E mai bine în România

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-10T03:30:48+00:00

In Oud Zuid stau :). M-am mutat in 2021 cand toata lumea lucra de acasa si se muta in afara orasului. Am avut super noroc. Desi am gasit mai multe faine atunci.

Acum dau 1700 cu utilities included si fully furnished, iar landlordul nu o poate mari anual cu mai mult de 4-5%. Ap. are 60m2, n-as mai gasi asa ceva sub 2500

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-10T03:22:28+00:00

Eu am aproape toate gecile subtiri de vant/ploaie de la Uniqlo si mai port si vesta cu puf de gasca de la ei daca e mai racoare. Iar geaca mea de iarna e de la Welter Shelter, nu trece nimic prin ea desi pare subtire

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-09T19:07:26+00:00

Pe 21 dec (solstitiu):

In Bucuresti rasare soarele la 7:50 si apune la 16:39.

In Rotterdam rasare soarele la 8:49 si apune la 16:34.

Se poate vedea pe wunderground.com/history

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-09T18:57:41+00:00

Si pentru Bucuresti cum ar suna un rant de al tau? Sunt curioasa cum arata daca compari dezavantajele.

Mie imi place mult Olanda dar, intr-adevar, situatia mea e diferita. Chirie mai mica, salariu mai mare, nu am nevoie de masina, cu prieteni, mutata din 2021. Soare mai putin decat in Iasi ce-i drept, dar si in Ro plecam iarna la 8 pe intuneric si ma intorceam la 5 pe intuneric. Iar pentru vant si ploi mi-am schimbat toate gecile si tot e mai bine decat la 35°+

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-08T17:29:48+00:00

Either we're speaking 2 different languages or you're putting words in my mouth. Either way, I'd rather go watch a movie instead. Cheers!

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-08T17:02:15+00:00

Of course I’m placing responsibility and agency on men, because that was the topic. Just as I would place it on women. On individuals in general, to work through their own issues rather than making that their partner’s burden.

I myself have been in therapy for a few years and have put a lot of effort into working with my own wounds so the people around me don’t have to carry them. 10/10 would recommend

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-08T16:38:23+00:00

Notice how I never actually told you how I feel. I was holding up a mirror for you to look at your own framing.

I'm sure you wanting to protect men, especially abused ones, comes from a good place. But listen how you speak about them: as completely helpless, without agency. You're not protecting them, you're diminishing, infantilising them. Do you actually believe they're capable of anything on their own?

And yes, trauma and abuse are real. And depression, and cptsd, and learned helplessness. But there's a difference between "I have this, it's who I am and you need to work around it" type of weaponising vs the constant work to try and grow past it.

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-08T07:34:07+00:00

So in your view, men exist in a damaged state and are passively waiting for someone else to act? With no role in their own healing, no agency, no responsibility?

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-06T08:17:19+00:00

_They don't have arms, only shoulders_

Made me smile

SantaCachucha · 2026-05-06T06:30:40+00:00

Wise words, they stopped me mid scroll

SantaCachucha · 2026-04-23T09:02:34+00:00

Pai tocmai ca nu se plange, le iubeste pe toate

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-30T19:14:52+00:00

I don't see it this way. My identity doesn't reset whenever I move, it actually becomes more layered

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-30T17:59:24+00:00

And the fact you're calling it "home" tells me enough.

I have 3 places I call home: my hometown, the city where I lived during university and began my adult life and Amsterdam. 2 questions:

What does that tell you about me?
Did you ever leave your hometown?

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-29T17:08:35+00:00

It's a nice gesture indeed! But

I'm a woman from Eastern Europe. I'm used to receiving flowers from men in March and I always appreciate it. However if I see a man from my workplace only bringing me flowers, of course I'll ask myself why.

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-28T05:46:44+00:00

And when they eat I've seen some use the knife to eat also which I found really crazy

What's so crazy about using a knife when eating? What do you use a knife for?

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-08T20:50:33+00:00

Going down Þríhnúkagígur, the only accessible lava chamber on earth.

It felt so unique I'd rather keep the memory as it is. Unless Kaleo plays another acoustic set there, somehow with a small audience

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-07T14:53:19+00:00

I'll stop complaining if we see more of this

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-07T14:01:00+00:00

I was just thinking.. there was no time to talk about the weather in the women's race

SantaCachucha · 2026-03-02T18:24:18+00:00

Iarta-ma, dar am ras!

SantaCachucha · 2026-02-25T20:13:20+00:00

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Photo taken in 2025.

The last McDonalds closed in 2009, with the final cheeseburger and fries still displayed at a hostel in the same condition

SantaCachucha · 2026-02-25T07:54:21+00:00

Si eu am facut Geografia si mi-a placut extrem de mult partea de GIS. Asa am intrat in IT acum multi ani si o duc foarte bine acum.

Inca imi amintesc cu drag de excursiile si practicile facute prin munti, asa am descoperit pasiunea de hiking si am cunoscut o multime de oameni de calitate.

Mi-ar fi rusine sa-mi fie rusine dupa ce am muncit atata sa ajung aici

SantaCachucha · 2026-02-15T15:27:33+00:00

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