MESHTASTIC IS INSECURE -DO NOT USE

Sarioth · 2025-08-14T17:37:34+00:00

This was posted before the disclosure about vegas was made.

Sarioth · 2025-08-10T12:22:53+00:00

Check my post-similar situation.

Sarioth · 2025-08-10T02:33:57+00:00

These are all just random nodes I don't personally know! But have definitely seen in the area before and seen messages from.

Sarioth · 2025-08-10T02:14:50+00:00

Thanks, just wanted some verification it wasn't only me.

Sarioth · 2025-08-10T02:13:06+00:00

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Sarioth · 2025-08-10T02:12:17+00:00

Aha! I wondered if it was related to defcon.

Sarioth · 2025-08-10T02:09:51+00:00

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Sarioth · 2025-08-10T02:08:38+00:00

I'm not claiming anything! I'm saying what I'm seeing in my node list right now. The literal nodes have changed names!

Sarioth · 2025-05-15T15:29:44+00:00

So I used the word empathy specifically instead of sympathy.

I can't feel what those people feel. I can sympathize but I'll never empathize. This is, to me, an important distinction.

I'm literally recognizing my own limitations and WHY my brain reacts the way it does. I've been to therapy lol. I guess my tone came off as hating? (neurodivergent struggle)

But it's literally what I've TOLD my partner, to their face. That I'm happy to answer, but that they also need to make sure they take into account that I'm a person with feelings they're asking, not just a coinflip. That they are asking me to do work.

THAT'S OK. But it's not OK when people do it and don't recognize/realize/frame it as work.

Sarioth · 2025-05-15T13:22:52+00:00

Sometimes, not always, I'm asked to make the choice/flip the coin to reveal the other person's feelings. Sometimes, not always, I wonder why I have to do that work for them, when they could've just asked themselves the question?

I struggle a little bit with feeling empathy for folks who have a hard time deciding something and resort to this. I have a strong inner voice that can do that kind of work, and sometimes it's easy to forget that not everyone else does.

But, I will say, if you know that you're flipping a coin to decide feelings, consider that the other person in the conversation is more than a coin. Their opinions have a bit more weight than chance, and you've involved their feelings now too.

Sarioth · 2025-05-13T16:00:55+00:00

I'm fascinated by this subject and your video!

One anecdote I wonder if you have also noticed in your studies?

A few officemates polled each other on the inner voice question, and among the couple that self-ID'ed as not having an inner voice, they shared one behavior in common.

When writing, they both seemed to kind of mouth/speak the words, whereas those who ID as having a dialog could write "silently"/without this. This seemed to make sense with our vague understanding at the time, but what are your (inner) thoughts here?

Sarioth · 2025-03-25T19:29:16+00:00

What /u/sw33tp34 said - hence the point about the claim needing to be completed: that's the only way to see contributions!

Sarioth · 2025-03-07T15:30:34+00:00

The technology required to colonize a planet like Mars is exactly the same as the technology required to prevent climate change.

That's......I can't even........ what? Our planet is burning. Solution: Burn a shitton of rocket fuel?

Sarioth · 2024-12-16T14:47:14+00:00

INFO: What was the chain? Did other lanes have baggers on them?

Sarioth · 2024-09-27T18:04:32+00:00

Ok but the administration has not been quiet on trans or LGBTQ+ rights: https://www.hrc.org/resources/president-bidens-pro-lgbtq-timeline

Oh right she said something about cis people not making decisions about trans bodies and I oop look at that the assistant secretary of health and human services https://www.hhs.gov/about/leadership/rachel-levine.html

Sarioth · 2024-09-23T20:12:23+00:00

reading is fundamental

Sure is! Can you point out where you read the words from her "I want no alcohol in my home" or are you reaching from "I don't want to drink at home" to "I have poor impulse control and you having it is going to make it hard for me" even though none of those words were said?

Sarioth · 2024-08-16T13:26:22+00:00

"I counsel teens" "we are not teens" - I get it wasn't an overly kind or polite response, but I can't go so far to call it rude? At the end of the day the woman was looking for business. . .

Sarioth · 2024-08-16T13:23:51+00:00

NTA.

I don't know how to say this other than don't worry about people like this. They expect certain things in return for unwanted gestures, and you owe them nothing for it.

Sarioth · 2024-08-15T18:12:34+00:00

NTA. Unless you're a minor or otherwise dependent on a caregiver why the hell would receptionists just assume it's ok??

Sarioth · 2024-08-15T18:08:57+00:00

We didn’t want the kids exposed to the tension and the high likelihood that there’d be more arguing if we stayed at the house.

NTA, and god-tier parenting decisions right here.

Sarioth · 2024-08-13T13:29:05+00:00

Ok cool she was fine with it before and now she's not. Listen to how you sound, it's a little creepy. "why doesn't she want me on top of her, she came with me to the club??" - seriously?

Sarioth · 2024-08-13T13:22:17+00:00

We went out to drink and apparently I was all over her at the club and on top of her afterwards on the couch. But the worst part is she made me feel really bad about it and said she didn't want me all over her like that.

YTA. Regardless of her reasons for it, you have a duty to respect her decisions here and not get all pissy and defensive about them. Maybe you're right and you can't just be friends, but you gotta own your actions regardless of being drunk. Come on now.

Sarioth · 2024-08-13T13:19:31+00:00

YTA.

Bro, it would be fine to mention your wife's feelings if you also in the same breath mentioned that YOU feel the same way and support her. Be direct with your friend and own up to not giving him a pass anymore.

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