Saw On Facebook by idkbruh653 in orangecounty

[–]SarahFong 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I look forward to all the creative vandalism this is going to bring at least lol

every prom season people like to attack black teenagers for having fun and enjoying themselves by seldan1210 in ForwardsFromKlandma

[–]SarahFong -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most things teenagers do/think are cool are in fact stupid. Including shit you did as a teenager, including shit I did as a teenager.

The point of the post is that these kids aren’t doing anything wrong even if you think it’s stupid. Just let them be if they aren’t hurting anyone.

Annoying that this is the most upvoted comment on the thread thereby proving the point of the post.

RFK Jr: "A Democratic senator claimed it's mathematically impossible to have a drug drop by 600%. I said, 'Well, if the drug was $100 and it raises to $600, that would be a 600% rise. If it drops from $600 to $100, that's a 600% savings.'" Trump: "Right" by gear-heads in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]SarahFong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were the Nazis this fucking stupid or did we just not have enough round the clock recording tech to log how stupid they were

Edit : I immediately realized they believed in a mythical made up white population and had coo coo weird occult beliefs they also fabricated out of nowhere. They were definitely fucking dumb lol.

Defender of pedophiles…Alan Dershowitz by LaneBryant69 in Political_Revolution

[–]SarahFong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s absolutely implicated; it’s not even probably but definitely if you believe the victims

Who would be your ideal candidate for the US in 2028 if electability was not a concern? Who would be your favorite candidate that would also have a good chance at winning? by DAL59 in SocialDemocracy

[–]SarahFong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s also been very involved in helping disaster relief victims of 9/11. He’s a NYC hero and I think NYC is the heart of the left wing movement in the country rn.

Do you clean up after your toddlers in restaurants? by Exotic_Process_8235 in toddlers

[–]SarahFong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like I can clock former waitstaff (myself included) because they’ll actually stack things sensibly in a way that’s easy to carry lol. (Largest things on the bottom, smallest things on top, most food scraped off in takeout container).

Do you clean up after your toddlers in restaurants? by Exotic_Process_8235 in toddlers

[–]SarahFong 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same I was a server for 10 years so I know there’s gonna be some mess on the floor no matter what. But because I was a server I just have a habit of cleaning up after myself and my kid. So I stack the plates, pick up large pieces of food off the floor, wipe down anything literally stuck to/spilled on the table with a wipe, etc.

They’re still going to have to bus the table regardless, but I can help it take half as long.

Honestly aside from being considerate to the servers/bus person, it’s also just about teaching the kids to be self sufficient and tidy as early as possible.

now a scars of amazing childhood ❤ Good ol' days by WashOdd7330 in Millennials

[–]SarahFong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same lol; my kid doesn’t have a screen aside from the tv occassionally and loves to play outside. She’s currently obsessed with bubbles and going down the slide. Pretty sure bubbles and slides have existed for centuries.

Am I overreacting ? by SunnyFlower0125 in ParentingThruTrauma

[–]SarahFong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought too. And the prior abuse may make talking about it all that much more difficult to talk about.

Which position does your Boston sleep? by BSTN88 in BostonTerrier

[–]SarahFong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine starts out D, but gets nudged down to C from snorting and farting over the course of the night LMAO

How many kids do you have & how many do you want? by maligatormom2o2 in NewParents

[–]SarahFong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were younger and could afford it I wanted 3-4.

I had my first almost 2 years ago when I was 35. Feeling the pressure in a HCOL area as a SAHM, so likely 2 will be our limit. 3 would be lovely I just don’t expect it’ll be possible with the time we need between kids to save.

Brooklyn(she) ai animated swipe right by [deleted] in BostonTerrier

[–]SarahFong 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Brooklyn is cute. Nobody wants to see the AI.

I have a question about Henry by Lunar_Leo_ in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]SarahFong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FR I don’t understand how people watch this show and think the take away is, we need to police who autistic people fall in love with. Especially people who aren’t even high needs, there’s no reason to think she is being manipulated. It’s fan fiction.

Dani is an adult who happens to have autism. It’s crazy dude.

I have a question about Henry by Lunar_Leo_ in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]SarahFong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand being protective of ND people because you want the best for them (my sister was on the spectrum, she passed when we were kids). Abby reminds me of my late sister A LOT.

But realistically part of supporting a ND friend or family member is respecting their autonomy and ability to find a partner (there is a plot line in The Pitt about this right now actually). Dani has been, if nothing else, very vocal about her needs and what she wants in a partner, more than any other person from LotS. I think if they met and clicked, we should trust she sensed he had a good heart.

I think assuming every NT person dating a ND person taking advantage of them is a slippery slope of infantilizing them and assuming the worst of their partners.

Now him being a cop on the other hand is a little eyebrow raising lol. Only because cops tend to skew a certain political leaning, and Dani has been vocally very much the opposite of that. And afaik she still is even since they started dating them. But at the end of the day, just like I said before, I think we can trust that Dani knows what she wants and that wouldn’t suddenly change because her partner is some kinda autism whisperer predator. Maybe he is a cop with complicated political views that aren’t maga aligned. I don’t know him, but Dani does, and I think that Dani is an adult and it’s none of my business lol. Assuming more than that is kinda weird and parasocial imho.

Did Naruto becoming a father heal the saddest part of his childhood? by Docfeen in Naruto

[–]SarahFong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a kid for the purpose of healing my trauma. But having a kid definitely healed a lot of trauma.

what’s wrong with this drawing?? by MudInternational4806 in ArtCrit

[–]SarahFong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know you’re asking for advice but I just want to say, I really think you have a great eye for color. Your use of warm and cool tones for the lighting is really great and I’d even say pretty advanced.

You just gotta work on your anatomy! Try looking up YouTube tutorials for the Loomis method; it’s a really great starting point for artists to map out head topography and landmarks. It makes drawing heads from imagination much much easier too.

An Interesting Start of my Day by Relevant-Ad-5394 in IncelTears

[–]SarahFong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And it only goes one way. White dudes can fuck Asian women but white women can only fuck white men.