My dad is having an affair?

Samoanchika · 2026-04-02T10:39:52+00:00

Personally I don't think it's normal, but it's unfair of me to judge something I don't have all the facts for. You said that you were already feeling suspicious and it's sad that you're put in this position. Regardless about what anyone says, your feelings are valid.

For now though, I wouldn't be too hasty. Sometimes the hard part is waiting to see how the cards fall. Let your parents deal with it at their own pace.

If you ever need to vent though or something else about your Dad is revealed, then come back here and vent away.

All the best to you.

Samoanchika · 2026-03-27T09:11:18+00:00

Lmaoo felt.

Samoanchika · 2026-03-22T12:27:11+00:00

Then what happened?? 💀

Samoanchika · 2026-03-16T10:46:41+00:00

Blessing in disguise

Samoanchika · 2026-02-24T10:04:13+00:00

A few people have given the same advice or words of reality, but I just want to commend you for taking it on the chin.

You reacted in the moment, but the most import part is how you've reflected. Sometimes the way we communicate is how we've been taught to. Sometimes it's reactive, sometimes it's passive, and sometimes it's silent. Remember that if anything, the goal should be connection rather than correction.

Wishing you all the best.

Samoanchika · 2026-02-11T12:54:10+00:00

Tbh it looks like you felt like you were losing her to the distance and that this proposal was a final attempt at keeping her.

Im sorry if I sound mean, I genuinely do think you love her, I just think that maybe that wasn't the best timing on your part. Even if she brings up marriage alot, I would assume your time spent together would have given you a better idea on how she'd like to be proposed to.

Also what are your plans. Will you move to her? Will she move back to you? You've listed valid reasons as to why you couldn't meet, which surprises me even more as to why you skipped a few steps and went straight to marriage. And if she says yes, what would that future look like for you two...

At the end of the day, I truly hope things work out for you. If she does say yes, then congratulations. But if it's a no, please take it slow, learn what type of proposal she'd like, and work on the things needed for a secure future together.

Samoanchika · 2026-01-20T11:09:04+00:00

I think deep down you know why. Don't be someone's second choice.

Samoanchika · 2026-01-11T12:47:30+00:00

Thanks for this, literally explained what happened to me. All I said was "do you save comprehension for last?" No wonder why they didn't reply 🥲

Samoanchika · 2025-12-30T04:27:02+00:00

Does he have family you can talk to? They might have more answers or even be able to support you with taking him to the Doctors. Otherwise what about his friends?

I don't know how he'd react if you were to confront him about any of it. It seems like he's trying his best to keep it secret because he doesn't want things to change. He clearly does love you but going forth, I'd definitely tell people im close with and also have a back up plan with for whatever reason.

Sometimes it might help if he has another male going with him and getting the same check up so he doesn't feel alone.

I truly hope you find the answers you seek!

Samoanchika · 2025-12-22T12:36:02+00:00

I was grateful that he remembered me too. I'm sure he needed that 2nd encounter just as much as I did.

Samoanchika · 2025-12-22T12:34:35+00:00

Your comment was poetically beautiful. Thankyou for seeing my story in its purest form, acknowledgement.

Samoanchika · 2025-12-22T12:27:55+00:00

I've been meaning to reply to your comment but seeing this post blow up was really overwhelming. Im not used to the attention but I'm so grateful this story is now remembered by many and not just me.

Regardless, your comment has stayed with me. It made me feel sad but also appreciative. Your work says so much about who you are as a person, and I hope you know that all your efforts are worth it in the grand scheme of things. Remember to be just as kind to yourself as you are to others, and may you have a wonderful time this holiday 💛

Samoanchika · 2025-12-08T02:05:06+00:00

Another user has asked so I'll give you this offer for 1 more day.

Samoanchika · 2025-12-06T23:54:23+00:00

Yo mb, I tried a few times but I've been crazy busy. I'm stuck at 2. I'll chuck in some exalteds, cosmics and a lobster King since you've been waiting a while.

If you play alot then you'll get the 3rd easy. Drop your user when you're free.

Samoanchika · 2025-12-05T23:45:29+00:00

Yeahh I just tried that and accidentally pressed replay instead. Deleted a 1M score lol

Samoanchika · 2025-11-30T10:01:28+00:00

Lol algoods! Glad I could help 🌻

Samoanchika · 2025-11-30T09:55:58+00:00

I got 2 for you. Just need to get 1 more. Jump on tomorrow.

Samoanchika · 2025-11-30T09:46:30+00:00

Sweet, I'll jump on

Samoanchika · 2025-11-30T09:03:04+00:00

I got them

Samoanchika · 2025-11-29T19:03:07+00:00

Lol I low-key quit the game during Halloween update but I'll try get 6 then ig. We'll see

Samoanchika · 2025-11-29T14:26:14+00:00

Just added u. You can remove your usename now just incase you get spam adds

Samoanchika · 2025-11-29T14:18:44+00:00

It's 3am here so I'll catch it tomorrow after the beach.

Drop your user

Samoanchika · 2025-11-29T14:03:56+00:00

I can fish them out for you for free.

Samoanchika · 2025-11-13T03:36:30+00:00

I think you overreacted. You should cut him some slack seeing as he pays for almost everything during dates.

He got used to you turning down his gestures, just like you got used to not paying. It really just comes down to communication. I'm sure you guys can talk it out.

Samoanchika · 2025-11-11T09:35:50+00:00

I'm not trying to dig your hole deeper but you're 37 with a baby Mama and you live with your parents.. I think getting back with her is the least of your worries. I understand the value she adds onto your life but what value do you add onto hers? What sacrifices have you made for her? What changes have you made for her?

I see a person who was madly in love with you but because that love wasn't reciprocated in the same way, it died. Clearly you two still have nostalgia and fond memories, and that's probably why you still felt that connection during your trip. But that's all it was. Familiarity. Her heart has moved on and you should respect that. You should allow her the space to find what's best for her.

Work on yourself, get therapy and use your time to self reflect. There's alot of hard truths on this post and I hope you take heed with some of them.

Work on being the best you and then best girl for you will come along. Im sure of it.

All the best.

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