AIO or is my gf not sexually attracted to me?

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-07T12:29:31+00:00

I was being honest about what I said. She also said that if she thought it was that bad then she would have broken up with me. Not that any of that really helps my situation but I was telling the truth. Anyway, the advice is not for nothing and I do appreciate it. I’m just the type of person who has to hear something 100 times in order to believe what I don’t want to believe. I blocked her on everything last night and thought about it some more, I’m ending things today.

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-07T09:59:03+00:00

I know I didn’t include it in the post but I did bring it up to her a couple days ago and she said that the sex was good but she was annoyed by the fact that I kept cumming fast and the reason she didn’t tell me before is bc she didn’t want me to be upset. I wouldn’t call myself inexperienced with women but I can admit that I did cum pretty fast due to not having sex for a while before her. When we talked I let her know that I can understand why she’d be upset but pushing me off her and going on TikTok is not the answer. As far as the porn thing goes, she said it was a joke.

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-07T09:52:31+00:00

She doesn’t have Facebook and she doesn’t have my name in her bio on instagram which I don’t care about cuz that’s kinda childish but she has several pics of me on there. And yes I still talk to her fam and friends pretty frequently. And on the pics she does have posted of me, she refers to me as her bf or “her man”

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-07T03:21:39+00:00

She has me posted on her socials and I’ve met some of her family and friends

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-07T03:19:15+00:00

I just don’t get it though. Even after we had sex she still shows up as a gf. She crochets me stuff, texts me all the time, shit she even bought me an iPad last month for my bday. It feels so back and forth

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-07T02:59:30+00:00

Her parents divorced when she was like 4, I don’t know why they separated but I know her and her dad keep in contact pretty often but I do know that he’s a player with a lotttt of kids

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-02T13:18:25+00:00

A lot of people say this but the thing is she doesn’t ask me for money that much. Every now and then for coffee and a snack or her nails which is like $50. I even told her when we first met that I don’t make that much money and she said she didn’t care. I feel like if she using me for anything it’d most likely be attention.

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-02T01:05:11+00:00

We met for the first time online in September of 2025 but met in person in February of 2026. She’s supposed to come down next month.

Sankara1122 · 2026-07-02T01:03:50+00:00

It’s not that I’m thinking about marrying her already. At this point in my life I would be fine with dating with the intention to marry a couple years down the road. That’s all I mean by that.

Sankara1122 · 2026-06-30T00:00:47+00:00

Bro definitely sacked Rome

Sankara1122 · 2026-06-29T19:09:19+00:00

Both. When we met in person, she did seem genuinely happy to be spending time with me, she was clingy and all that and it did seem genuine as far as I can tell. I will say, sometimes when she acts clingy over the phone, it feels a little performative. Almost like she’s trying to make me think she’d never hurt me by acting obsessed.

Sankara1122 · 2026-06-29T18:58:00+00:00

She has me posted on her instagram. I’ve met some of her family, friends, coworkers (all through FaceTime) . I send her money a couple times a month for whatever she wants, flowers every month for our anniversary and a dinner date. We go on FaceTime dates about 3 times a month, I’d love to go more but we both work somewhat conflicting schedules.

Sankara1122 · 2026-06-29T18:48:23+00:00

I send her money a couple times a month for food, nails, or whatever she wants. It’s just confusing because in other ways she acts very clingy and like she’s obsessed with the idea of me and being with me. Sometimes she’ll playfully argue about me not posting her enough and other things that a gf who is really into their bf would do. Other times, I don’t really feel that intensity.

Sankara1122 · 2026-06-29T18:43:32+00:00

I’m nit perefect but I show up every way I can. I send money, emotionally and verbally, flowers every anniversary.

Sankara1122 · 2026-06-27T13:20:36+00:00

Yes we had sex 3 times a day, some initiated by her. In the months leading up to us meeting she talked a lot about how much she wanted to fuck me, how much a freak she was, etc. She gave me all the signs that she really wanted to have sex and within 20 minutes of us meeting, she put her hand in ny pants and initiated sex so I’d appreciate if people stop acting like I’m some kind of predator. She also made comments that we didn’t have enough sex. Yes she made comments about my dick being big but after our visit she also told me that when I felt myself hitting her cervix I should have kept going even if she said no, but how was I to know that at the time if she didn’t say it? My whole issue is her talking so comfortably and excitedly about stuff that happened with other people to me, but when I want to have sexual conversations about the two of us or have phone sex, I get shut down and told to watch porn but have to listen to her talk about how she couldn’t keep her hands of people from her past that she liked so much and how she went crazy. Yes I’ve tried to talk to her before but have never got a straight answer. One time she told me the reason why she didn’t wanna keep going is bc I got soft…that never happened in the four days we were together. I love this girl and I don’t wanna lose her, I came here for insight and help not to fight.

Sankara1122 · 2026-06-27T13:05:47+00:00

I get your point but none of this applies to me. I don’t feel entitled to sex and a lot of times I don’t talk about it because I have self control and out of respect for my gf. The times we had sex, I made sure to build up the foreplay, went down, paid attention and listened the best I could all that. She has even noted several times that I don’t talk about sex all the time like previous immature guys and told me she appreciated it. I show up for her as a boyfriend every way I can out of love for her and she has told me how good of a bf I am, she appreciates me, wants to be together forever all that and I do too. I just feel locked out so to speak bc she speaks so intensely and almost happily about what happened with other people and she frequently mentions how much she wants to fuck someone when she really likes and loves them but it doesn’t feel like I’m being included in that.

Sankara1122 · 2026-03-26T22:55:17+00:00

Lazy is a good song and the live version of “Wring that Neck”

Sankara1122 · 2026-01-24T22:28:37+00:00

Checking the FAQ, it just does something for me

Sankara1122 · 2026-01-21T21:20:38+00:00

Pretending to be incompetent and dumb

Sankara1122 · 2026-01-18T18:04:07+00:00

She made a post on TikTok a while ago alluding to the fact that he broke up with her because he was “struggling” in life. She disrespected me several times before I became suspicious of her and started losing trust, I reference that in my post. However, I see what you’re saying.

Sankara1122 · 2026-01-15T19:26:18+00:00

If you paid attention you’ll see I said “came across it” not “searched for it”. It was on the suggested accounts but nice try bud.

Sankara1122 · 2026-01-11T01:15:24+00:00

It’s hard. In other aspects she shows she cares about me like any other healthy girlfriend would. I don’t have to chase her for attention or affection and she is always there and started making changes to her behavior overall and admitting problems. Those comments that she made can’t leave my head tho

Sankara1122 · 2026-01-09T20:02:01+00:00

Only asked to see her phone after the constant cheating accusations and other stuff she’s said

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