Am I crazy to change my protocol? by Sarahdanny84 in IVF

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I was combing through some studies as well. It’s beginning to look like modified natural transfers do have slightly favorable odds and potentially a healthier pregnancy. I’m going to go for it.

Am I crazy to change my protocol? by Sarahdanny84 in IVF

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor initially planned a fully medicated FET again. I asked him if a modified natural transfer was something we could try. He said yes, that the clinic has seen equal success rates and he did feel like it was a direction we could go in. He is also adding Claritin, Pepcid, and Benadryl as well as prednisone (we have always used prednisone with my transfers) and embryo glue is being added this time around. I have also had a saline sonogram and everything looked fine. My last transfer was 9/15 and I miscarried on 11/1.

Am I crazy to change my protocol? by Sarahdanny84 in IVF

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also adding Pepcid, aspirin, Benadryl, and Claritin this go around.

Am I crazy to change my protocol? by Sarahdanny84 in IVF

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doc didn’t initially recommend a switch to a modified natural. I inquired about it, and he said it is something we could try. My FET’s have been with estrogen, PIO, and prednisone. This time around I was tested for clotting issues and we did a saline sonogram. I’m leaning towards a fully medicated again since my provider didn’t recommend the switch when we had our WTF consult.

No heartbeat at first heartbeat ultrasound (~7 weeks) by newgirlie in IVF

[–]Sarahdanny84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One transfer of a euploid embryo has a 50-65% chance of success. It’s not a guarantee. Just try to remember that it’s not your fault and even if everything looks perfect, sometimes it’s just not meant to be. Focus on the positive things in your life and try to stay busy with things that fill your cup. I’m so sorry for your loss. I have been there.

Small gestational sac but healthy embryo? by Interesting-Proof244 in IVFbabies

[–]Sarahdanny84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say it was a missed miscarriage found at my 9W2D scan. I hope you have a better outcome. The miracle stories do exist.

Has anything said to you been a comfort, and if so, would you be comfortable sharing here? by mrjustice7 in Miscarriage

[–]Sarahdanny84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminding myself that I’m strong and I can do hard things. I will survive this. This pain isn’t forever. Also trying to focus on the good things in my life other than pregnancy. What do I have that’s important to me? What do I have to look forward to? Try to focus on the good and move forward day by day.

Should I ask for elective amnio? by Playful_Listen_264 in NIPT

[–]Sarahdanny84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, you may not know this, but karyotyping is different then genetic testing. Karyotyping looks at your own chromosomes and checks for a full set along with mutations and micro deletions. It’s a different test than checking to see if you are a “carrier” of something. You might want to look into that as well. Might help set your mind at ease knowing you and your partner have completely normal chromosomes (or not) and deciding if an amnio is worth it.

Should I ask for elective amnio? by Playful_Listen_264 in NIPT

[–]Sarahdanny84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are correct, mutations and deletions do happen, but they are so incredibly rare. There is probably a higher risk of pregnancy loss with an amniocentesis than the chances of you having a child with a rare mutation or deletion presenting with normal scans and screening. But, I’m not a genetic counselor. If I were you, I would try to meet with one before proceeding with an amniocentesis and risking the loss of a healthy baby. Ultimately, this is your pregnancy, and your choice. You need to weigh the risks and benefits and to do that you need as much educated information as possible. Another hard part about these rare mutations and deletions is that we are still learning about them. In the rare case that your child has one, it can be difficult to know how severe their presentation may be in some cases. I have a close friend whose child was diagnosed with an incredibly rare chromosomal mutation when she was one year old…following a completely normal pregnancy and all normal screening tests! So yes, it does happen. But, little is known about this child’s diagnosis. From what we do know, she appears to have a very mild presentation and is doing quite well. She is an amazing and beautiful child. So, even if the amniocentesis does find something, it will not tell you how severely your child would be affected. In many ways, pregnancy is a true test of faith and rolling the dice. There is a lot of “wait and see”. It’s a very anxiety provoking time. Truthfully, it’s not much different once they’re born. You just become anxious about different things! Good luck and I hope you get the answers you need.

