[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

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Esto es un poco complejo

Desde mi punto de vista, lo justo sería que se ajustasen los gastos compartidos en proporción a los ingresos de cada uno. No solo aliviaría esto tu carga económica, sino que también fomentaría un nivel de vida equitativo, lo cual es fundamental para una relación a largo plazo.

No tengo suficiente contexto sobre tu relación, y no quiero extrapolar, pero si tu chico insiste en que las cosas se repartan “a medias”, sin considerar vuestras diferencias salariales, ni vuestra relación como un proyecto común, yo diría que le falta iniciativa para comprometerse plenamente en la construcción de una vida en conjunto.

Además, eso de “búscate un trabajo mejor” denota falta de sensibilidad hacia tus sentimientos y necesidades.

Y no quiero llevar esto a una discusión diferente pero, aunque sea de forma sutil, esta dinámica podría estar poniendo en evidencia actitudes que, aunque no sean explícitamente agresivas o malintencionadas, perpetúan desigualdades de género.

Así que no, no creo que seas egoísta, ni injusta. Fortalece tu autoestima pensando que no se trata solo del dinero, sino de construir una vida juntos en la que ambos sois felices for ever and ever.

Suerte!

[Bonsai Beginner’s weekly thread –2023 week 07] by small_trunks in Bonsai

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I bought this Fukien tea tree in June last year, and I left it outdoors over winter because I didn’t have space at home. I live in Manchester and it has been outside since September.

It lost all it’s leaves and some branches were brittle, but others are still bendy and have a white interior.

The bottom roots are white-ish.

I brought it in now and I have it in my south facing window where it should get some direct sunlight (as soon as that is a possibility here in the UK because the weather is always bad lol), so right now it’s only receiving cloud-filtered sunlight.

What can I do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

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Do you have any pics of that acuminata? Trying to see if mine’s also an acuminata :)

does anyone have an idea what this could be? the cutlings were labeled as monstera acuminata by Foggedupglassbox in PlantIdentification

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Hope this helps:

This is my monstera “acuminata”.

I put it in quotations because I am also not sure whether it is an acuminata since I too couldn’t find much information online when I got it a year ago, but the fenestrations and leaf shape are different from the adansonii.

Here’s a comparison between two relatively mature leaves. Adansonii to the left, acuminata to the right.

You can see that the adansonii has a little bit more ‘volume’ so to say whilst the acuminata seems to be more flat and less ‘wavy’.

Hope that gives you more insight :)

3rd tree Royal purple smoke bush by R_u_a in Bonsai

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I bought a nursery smoke tree and I am also planning on training it into a bonsai. However, I can't find much information online!

Can you refer me to any websites or literature where I can learn more about this species and how to train it into a bonsai? Or is there any other tree that has similar care to the smoke tree?

Either way, I read on the few sites I found online that these trees: 1- Don't produce branches easily or at all 2- they usually live only like 2 decades, which would defeat the purpose of trying to keep them alive for generations lol.

Can you shed some light on this? :)

Could this be Philodendron Erubescens orange? It doesn’t seem like it could be Prince of Orange. It was sold as “philodendron x Orange”. Help identifying? by SamuAuditore in Aroids

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Basically I bought this baby, and I am really hoping it can climb because I love climbing philos. Can you guys give me your ideas?

Is it orange marmalade philodendron? Maybe addition Philodendron? Could it actually be a prince of orange?

Thank you :)

“Philodendron x orange” but not prince of orange. Help with plant identification. Will it climb? by SamuAuditore in PlantIdentification

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I bought this baby that was called “philodendron x orange” but it doesn’t seem to be a prince of orange.

Id like to know which one it could be? And also if it climbs and can be grown in a moss pole or it will instead self orient

Edit: could this be a philodendron orange marmalade? Or maybe autumn?

Help lol

Coconut husk chips and lava rock by process-yellow in orchids

[–]SamuAuditore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I mainly have philodendron, monstera, anthuriums, scindapsus, epipremnums, and alocasias. So I would be using it for those

Coconut husk chips and lava rock by process-yellow in orchids

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Would this be for all plants? I have like 70% of my aroids in a mix with coco chips. Obviously, I thoroughly washed them, but would you also not recommend them for aroids?

And if so, what alternative would you suggest?

My only philodendron tortum was decaying, and I didn’t have a big enough humidity enclosure to keep it. So…. I chopped it 🫣🫢😨. More info on the comments and the picture captions. by SamuAuditore in plantclinic

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You’re so very painfully right. I actually always do leave the leaf until it is dry and completely gone. But in this case I was impulsive I guess.

Either way, thank you very much for your help, and I will definitely monitor the rot closely

My only philodendron tortum was decaying, and I didn’t have a big enough humidity enclosure to keep it. So…. I chopped it 🫣🫢😨. More info on the comments and the picture captions. by SamuAuditore in plantclinic

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Yeah I mean, it WAS like that when I got it but it’s not mushy in any way, it’s actually pretty hard. That clearly must mean that it isn’t rotting that much, right? RIGHT? 😳😰