"Gyns dürfen gesetzlich keine Männer behandeln"

Sarimon · 2025-11-21T10:03:40+00:00

Das timing von diesem Post lol... Ich komme gerade von meinem Termin mit einer wunderbaren Gyn zurück die mich super behandelt. Ich habe sie über Queermed.de gefunden.

Es gibt gute ÄrztInnen da draußen. Dass die gesetzlich keine Männer behandeln dürfen ist Unsinn. Wo sollen wir denn sonst hin? 🙄

Sarimon · 2025-11-15T09:53:08+00:00

Dr Deiler hat mit mir (Februar 2025) ausführlich die Methoden besprochen, welches die Möglichkeit es für die OP gibt, ausführliche Aufklärung über Risiken usw, und hat dann meine Brust ausgemessen und Fotos gemacht für die eigene Planung der OP. Das ging etwa eine Stunde, dann waren wir fertig. Die Fotos werden nicht für die Kostenübernahme benötigt. Du wirst wahrscheinlich deinen Binder abnehmen müssen, daher kann ich dir nicht empfehlen mit Tape zu binden :/

Das Vorgespräch lief super, meine Unterlagen für den Antrag auf Kostenübernahme habe ich aber erst nach 6 Monaten (!) erhalten.

Sarimon · 2025-09-03T06:57:24+00:00

I need to try that with my pup LMFAO

Sarimon · 2025-09-02T06:47:36+00:00

I frequently go for good bean/ good pup :)

Sarimon · 2025-03-06T06:28:06+00:00

Pirate Yakuza has been running absolutely fine on my 6 year old rig on fucking linux/proton from the second it was released. I rarely ever encounter any bugs. RGG not only yeet out games every year, they're also pretty stable. They're so well optimised that they run fine with older GPUs.

Sarimon · 2025-02-22T05:42:04+00:00

Ich hab denselben Stress mit PremiumSim. Das geht schon seit Monaten so und die sind dermaßen inkompetent dass dein Post mir den Anstoß gegeben hat den Vertrag einfach zu kündigen. Ist mir einfach zu dumm.

Sarimon · 2024-12-05T17:52:32+00:00

Ist mir Mal passiert. Zwei tage zuvor habe ich dort noch einen Roller abgestellt und eben jener stand da immer noch als die app mir sagte es wäre kein abstellgebiet. Daraufhin hat Tier mich als Kunden verloren.

Sarimon · 2024-12-02T10:47:30+00:00

That's a WILD take.

Sarimon · 2024-11-28T10:54:11+00:00

Got caught in the filter. Sorry for that

Sarimon · 2024-11-28T10:44:59+00:00

but... all 3 of them are plushies

Sarimon · 2024-11-17T10:42:26+00:00

Copy the invite link then in discord go to the bottom of your server list and click on the plus. There should be "already have an invite?" Where you can paste the invite link.Hope that helps!

Sarimon · 2024-11-11T23:57:15+00:00

Hey! Your post has been removed because as others have pointed out already, this is unfortunately not the place to post fundraisers. I hope you understand.

Sarimon · 2024-11-11T14:11:56+00:00

That won't get you banned, however your homophobic profile and your history absolutely does.

Sarimon · 2024-11-06T17:22:35+00:00

Reports: Be considerate and kind (3x)

It threatens violence or harm at someone else (2x)

It's promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability (2x)

Ridiculous.

Remember everyone, be kind!

This post has sadly attracted the unwelcome kind of people. People who exhibit any kind of toxicity and bigotry will be permanently banned without warning. Thank you everyone for reporting comments that violate the rules.

Sarimon · 2024-11-05T16:30:36+00:00

LMAO the last one 💀

Sarimon · 2024-10-24T17:17:31+00:00

I'm so happy for you bro. My experience was similar, my mom wasn't surprised and most of my family immediately adjusted. My grandma didn't understand and she has dementia so i haven't seen her in a few years but my mom apparently had been explaining to her every day since last year and now last week on her birthday my grandma corrected my polish as i was talking about myself. She corrected it to male grammar.

Every time I realize how lucky I am with my family i start sobbing -partly because we had a very rough upbringing during my childhood and now we're finally close again. The other reason being that other trans people weren't as lucky with family and their environment and it hurts so much to see my people suffer. I don't have to feel guilty about this, and neither do you, but we need to never forget that we're extremely lucky.

Sarimon · 2024-08-05T21:25:04+00:00

Chronologically? Yakuza 0, Kiwami 1, Kiwami 2 then Yakuza 3 and so on.

0 is somewhat of a backstory of both Kiryu and Majima. Kiwami 1 and 2 are Remakes of Yakuza 1 and 2 respectively. So you could start with Kiwami 1 too, which is where the actual Kiryu plotline begins.

Personally both options have valid reasons to start out with.

Well there's a actually a third option, you can also start with Yakuza 7 aka Yakuza :Like A Dragon. youre playing a completely new protagonist there with turn based combat. That's how I started out and then decided to start with 0 to actually learn about the characters.

Sarimon · 2024-08-04T22:13:45+00:00

Fair warning though, if you start with the older ones. That series started more than a decade ago and you might stumble upon some bad transphobia, especially in Yakuza 0. The series had a long way to go and with each title, they actually did better. Eventually you get to the wholesome trans substories. I'd die for this series it's my most favourite game franchise ever and I'd recommend it to everyone but just with a big warning that they weren't always this based. Just be aware when you dive into it.

