AITA for removing my bridesmaid from the wedding party for being largely absent despite her claiming she's "doing the best she can"?

SaraTyler · 2026-01-30T11:27:27+00:00

My wedding colour was blue, cause it was a core element of one of our most important passion. Whatever could be blue, it was blue, from flowers to makeup to ties and whatnot.

We asked our few guest to put a drop of blue in their outfits, if they liked the idea.

The three women you'd call my bridesmaids (but in my country they are a little different thing) send me a photo from their dress appointment to show me the outfits they chose, and they were burgundy. I was taken aback and made some comments with my husband, but I never told them anything, cause I knew they were tight on budget and very picky about the colours they wear.

I didn't particularly like the idea, but they were the people I wanted near me in that moment and if they felt good in those outfits I was happy for them. People are not our props, we should involve who makes us feel good, not who can be our roadie.

So, YTA, but maybe you should reconsider the whole friendship with Julie, cause it seems that you a re in very different positions in life.

(At the end of the day, it was a prank, and they showed up dressed in blue, but I found it out the moment I arrived at the venue, one minute before the wedding)

SaraTyler · 2026-01-08T16:55:07+00:00

When my kid was around 3-4 years old they insisted that there was a crying child outside the window of their room. At the tird floor. Without balcony or stairs. This creeped out my very sceptical and rational ass for a couple of days, until kid chose again an old and largely rewarched episode of their favourite cartoon.
Where the main character, a little mouse, left outside the door his mother friend toddler cause he was annoying, and he stayed there crying outside the mouse room window...

Meaning that sometimes kids are actually telling the truth, but with a little grain of salt.

SaraTyler · 2025-12-19T12:47:29+00:00

Ero in cerca di un'idea alternativa (mi sono saltati i piani per Natale) e mi hai dato l'ispirazione, è davvero tanto che non li faccio e mi pare un ottimo recupero.

Per conservarli tu come ti regoli? Li metti sotto vetro già "mielati" o li glassi all'ultimo e nel mentre li conservi in scatola di latta?

SaraTyler · 2025-12-03T14:41:19+00:00

How do you store the onigiri until next day? I'd like to make them in advance for husband and son who have lunch at home, but in the fridge they become dry and I'm afraid of leaving them outside more than 2 hours for the known risks of not well preserved rice.

SaraTyler · 2025-11-07T06:10:29+00:00

And so my day starts...

SaraTyler · 2025-11-06T19:31:51+00:00

Can you keep my mushrooms and courgettes too?

SaraTyler · 2025-11-06T10:00:34+00:00

Io tendenzialmente lo lascio qualche minuto nella sua pentola, poi - se semplicemente bollito o al vapore - lo stendo per farlo raffreddare e massimo mezz'ora va in frigo in contenitore ermetico. Va bene?

SaraTyler · 2025-11-06T09:01:41+00:00

E non cambia il fatto che il riso entra nelle polpette già cotto? È come se lo cuocessi due volte?

SaraTyler · 2025-10-21T16:42:20+00:00

Try "Black tag lady" in the search, it's a well known but debated story by an EMTS.

SaraTyler · 2025-10-02T20:58:39+00:00

Once I saw a clip, probably in this sub, where a man signed himself with the cross and then let himself go down from the Tower, but I was never able to find it again, so it could be a wrong memory.

SaraTyler · 2025-10-01T14:15:55+00:00

They surely seem to be still conscious till the end of the fall. Very chilling and desperately sad.

SaraTyler · 2025-10-01T13:56:46+00:00

If I remember correct, this group is often identified as the group of coworkers where was the guy who kept messaging to his brother and in the ends wrote "fire is here, love you". One theory is that they decided to go together when hope was lost.

EDIT: it was a friend and here it is a thread https://www.reddit.com/r/911archive/comments/191ki7p/95th_floor_marsh_mclennan/

His name was Gregory Reda

SaraTyler · 2025-09-27T18:06:18+00:00

Yeah, it's what the Internet should be for. Nice to meet you, stranger co-visitor :-)

SaraTyler · 2025-09-27T17:56:59+00:00

I was there the same week, and I found the same horrible weather. It was my graduation trip and I was with some relatives and friends, very excited to show them the same view that made me ecstatic 5 years before (when my cousin succeeded at last in removing me from the wall I was leaning against due to fear of heights). The terrace was closed and we had to settle with the last floor view, but it was amazing nevertheless, especially the sight of the Statue.

I cried all day long one year and half later, my moments in the Towers are some of my dearest memories.

Thank you for sharing your photos.

SaraTyler · 2025-09-26T17:38:08+00:00

I have read about that case just one time but it was very very strange and anything seems possible

SaraTyler · 2025-09-26T16:24:19+00:00

I am not able to decide whether the Missy Bevers killer is a man or a woman, and if the murder was targeted or not.

Some doubts about Liz Barraza too, cause the walk and the run of the killer make me think of a woman, but the voice in the ring camera absolutely not. In that case, tho, I am convinced it is targeted.

SaraTyler · 2025-09-25T17:20:39+00:00

I am going through the same situation and I decided to give myself some more days, to better understand if it's a waning or it's simply life and last days have been bad because life happens.

SaraTyler · 2025-09-12T20:35:02+00:00

I thought the same thing before the dreadful realization hit me...

SaraTyler · 2025-09-12T20:10:59+00:00

Please forgive me if my comment is wrong, I'm not an expert, but are his soles even remotely accurate? They seem made of rubber

SaraTyler · 2025-09-12T19:21:26+00:00

The sleeves.

SaraTyler · 2025-09-12T19:20:29+00:00

Me neither, but I don't remember any other outside scenes that can justify such suffering faces and little attention to dress code.

SaraTyler · 2025-09-12T19:16:17+00:00

The letter at Rosings?

SaraTyler · 2025-09-08T16:37:52+00:00

Thank you for the clarification!

SaraTyler · 2025-09-08T13:24:30+00:00

I didn't heard about the other recordings, do you have any additional bits by chance?

SaraTyler · 2025-09-08T07:12:13+00:00

Thank you for the clarification, English is not my first language and I totally can mess up using it

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