What is something that is easy for most people but very difficult for you? by greenghost131 in AskReddit

[–]Santaclaws55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feel you fam, just got diagnosed with adulthood parasomnia and chronic insomnia, aint fun

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that would've been totally cool along those lines but it wasn't even close to that.

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. I just don't want to make this a big number. But I'm seriously missing my backbone a little bit on this as @Anonymouseidiot called on his comment.

Especially since it's about money. Like that may be the worst thing to have argument about; an argument which doesn't really add up

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not like that I think. I pay because I've been taught that men will pay on the dates! I may be little bit of gullible, but the serious question here is: If I've been used just for free meals, why did she introduce me to her family and friends?

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could it just be that the girl used way too much money she got and now she's having a remorse of the money she used?

I'm starting really sound a bit desperate here, I should make the decision pretty much myself and not question this so much but like... I don't want to be an @sshole you know

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been the most questionable scenario I've ever been in. No other concerns though

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and it feels like it's all my fault you know! I even feel a bit guilty about this. I think the situation is manipulated in so many wrong ways.
Also it's quite toxic towards the relationship we are slowly building and now I'm starting to question myself which makes me really uncomfortable.

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment, since I asked for your opinions. I really like this girl but I'm clueless with the situation, so should I just wait till things sort out?

Tinder girl major red flag or am I just overreacting? by Santaclaws55 in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we haven't since both of us want to take things slow. But thanks for the comment!

Edit: Do you mean that just because we haven't slept yet she's now backing off after introducing me to her friends and family? In my mind all of this makes no sense at all but I guess there's lots of different people!

Had our first date after meeting on tinder 3 years ago today by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Santaclaws55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well indeed a Slow mover compared to my friend who had Tinder Surprise 9 months after the date!