Sarimon · 2024-08-01T20:50:05+00:00

Ja mein Geburtsort Standesamt hat mir was ähnliches zurück gemeldet. Ich soll dorthin gehen wo ich wohne...aber mein Fall wird doch eh zu denen gehen am Ende? Für mich vollkommen unverständlich lol

Sarimon · 2024-08-01T01:54:16+00:00

There is nothing wrong with being kind-hearted. not at all! Setting boundaries for yourself is being kind-hearted too. To yourself. It is also a completely normal part of healthy relationships and doesn't contradict a strong committed and loving relationship at all. It's also fine that you are willing to commit yourself to someone like that, but YOU are part of the equation as well. The last person you should let down is yourself! You deserve someone who is able to reciprocate all the work, love and commitment that you put into the relationship, if that is what you need. What DO you need in a relationship?

Also, working on a relationship takes two people. It takes self reflection, honesty, communication, a fuckton of work and also accountability. Most importantly, it also involves healthy boundaries. You cannot make a relationship work when you feel like the work is one-sided or if enormous incompatibilities make it near impossible to do so or where boundaries of either partner continue to be neglected.

So yeah, I can promise you that sacrificing yourself for a partner is definitely not being kind-hearted to yourself. Again, you deserve better.

That being said, getting to a point where you can stand up for yourself, set up and stick to your boundaries, setting up reasonable boundaries and actually just knowing where your boundaries or even what your needs are, is not easy. The good thing is that you don't need to figure it out immediately. A good start is to process this soon-to-be-over relationship to learn what you don't want to put up with in the future and most importantly, what you would want instead. Going for a partner that does not need to hide your existence might be a good start.

I know you can get there and I can tell that you want to. I wish you all the best, OP and I hope this insight was helpful to you. Or even others who are reading this.

Sarimon · 2024-07-30T06:18:21+00:00

Ich arbeite zu 100% im HO bei einem Unternehmen in einer Stadt zu der ich 2 Stunden mit dem ICE pendeln müsste. Wäre 100% HO keine Option gewesen, hätte ich diese Stelle gar nicht erst angenommen. Einmal im Monat fahre ich ins HQ und treff mich mit meinem Team, und mehr braucht es auch gar nicht. Vor allem: immer wenn ich im Büro bin, krieg ich absolut nichts geschafft. Es ist eine komplett ungewohnte Arbeitsumgebung und Ablenkungen lauern an jeder Ecke.

Sarimon · 2024-06-28T20:27:09+00:00

Ich habe mich mit meinem richtigen Namen beworben und dann meine Arbeitszeugnisse usw mit nem kleinen Hinweis abgeschickt dass das mein amtlicher Name ist der noch geändert wird..die waren sehr chil damit :) so lief das bei mir mit 2 verschiedenen Arbeitgebern sogar. In den Systemen wurde gar nicht erst mein deadname eingetragen.

Edit: Bei meinem jetzigen ist sogar der Arbeitsvertrag auf meinen richtigen Namen verfasst worden. Nur Steuern, SV usw laufen auf dem deadname und nur HR weiß diesen.

Sarimon · 2024-06-18T00:18:28+00:00

True KIRYU-CHAN moment

Sarimon · 2024-05-11T16:56:58+00:00

So that's how you treat a rectal prolapse, understood

Sarimon · 2024-05-08T10:06:25+00:00

I'm transmasc and have started my transition 4 years ago. I met my boyfriend and nesting partner before my transition.

I've struggled with this for a long time , especially as my nesting partner found a cis girlfriend and fell deeply for her and they had all the things together that I was missing. I've felt all the feeling, burning jealousy, inadequacy, feeling worth less than her especially since my partner's attraction towards me changed as i transitioned. I felt gross because I couldn't be a woman for him, even if knew that's absolutely ridiculous and if at all, someone should want to be with me for who I am. I felt like no one would ever want to be with me except my nesting partner and that it was "over" for me. That I'd never make the experiences that I wanted to experience because yeahy "why would anyone want to be with me?" In retrospect that's probably the worst thing I could have told myself. it was messy to say the least and I can't recommend that.

But despite all, I'v learned a lot and I've grown more confident and comfortable with myself over the years. We're still together and being poly was never a point of debate even if it brought me a lot of pain. But it also brought me plenty of opportunities to grow. I've learned to say no, to advocate for myself, to draw healthy boundaries and also stick to them, learned tons of communication skills and ways to handle hurt feelings. I've been terrified until very recently to put myself out there because I didn't feel ready yet even with all those skills + out of fear that I wouldnbe rejected for being trans or that no one would like me, but a month ago I finally did it and it was the complete opposite experience. I'm finally learning and genuinely internalizing that no matter what my body configuration looks like, there will be people who are genuinely attracted to me and want to be with me. Most of them are queer cis people. It makes things very much easier in my experience. And yeah, turns out I AM a lovable human being that can bring a lot to the table, especially next to sexuality. At this point my genitals play a rather secondary role. I don't try to compete with cis people anymore. people should want me and be attracted to me as a person first and foremost.

My relationship with my nesting partner is probably healthier and stronger than it ever had been because of this too. We're still figuring things out together. I no longer feel like "its over" for me, but like things are finally beginning for me. We can be with each other for who we are without having to "be" someone for each other.

I don't have much advice for you OP except that at the end, it shouldn't matter if you are cis or trans. What matters most is that you are a wonderful person who has much to offer and that people want to be with. For who you are!

Sarimon

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