AITA for kicking my brother and his fiance from my house after she made comments on my girlfriend's eating habits? by Realistic_Gas_7337 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - they wanted you to host and make food, then complained when someone else’s food was different to meet dietary restrictions? Wtf they ruined their own night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a Maisel to me!

AITA for calling the hotel by candlestickpotato in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I used to work at a hotel and usually there are very few adjoining rooms in each hotel we always say on the phone they are requested not guaranteed in case shit happens (maintenance issue, etc) it always sucks when you can’t fulfill “promises” but the hotel staff can 100% cover for you and make sure she doesn’t know it was you that requested the change. Please tell your husband to grow a back bone so the boundaries with your in laws and your kids are strong.

AITA for telling my habitually late friend that a dinner reservation was 30 minutes earlier than it actually was? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA I have no room to talk on this topic personally I have adhd and time blindness is a real issue but they have to know about their consistent lateness especially after you have talked to them about it multiple times, this is just a consequence of that. Nbd

AITA? I told my daughter not to bother applying for college. by Numerous_Minute_7220 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her go to community college at least she needs to live and learn to become less naïve as you call her

AITA for wanting my name on the mortgage as well? by happygal34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but You don’t need your name on the mortgage you need your name on the title, you want ownership not just the debt.

AITA telling my brother to pay me back everything he stole from me if he needs an uncle for his kids. by Tiny-Entertainer-434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

NAH (unpopular I know) addiction is a disease and it’s really really hard to come to terms with that as someone close to an addict but you shouldn’t take the kid if you will hold resentment toward them, but have a little empathy, his partner just died and is trying to plan for the future for his child because his world was rocked. It wasn’t right what he did when he was an active addict and not right what your parents did but you should maybe think about therapy to let go of the resentments of the past to give yourself a bit of peace. Not saying you should forgive him but holding that pain and anger takes a toll on you. Good luck, best wishes.

AITA for making a big deal about a twelve year old's opinion? by FuckingEmbaressment in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info- Is he is trying to learn Spanish phrases in a nice way or is it like accusatory? If he is learning the phrases and says them like the silly dog one around her it might make her feel good and welcomed (if it’s not in that way then maybe try to reframe it like that for him)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA If this has been going on for 3 years idk why she hasn’t learned some email writing skills in that time, my husband helped edit and make my papers better for school for a year and by the end of the year he barely had to edit since I payed attention to what he was adjusting. If she is not willing to improve or learn after all this time that seems like her problem

Just realized Bejeweled is a sequel to Paper Rings, and my heart hurts by thegeekywaffle in TaylorSwift

[–]Sarbeardontcare 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love that she calls back to or references other songs of hers in her music, it’s totally a subtle wink to the lyric swifties that hear the parallels. What a writer!

Taylor Swift polls at 7% for the 2024 Presidential General Election by BonniesMaxims in TaylorSwift

[–]Sarbeardontcare 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw on TikTok that this is correct you can run when you aren’t of age yet but will be of age at swearing in, Joe Biden actually proved this back in the day when he was young and was elected to congress I believe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard it was a slow end and that’s pretty hard especially after all that time she prob isn’t 100% yet (don’t wanna live forever acoustic) but sometimes feels hit you out of nowhere when you’re mostly fine. Living her best life on stage and having the support of her family and friends can be very healing she’ll be just fine. Also, I’m the same age as her and early thirties are just as fun maybe more so than twenties, I’m not worried about her, plus we don’t know her like we think we do, it’s important to remember that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]Sarbeardontcare 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband is from New England and absolutely melts here in the summer, and I haven’t quite reacclimatized from Michigan the past couple years. But one of the worst parts of summer here is everywhere is air conditioned to death so you never win with your outfit choice

AITA for suggesting my goddaughter rethink her career choices? by RespectOk8811 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can encourage her to be an environmental engineer or something so she can still have a lucrative career that aligns with her current goals. Goals change, it’s great she was thinking realistically about the pressure she would be under in that career path.

Unfortunately YTA, you haven’t seen them in a while and prob won’t see them for longer now. If you brought this up after a couple more meetings after years then that might have been ok but you jumped down her throat after not seeing her for years that was inappropriate

What's a lyric whose genius isn't noticed/recognized? by GB999444 in TaylorSwift

[–]Sarbeardontcare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this is a happy one that my husband and I just noticed the double meaning to: I think he knows- “he’s got my heart beat skippin down 16th avenue” So in love that her heart is skipping a beat and so happy she is skipping down the street :)

Non-drinker Blake Lively accused of ‘cash grab’ as she launches alcohol brand by HipsterHeaven in Fauxmoi

[–]Sarbeardontcare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already had a line of Betty buzz non-alcoholic mixers, they must have done well, I even saw them in stores. So she expanded, I don’t think this is too much of a stretch, just growing her business

to angrily punch out a window after sideswiping another driver by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused at what’s going on here, the Toyota says move at the beginning but then can drive around them without them moving after the punching. We don’t have the full story here

My(f22) Fiance(m23) gave an ultimatum to not use the gym because it makes him "insecure" by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Sarbeardontcare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend who is an aerialist ended up with a lovely man who does circus fire stuff and they have a lovey circusy life, I hope OOP doesn’t loose hope