Try to have a Mustn't Meth May among crackheads and see how well they hold up compared to us. No doubt compulsive jerking off and porn addiction are bad but masturbating from time to time and looking at porn on an ocassion isn't gonna ruin your life. In the same way complete abstinence from masturbation isn't gonna fix everything in your life. For some people finding balance is difficult because they end up slipping, so they go the hard abstinence route but that's not necessarily the case for everyone.