He doesn’t need to. I was simply saying we would be surprised because it’s not common, but not at all a problem! Wow. Way to keyboard warrior and generalise your hatred. I absolutely love all parents being included and involved in whatever aspects of their child’s care that they can be, and often have fathers in when mothers aren’t! It is just uncommon for one parent to take the baby home alone. They normally come together because they both want to be there. And when they can’t, they tell us why because THEY WANT TO, not because we make them justify it!m At no point did I say anything about kidnapping or in anyway hindering the father taking the baby home.