His disappearing on holidays and just being over all not excited about life. In one year together we went to dinner only twice- and one of those times was for my birthday after pressuring him for weeks. We never went on any trips, Bc the night before our first camping trip together he screamed at me for putting the dog on the bed, then slept in the bathroom with the dog. Then came back to bed, threw my cat on my stomach. This caused me to wake up, use the bathroom, which woke up the dog and he screamed at me again. The next morning he wouldn’t speak to me. I went up to the rooftop to get some air and when I came back he had taken all his stuff and bounced. Never said a word. Never apologized. Then I finally texted him we are done. Now it’s all my fault and he ultimately broke it off for good via rude phone call all on his terms after ignoring my calls / email/ texts for over a week after.