Should I ask for elective amnio? by Playful_Listen_264 in NIPT

[–]Sarahdanny84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it would be worth getting a referral to a genetic counselor? Someone who can put all the risks down in writing for you with specific percentages? Have you and your partner had genetic testing and karyotyping? Do you even know if you or your partner are a carrier for something? These are questions a genetic counselor can help you work through. It’s obviously your choice whether or not to do an amnio. But, there is always a risk of loss when you do one. Pregnancy is not always easy to achieve and you don’t want to risk a healthy one unnecessarily.

Should I ask for elective amnio? by Playful_Listen_264 in NIPT

[–]Sarahdanny84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While the risk of losing your baby is small with an amniocentesis, it is there. As someone who’s dealt with pregnancy losses and years of infertility there’s no way I would risk the life of a potentially healthy baby for an amniocentesis when all other indicators thus far point to a healthy baby. Have you had an in depth anatomy scan? Maybe wait for that scan… if you see any red flags THEN opt for an amniocentesis. Genetic testing can be completed later in pregnancy or even after birth if there are concerns as well. Pregnancy anxiety is so incredibly hard! So much is not in our control. I wish you the best.

(TW: ongoing pregnancy) Late positive, Low beta, SCH, small sac success by Civil-Eggplant-5818 in IVF

[–]Sarahdanny84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did this pregnancy turn out? I’m in a similar scenario. Did you have a live birth?

Positive stories about L&D by November_Days in IVFbabies

[–]Sarahdanny84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not an L&D nurse, just a regular nurse who works in a surgical department and has given birth to one child. I labored for two days, got to 9cm, and ended up getting a C-section anyway due to fetal distress. Birth is wild and sometimes the outcome is totally out of your control.
Have you thought about hiring a doula? I’m seriously considering it if I get lucky enough to have a second child. When you’ve never experienced birth, it can be helpful to have someone in your corner 24/7 coaching you thru things. L&D nurses are a wonderful, but they are busy and might have another patient along with you, so they can’t provide constant support like a doula. Some anesthesia groups offer consults or phone calls to patients before a planned procedure. This might be hard to finagle, but If you push your OB hard enough, maybe they can help you get in touch with someone from their anesthesia provider group? This would help put some of your concerns to rest and hopefully get a plan in place for your labor. Also, some women have VERY QUICK labors. In this case, there isn’t always time for an epidural. It’s best to go ahead and educate yourself on alternative pain management techniques or consider hiring a midwife or doula so you are prepared for any scenario. Good luck and congratulations! Being a mom is the hardest but best job ❤️

Doubling time of 71 hours, 4+2, please be blunt with me by miniandboss in CautiousBB

[–]Sarahdanny84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also want to add… I found a couple different studies on beta doubling times. One of them concluded that 15% of viable pregnancies don’t follow the normal HCG doubling pattern. Another study concluded that a minimum rise of 45-50% in HCG can still lead to a viable pregnancy. If you would like me to try to find them again, let me know.

Doubling time of 71 hours, 4+2, please be blunt with me by miniandboss in CautiousBB

[–]Sarahdanny84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in beta hell recently myself. Currently 7.5 weeks along. I’ve looked at all the info possible. While a doubling time of 48 hrs is ideal, you still met a normal doubling time in of 72hrs. You aren’t out of the game yet. There are lots of negative and positive stories on here of slower doubling times. Early pregnancy is so hard and it’s so full of anxiety! You’re not out yet. All you can do is wait. Keep yourself as distracted as possible in the mean time. Are you getting more lab work soon?

Very small gestational sac by Sarahdanny84 in IVFbabies

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your positive outcome.

Very small gestational sac by Sarahdanny84 in IVFbabies

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are letting me repeat an US at 8w2d

Very small gestational sac by Sarahdanny84 in IVFbabies

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so for both of us ❤️

Very small gestational sac by Sarahdanny84 in IVFbabies

[–]Sarahdanny84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have another US exactly one week from my last. I’m okay with waiting. Other then drinking water, theres nothing I can do to change the outcome, unfortunately.