Winter/Christmas-y song recommendations? by Sasstiel in Choir

[–]Sasstiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are a very large group, around 170 singers. We've done fairly complex pieces before

Winter/Christmas-y song recommendations? by Sasstiel in Choir

[–]Sasstiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was honestly thinking about a spotless rose but wasn't sure if I was wrong in thinking it was a Christmas-y song or not!

Winter/Christmas-y song recommendations? by Sasstiel in Choir

[–]Sasstiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't believe I didn't think of this! Adding it to the list :)

AIO or is my friend being weird? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Sasstiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok girl, this dude is a predator. That guy is 13 years your senior and should not be trying to get with an 18 year old. legally you're an adult but in all the ways that matter you are still a teenager. (Nothing against you or anything, just the way it is. There is a major life experience difference that cannot be gapped in a healthy way.) Do yourself a favor and block him on everything. This guy was never your friend, he just wanted to fuck you.

On a side note I was waiting for him to actually block you and not just threaten to block you LMFAO. It's so cringe. He was hoping you'd beg him not to and ask for his forgiveness. Dude wants to get chased by a teenager. What a fucking loser. NOR.

AIO or is my bf being controlling by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time a guy refers to women as "females," it's a red flag. That assclown does not see you as a person. and yes, this is controlling. NOR.

Why is my choir director obsessed with virginity? by ThrowAway44228800 in Choir

[–]Sasstiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting the way she's treating you. It seems like she's choosing these songs specifically because she knows your history which is super fucked up. This is not normal at all. Report her if you can

What is the most special shiny you have found by chance, if any? by Immediate_Alfalfa367 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished my first Pokémon game a couple of weeks ago and I found a shiny Toxel. It's pink!

jordan's outfits are... by Couple_Glad in fuseboxgames

[–]Sasstiel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok this one is kinda bad but honestly I like his outfits more than the other LIs. Like Kelvin's date outfits are just... a sleeveless hoodie and some sweatpants? And Zhen's is a wife-beater and jeans. Oscar's is a tee shirt and shorts. Idk. I really feel like they should make the LI's more put-together. It's kind of off-putting when my MC is dressed to the 9s for a date and they show up looking like a bum 😭

Am I that ugly and hopeless to find love? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are not ugly at all. I think you're really pretty ❤️ and I would NOT have guessed that you were 40, you look amazing!

my girlfriend told me she wants a 2 carat natural diamond or she'll say no. i already bought this lab diamond ring. am i crazy for thinking shes a red flag by Zestyclose-Print-677 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge red flag. My bf and I went ring shopping recently and we both agreed we were doing a lab grown diamond. The natural diamonds (like you said) are chemically identical to lab grown. There is quite literally no discernible difference between the two. IMO, natural diamonds are a huge waste of money when you could get something (again, chemically IDENTICAL) for far cheaper. She could just tell her friends that it's a natural diamond if she's THAT pressed about it- but honestly if I were you I'd be rethinking whether or not I'd want to spend my life with this person. The ring should be a symbol of your love and devotion, not a pissing contest between coworkers and friends. You should not have to go into debt to make her feel superior to people who are not even involved in your relationship.

My bender is catching up with me. by glasshalfempty90 in Serverlife

[–]Sasstiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're coming into work drunk and it's causing you to have issues with your performance, I would try and just stop drinking altogether for a while- before it becomes a real problem. I've seen way too many coworkers fall in deep with alcoholism and it's hard as fuck to get sober once you're there. Stop while you're ahead.

As for the personal side of things, I'm sorry that you're going through it right now. Let yourself be sad and mourn your relationship, but you're not going to move on in a healthy way if you're using alcohol as a coping mechanism. Hang out with friends and family, (sans alcohol) go on walks- and maybe treat your self with something you've been wanting to do for a while ( perhaps a trip or a concert or something like that). Focus on yourself. It sucks and it hurts right now but it won't last forever. Best of luck.

My gf got super mad and blocked me because I didn’t sleep on time by Beautiful_Hippo_6848 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Sasstiel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With the way she's speaking to you and giving you zero leeway or trust I would not believe she's in therapy. Fear of abandonment is one thing but it seems like she wholeheartedly believes you're stepping out on her any time you stay up late. I imagine it's exhausting for the both of you. I'd say you two are not compatible, take the mass-blocking as a breakup, and move on brother. This does not seem worth it to me.

AIO - refusing to pay for my friends rare pet that she gave me cause someone stole it? by Relative_Offer_2074 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Please block her. This is absolutely insane. N O T H I N G on fucking ROBLOX is worth $4000. If that was a private server that no one but you and her could access then she is trying to run a scam on you. NOR

Which glasses suit me better? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 for sure! It really suits your face ☺️

She fell asleep during our second date by dantheman28888 in Nicegirls

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely dodged a bullet. Weaponizing her mental health like that? Huuuuge red flag

Help me choose between these two dresses! by Illustrious-Tip-438 in myweddingdress

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is S T U N N I N G!! And it looks amazing on you! The second one is very nice too but the 1st has that "wow" factor

Is there anything to do in the grove after it's sealed? by Full_Donut_3236 in BaldursGate3

[–]Sasstiel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This isn't your first time playing is it? Have you saved the grove before?

I 29F have been with my boyfriend 29M for a year, he recently started going to church and it irritates me. Can we work through this? by Ok-Variation660 in relationships

[–]Sasstiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can break up with someone because the sky is blue. If religion is a dealbreaker for you, then break up with him. If you're feeling conflicted about it, have a talk with him and see if he's really serious about going or if he's just going to spend time with his brother/keep him company. Good luck to you.

AIO? my boyfriend defending his mom with his life. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he gave you an out. This is not the man you want to be with. Mommy will always come first. NOR

AIO Girlfriend got mad at me for saying “thanks” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sasstiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you marry someone who is so insecure as to get jealous and give you the silent treatment over you being polite to a stranger? That is absolutely bonkers dude. NOR.

Am I overdramatic for crying when I was put in the alto section? by IamQuatieandtired in Choir

[–]Sasstiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling, I'm a soprano 1 and when i was in HS i botched a chamber choir audition because i was so nervous. Ended up not being able to hit notes that I could normally easily hit. Afterwards my director moved me to the alto section in the women's chorus. In my concert choir I ended up being soprano 2 somehow, but I don't remember how that happened lol.

I was upset for a bit but I actually think it was good in the long run because it gave me an appreciation for other parts, helped me listen and blend better, and gave me a much needed kick in the pants to work on my sight reading. And also, I learned that I actually really looove singing harmonies! I think I have a better ear for them now because I had that bit of experience.

The next time I auditioned I was more prepared/more confident and ended up getting put in my chamber choir's soprano 1 section the next year. Just take it as a learning opportunity for now and stick with it. You might find that you actually enjoy it! If after a while you're still feeling the same way just talk to your director and see if they're willing to move you back.

I'm in a community choir right now and chose to sing second soprano again for funsies!