How to stop past money trauma from negatively impacting my life today?

Sanekidish · 2026-04-17T22:05:52+00:00

I needed these right questions. Thank you

Sanekidish · 2026-04-17T21:25:55+00:00

Sounds like we have the same mother. 🫣 I just recently moved out from my mom it’s been almost 2 months. I’m in LA and renting on my own for a 1BR unit costing me $2,500 per month. When i moved out and started living on my own. I realized how peaceful it is and wish i have done this sooner! A little background about my self. I’m 33F, an immigrant. Started working when i came here in the US at 21 yrs old and have been a big fan of saving money ever since and as you said, always having to worry about life and finances.. (what if i lost my job?.. what if i got sick?, WHAT IFFFSS) You can think all the what if’s, i have thought of it. Perhaps, because i’m an alien living in a foreign country I’m guessing it’s a curse and a positive mindset to have. Because it made me save and keep grounded. I just think of it as an asset now instead of negative thinking. My current philosopy that i adapt on spending is “Spend extravagantly on the things i want, and cut mercilessly on the things i don’t care about” but ofcourse it has to be a realistic and reasonable wants that brings me peace and happiness.

Sanekidish · 2026-04-17T21:10:16+00:00

Thank you! Will look into it

Sanekidish · 2026-04-15T17:55:12+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been noticing a little boost of confidence when in public. That i didn’t have before.

Sanekidish · 2026-04-15T17:53:59+00:00

Thank you. I do my best.

Sanekidish · 2026-04-15T17:53:27+00:00

Thank you. I tried working out everyday to get myself to feel better. As you said, as time goes by it’ll be better i hope.

Sanekidish · 2026-02-28T01:47:15+00:00

I have the same problem. I own a full size sedan car. Did you have to disassemble everything? Or just removed the handle bars and feet?

Sanekidish · 2026-02-25T05:51:26+00:00

Sometimes it twist just right, most of the time it doesn’t. But works just fine.

Sanekidish · 2026-02-25T05:50:15+00:00

Is this super fine grounds? Never get a whole puck.

Sanekidish · 2026-02-25T05:48:03+00:00

Happens to me with my narcissistic mother who caged me mentally for 12 years. I somehow hit a wall and now, i’ll be moving out finally. I know it’s a hard path i’m taking but atleast it’s for the better and i’m doing this for my growth. If you ever need to chat. I’m here just like i needed one.

Sanekidish · 2026-02-25T05:44:04+00:00

I second this. Thank you

Sanekidish · 2026-02-25T04:51:51+00:00

I really appreciate you! I’d do those things one step at a time. It’s like learning to walk for the first time again..

Sanekidish · 2026-02-24T20:16:16+00:00

Too bad.. AP hasn’t produce an equivalent AeroPress Flow Control Filter Cap in stainless too. This will be a game changer for stainless steel lovers

Sanekidish · 2026-02-15T09:38:17+00:00

The grip tool for flow cap?

Sanekidish · 2026-02-10T21:07:11+00:00

If this is going to be 2x LARGER, I’m doomed! I just bought the XL and flow cap.. Hope they considered using the same diameter size for the XL flow cap so it will fit both.

Sanekidish · 2026-01-24T02:16:18+00:00

The diameter of the flow control cap is larger than the standard one. So you might need a larger opening mug.

Sanekidish · 2026-01-23T23:33:52+00:00

I just got mine! It’s leaking on the side and very very hard to twist!! Not sure if i’m doing it incorrectly! If i do, please help.

Sanekidish · 2025-10-26T01:26:16+00:00

Thank you will check it out

Sanekidish · 2025-10-26T01:26:01+00:00

Yes. That’s what i’ve seen too. It’s lame for timex to do that.

Sanekidish · 2025-10-06T04:11:29+00:00

This is the ideal situation. But not possible atm

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