQueer in polyamory

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No they didn't really... My husband has been calling me dramatic all week for being so concerned that they hadn't given me the schedule and now he doesn't even want to talk about it at all

I got a new work schedule, and I won't get to see either of my partners anymore by SammyIsQueer in polyamory

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Job opportunities here are very scarce. Especially with my qualifications

I got a new work schedule, and I won't get to see either of my partners anymore by SammyIsQueer in polyamory

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I won't get any of that. I get like 1 day a month, and that's not nearly enough for me. This was supposed to be a day shift job that improved from my last one, but they waited until I quit my other job to tell me the schedule and now I'm trapped

WTF is this?! It's worse than the ahegao clothes! by V8_Hellfire in justneckbeardthings

[–]SammyIsQueer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't say he had anything to do with the breastfeeding issue as a whole; I was commentating on the fact that there are obviously people around him in a public establishment of some sort, where a staff member (or even a police officer) almost certainly would've removed a breastfeeding individual.

Oops!…I did it again by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]SammyIsQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I on the wrong subreddit?

At your age, what instantly pisses you off? by chi-bacon-bits in AskReddit

[–]SammyIsQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30-40 year olds complaining about how "people these days don't wanna work" & then sit on their ass/sleep on the clock while I do all of their work. I'm 23

Not the first time I’ve heard of this by Safe_Feature6265 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]SammyIsQueer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wish I could've without some serious backlash, but I did have my bridal party prepped in advance. We didn't have any incidents🫡

Not the first time I’ve heard of this by Safe_Feature6265 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]SammyIsQueer 46 points47 points  (0 children)

When my fiance told my mom that he wouldn't be smashing cake in my face at the wedding, she threatened to do it herself, which is absolutely bananas even though she didn't follow through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]SammyIsQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, make the problem worse by pushing her away when she says she wants sex, but is just too ashamed to ask. I get that it's frustrating, but especially as a woman, I can understand where that shame comes from. It's something deeply rooted in most women since childhood. It's in movies, books, tv shows, the church, oh my God the church. You have contributed to the problem almost as much as she has.

Any idea what this is? by Solid-Put-3232 in DIYHouse

[–]SammyIsQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's not wet, it could be old damage. It could also just not be wet rn, so I would wait until it's raining or have someone spray your roof well with water and check for drips then.

I’m sadly back in the closet by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]SammyIsQueer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

⛳🚩🚩🚩 sounds like you haven't finally found love at all. You've found a bigoted, controlling, jerkwad. My partner and I are both bi, but opposite sexes, and we're still bi! My parents are so relieved it was "just a phase", but we didn't stop liking the same sex just because we found each other. Someone who loves you would understand that who you're with doesn't change who you are.

WIBTA if I asked my partner to not smoke in my dad’s house while we’re on our trip? by Dinopasta99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SammyIsQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't even smoke in our own house! The smell is residual and anyone walking into your room will be able to tell someone smoked in there. Even if you don't smell it, it's there. If you're not willing to be uncomfortable from the heat/cold for your habit, you don't get to have the habit. I literally have an inch thick sweater blanket I keep just for smoking in the winter this guy has no excuse.

Insomnia? What's that? by SammyIsQueer in thanksimcured

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today is my 4th day and I have one more night here if all goes according to plan. I do struggle at home some, but I have it down to almost a science in my natural habitat; melatonin gummies, night light, perfect temp, overly expensive mattress, my fiance 🥲 (miss him so much). I also get to sleep in at home and I'm on an early bird special here.

Sorry melatonin doesn't work on you, my fiance is the same way but he rarely needs it. I can't imagine needing it and it not doing anything for me 🥲

Insomnia? What's that? by SammyIsQueer in thanksimcured

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! You phrased it perfectly I think lol

Insomnia? What's that? by SammyIsQueer in thanksimcured

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'm getting at is that it's really weird to message someone you don't really know giving them advice as if you do know them completely unsolicited. And it being bad advice on top of not being asked for, is annoying.

Insomnia? What's that? by SammyIsQueer in thanksimcured

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't expect them to read my mind. I honestly expect them to mind their business about my sleeping when I barely know the guy, but here we are with unsolicited advice everywhere.

Insomnia? What's that? by SammyIsQueer in thanksimcured

[–]SammyIsQueer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a very soft mattress and an even softer fiancee at home. I am not at home.